i get angry too much

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Mdizzle9000
Mdizzle9000 Members, Writer Posts: 8,319 ✭✭✭✭✭
edited June 2010 in For The Grown & Sexy
what can i do to manage my anger? what do you do when you want to refrain from blowing up and cursing out somebody(like your s/o)
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  • Darius
    Darius Members Posts: 22,649 ✭✭✭✭
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    take a xanax....
  • Dupac
    Dupac Members, Writer Posts: 68,365 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    weed or an anger management course....

    they actually help i took one before...
  • HustleTree
    HustleTree Members Posts: 2,526 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited June 2010
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    Smoke a blunt ...works every time
  • DaPrinciplez
    DaPrinciplez Members Posts: 1,148
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    I was gonna say get your ? sucked till I read the whole (like your s/o) part.....

    Hip Hop.....hip hop, my favorite songs can calm me down, as long as they the laid back ones (I mean your not gonna put on DMX or M.O.P to cool down are ya).......
  • Mdizzle9000
    Mdizzle9000 Members, Writer Posts: 8,319 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    dusouljah wrote: »
    weed or an anger management course....

    they actually help i took one before...

    whats that anger management course like? is it like the ? in movies?
  • akforty7
    akforty7 Members Posts: 3,654 ✭✭✭
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    Hitting a blunt always calms/slows me down
  • Dupac
    Dupac Members, Writer Posts: 68,365 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    whats that anger management course like? is it like the ? in movies?

    no i was talking about weed i took weed before....i don't know ? about them courses...i was just trying to be helpful....
  • hummingbird
    hummingbird Members, Banned Users Posts: 2,341 ✭✭
    edited June 2010
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    Run.

    Pick a route and jsut run.

    Somethings I learned from AM classes is picture a person's face that you have the utmost respect for on the other persons body. Its supposed to help you calm down.

    Count backwards from 100

    Take 3 very very deep long lslow breaths.


    But for me the one that works the best is running or jumping rope. sounds crazy but it works because you refocus your energy.
  • Kang_Solomon_Grundy
    Kang_Solomon_Grundy Members Posts: 2,005 ✭✭✭
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    matt- wrote: »
    take a xanax....
    dusouljah wrote: »
    weed or an anger management course....

    they actually help i took one before...
    HustleTree wrote: »
    Smoke a blunt ...works every time
    akforty7 wrote: »
    Hitting a blunt always calms/slows me down

    .....looks like we have a winner.....
  • Darius
    Darius Members Posts: 22,649 ✭✭✭✭
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    lol, you can't be out somewhere and get piissed off and just start rollin up.

    Carl Winslow used to say "3,2,1.....1,2,3...What the heck is bothering me" and that helped him deal w/ urkel
  • Dupac
    Dupac Members, Writer Posts: 68,365 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    naw i took a class before..they were talking about picking and choosing your battles, associating yourself with what you "animal" is...


    (i was a lion)


    but yea the ? 's weird.. they just made me feel like a little ass kid with absolute no control over his actions....i mean it was lame
  • aneed123
    aneed123 Members Posts: 23,763 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    just go take a walk or drive listening to music. what are stress relievers for u?
  • Kang_Solomon_Grundy
    Kang_Solomon_Grundy Members Posts: 2,005 ✭✭✭
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    matt- wrote: »
    lol, you can't be out somewhere and get piissed off and just start rollin up.

    Carl Winslow used to say "3,2,1.....1,2,3...What the heck is bothering me" and that helped him deal w/ urkel
    why not??????
  • Darius
    Darius Members Posts: 22,649 ✭✭✭✭
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    why not??????

    i got nothin.......
  • BiggMike
    BiggMike Members Posts: 140 ✭✭
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    When I get angry, I just say ? it and go somewhere else. Sometimes I just tune ? out if it starts making me angry (thinks that its unhealthy, but o well)
  • some_dude
    some_dude Members Posts: 180
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    video games, if that doesnt work then I go outside and work on the car. gotta have some relaxing hobby you like to do.
  • Skeratch
    Skeratch Members Posts: 1,395 ✭✭
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    Like other people said, smoking herb is nice and calming and listening to your favourite music is always good (both at the same times is great). Spending some time alone on a walk or a run is good too.

    I always find that doing something physical like playing soccer takes away a lot of built-up aggression and makes me more patient in my day-to-day work.
  • Mdizzle9000
    Mdizzle9000 Members, Writer Posts: 8,319 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    guess i better start smokin
  • Legend24
    Legend24 Members Posts: 689 ✭✭
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    Just think "What would Phil Jackson do?". That guy never loses his temper.
  • Mdizzle9000
    Mdizzle9000 Members, Writer Posts: 8,319 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Legend24 wrote: »
    Just think "What would Phil Jackson do?". That guy never loses his temper.

    i've seen him yell at some dudes
  • HustleTree
    HustleTree Members Posts: 2,526 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    i've seen him yell at some dudes

    Didnt he recently boot up on Chris Rock for ? with Kobe during the game
  • King Erauno
    King Erauno Members Posts: 6,754 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    i used to have a super temper when i was younger...i learned to suppress it. just when u feel urself getting angry walk away man....

    i was good for a few years...until my x brought the ? back out of me. i spazzed on her ass a few times.. well
  • Mdizzle9000
    Mdizzle9000 Members, Writer Posts: 8,319 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    in fact im going through some ? right now, like im really ? off to the point where i can physically feel myself being angry, like i wanna hit some1 or just go t sleep for a few days. too much ? on my mind i guess
  • Dupac
    Dupac Members, Writer Posts: 68,365 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    in fact im going through some ? right now, like im really ? off to the point where i can physically feel myself being angry, like i wanna hit some1 or just go t sleep for a few days. too much ? on my mind i guess

    half pint of jack daniels, and a dmx/onyx/m.o.p mix....

    then just swing until u exahust urself....

    if ur still alive and not in prision ..

    u'll feel better
  • Mdizzle9000
    Mdizzle9000 Members, Writer Posts: 8,319 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    dusouljah wrote: »
    half pint of jack daniels, and a dmx/onyx/m.o.p mix....

    then just swing until u exahust urself....

    if ur still alive and not in prision ..

    u'll feel better

    you're the only poster on here who i would take this seriously from because i know you tried it before