Are brothers getting tired of weaves?
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Muhannad
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Recently, on and offline, I've noticed that brothers seem to be getting tired of weaves. I see guys going off on weaves and the perceived attitude and insecurities that come along with it. I've seen dudes go off at females with weave on platforms like youtube with the type of venom that makes me scratch my head.
All in all, it seems that brothers with options don't wanna deal with that weave sh*t on a longterm basis. Some of the women even anticipated on this trend by 'going natural' or rocking a baldy a la Amber Rose.
There seems to be a backlash against weave. It seems like everyone has a problem with it because of varying reasons. So called pro-black dudes might feel females getting weaves is a sign of selfhate. They also seem to have a problem with all the money that's being spent at other non-black communities since they run that weave trade internationally. I've noticed that regular dudes have practical objections to weave like the cost, the practicality, the smell after a few days (these chicks don't wash their weaves), the females not wanting to do anything because of that (I can't go outside when it rains, can't workout or do anything that make me sweat etc.). Then you got dudes who feel like they might as well get the 'original' instead of dealing with the artificial.
In almost every race/ ethnicity, men get to dictate how women should look. Northern European men like their women slim and with big brests, so their women generally conform to it. Asian men like their women docile and sweet, so their women generally conform to that. Afghan men like their women covered from head to toe, so their women conform to that. Not too long ago American black men weren't able to impose their tastes to 'their' women. They got shamed out of stating their preferences. It seems like American black men are trying to assume that role of a man now.
What y'all think? Are brothers getting tired of weaves?
All in all, it seems that brothers with options don't wanna deal with that weave sh*t on a longterm basis. Some of the women even anticipated on this trend by 'going natural' or rocking a baldy a la Amber Rose.
There seems to be a backlash against weave. It seems like everyone has a problem with it because of varying reasons. So called pro-black dudes might feel females getting weaves is a sign of selfhate. They also seem to have a problem with all the money that's being spent at other non-black communities since they run that weave trade internationally. I've noticed that regular dudes have practical objections to weave like the cost, the practicality, the smell after a few days (these chicks don't wash their weaves), the females not wanting to do anything because of that (I can't go outside when it rains, can't workout or do anything that make me sweat etc.). Then you got dudes who feel like they might as well get the 'original' instead of dealing with the artificial.
In almost every race/ ethnicity, men get to dictate how women should look. Northern European men like their women slim and with big brests, so their women generally conform to it. Asian men like their women docile and sweet, so their women generally conform to that. Afghan men like their women covered from head to toe, so their women conform to that. Not too long ago American black men weren't able to impose their tastes to 'their' women. They got shamed out of stating their preferences. It seems like American black men are trying to assume that role of a man now.
What y'all think? Are brothers getting tired of weaves?
Are brothers getting tired of weaves? 65 votes
No, it's their hair and their money. Besides, men shouldn't have any say in how women present themselves anyway.....
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Yes, I rather not deal with females that wear weaves on a consistent basis because they often deal with selfhate issues/ it stinks/ it's too expensive etc., etc.....
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Neutral, I don't care either way. It's a non-issue to me.....
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Neutral, I don't care either way. It's a non-issue to me.....as long as your ? tight i'm cool...don't make me no difference...I'm not ? her hair.
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Lmao this is the most stupidest, anti-women, and ill-informed thread ever
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Neutral, I don't care either way. It's a non-issue to me.....Tyga - Ayo
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=50jzKk6V070
You got 'urban' artists releasing joints like these nowadays. 15 years ago this would be career suicide. -
Yes, I rather not deal with females that wear weaves on a consistent basis because they often deal with selfhate issues/ it stinks/ it's too expensive etc., etc.....Natural hair is sexy when kept up
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Neutral, I don't care either way. It's a non-issue to me.....
Thnx for the feedback. How was it anti-women though?Lmao this is the most stupidest, anti-women, and ill-informed thread ever
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Neutral, I don't care either way. It's a non-issue to me.....i prefer it to LOOK natural whether it actually is or not... idgaf tho
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I dont know any ? that wear weaves
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Yes, I rather not deal with females that wear weaves on a consistent basis because they often deal with selfhate issues/ it stinks/ it's too expensive etc., etc.....cant stand that ? ....
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Nah not always my ex decided to go natural and she looked like baby Huey...I dumped her ass cause she took the weave out. The weaves save relationships sometime
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Nah not always my ex decided to go natural and she looked like baby Huey...I dumped her ass cause she took the weave out. The weaves save relationships sometime
given your track record it could have been baby huey -
Neutral, I don't care either way. It's a non-issue to me.....we do know black ? aint the only ? rockin weaves right??
i mean i didnt read OP.. jus hopin we are all acknowledging the fact.. -
Yes, I rather not deal with females that wear weaves on a consistent basis because they often deal with selfhate issues/ it stinks/ it's too expensive etc., etc.....Never cuffed a chic that wore weave
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Yes, I rather not deal with females that wear weaves on a consistent basis because they often deal with selfhate issues/ it stinks/ it's too expensive etc., etc.....Never dealt with a woman who wore weave.
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Who cares, why bother?
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Neutral, I don't care either way. It's a non-issue to me.....Ajackson17 wrote: »Never dealt with a woman who wore weave.
http://youtu.be/JrZR0Edby_Y -
Yes, I rather not deal with females that wear weaves on a consistent basis because they often deal with selfhate issues/ it stinks/ it's too expensive etc., etc.....BOSSExcellence wrote: »we do know black ? aint the only ? rockin weaves right??
i mean i didnt read OP.. jus hopin we are all acknowledging the fact..
? EXCELLENCE we all know why, dont you ?
jewish women rock weaves at the place of the veil due to their traditions. nevertheless it about BLACK WOMEN and black women rock weaves cause they deem their hair not NICE SEXY ETC....
if not why we do not see them weaveless MOST OF THEIR TIME and when THEY WANT TO DISPLAY THEIR BEST LOOK?
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Neutral, I don't care either way. It's a non-issue to me.....I'm more concerned about a woman's character. As long as she's happy.
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Yes, I rather not deal with females that wear weaves on a consistent basis because they often deal with selfhate issues/ it stinks/ it's too expensive etc., etc.....I havent dated a female that wears weave since 2012, but ill ? them though
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Yes, I rather not deal with females that wear weaves on a consistent basis because they often deal with selfhate issues/ it stinks/ it's too expensive etc., etc.....Your hair didn't just magically grow 10 inches overnight, ? . As long as its not "too much", I don't totally hate weave. But I prefer when a woman wears her own hair.
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Yes, I rather not deal with females that wear weaves on a consistent basis because they often deal with selfhate issues/ it stinks/ it's too expensive etc., etc.....Hell, always looking for "real" men but wear hair out of a bag from India. ? , please.
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For all intents and purposes, it is black women who wear weave. To deflect it by saying other races wear it is laughable. Visit any elementary school and you will for sure see little black pre-school girls with that stuff attached to their heads for months. What other race embraces weave like that?
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Neutral, I don't care either way. It's a non-issue to me.....Sometimes she sewed up, sometimes she natural, don't matter to me her hair still gettin pulled. Self hate issues? ? over analyze everything.
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Yes, I rather not deal with females that wear weaves on a consistent basis because they often deal with selfhate issues/ it stinks/ it's too expensive etc., etc.....Natural Hair >
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Yes, I rather not deal with females that wear weaves on a consistent basis because they often deal with selfhate issues/ it stinks/ it's too expensive etc., etc.....i think more guys are turned off by that ? if they have to help pay for it huh?
I'm turned off by it regardless. Just wear your own ? .
