You ever start actn cold towards friends and some fam?
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About a hour ago I was asked i if could help my cuzn move there house(stufff) into storage..my aunt(there mom) passed away years ago,,and there step dad just recently Got diagnosed with cancer,,,that's sad and all but there cousins never make events or even just check up/say hi...so i flat out said "yea im not helping" im kinda ? bcuz last time i helped a family member all they did was ? under there breathe n didnt even say thanks.
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Also when I lost my house,,,I moved all my ? solo,,
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Yeah i do it all the time. Need to stop burning my bridges. They just catch me at bad times i think lol. Or i just dont like to be bothered i dont know, but i catch myself doing it all the time.
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if they say or do anything slightly disrespectful, they cut off...
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If you don't want to do it that's what it is. But being on some "what have you done for me lately" movements is hoe ? .
You basically saying you not helping fam out of spite. While admitting they been dealing with mad loss and ? . Wtf? Shouldnt you be checking in? They're cut until they come thru for you? You want a cosign for acting hurt?
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Hitting me up to move heavy ? but never coming by or bday party's
That's ? ? on its own.. -
I'm good with being the black sheep in my family...my little brother tried to show out in front of his crew...won't talk to dog for the next couple weeks
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dakidfrankie wrote: »I'm good with being the black sheep in my family...my little brother tried to show out in front of his crew...won't talk to dog for the next couple weeks
oh you mad cuz he was stylin on you? -
dakidfrankie wrote: »I'm good with being the black sheep in my family...my little brother tried to show out in front of his crew...won't talk to dog for the next couple weeks
What he do -
one of my cuzins tried to ? at me when one of her boys picked me up from work one time in her ride instead of lettin me walk home in the ice cold, that was 9 years ago, im just now lettin that grudge go
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My two cousins were trying to be funny at grandpas burial like a pair of little ? boys.
I can't erase that ? from my head. Like I get along with them fine but it's in the back of my head at all times. Like I lost so much respect for them over something that might be fairly benign to a lot of people. -
For no reason?
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Hitting me up to move heavy ? but never coming by or bday party's
That's ? ? on its own..
This ? cried when nobody showed up to his birthday party
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This thread is sad
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I embrace being the black sheep of my "family"
Just because somebody is biologically related to you doesn't mean that's your "family"
There are family members worst than enemies..
You have to feed some relatives with long handle spoons -
Bruh, not saying my story is better, but it's way better and morally cool..
I had cousins live 3hrs away by car, their dad was dying from cancer, man I drove down each fortnight just to make sure ? was good with em. I did not give one ? if they dropped me quick once all was said and done, I felt like what I was doing was right to do.
you probably don't feel what ya doing is right to start off with as you try justify the ? you doing.
be the bigger man bruh. even if you don't go ahead with helping them move, be the bigger man and don't diss the ? outta of the when their step dad dying. ain't cool. -
Meta_Conscious wrote: »if they say or do anything slightly disrespectful, they cut off...
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Just Saturday night. Homeboy I look at like a lil brother hasn't hit me up or got it me in months but he passes through my town almost every weekend. He hits me up out the blue like hey what's up you think you can let me borrow $150 to get my car out the impound? He knows I have a good job but don't hit me up just when you need something but always in my city and don't holla at me. I had to tell him nah I don't have it and kept it moving. I don't mess with sometiming negroes
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Lurk_Hinrich wrote: »
Naw just don't try'n butter me up no ? ...its like when a random person asks how u been? Than right after asks for a ride\$$$ -
About a hour ago I was asked i if could help my cuzn move there house(stufff) into storage..my aunt(there mom) passed away years ago,,and there step dad just recently Got diagnosed with cancer,,,that's sad and all but there cousins never make events or even just check up/say hi...so i flat out said "yea im not helping" im kinda ? bcuz last time i helped a family member all they did was ? under there breathe n didnt even say thanks.
Their,their,their
Sum times family has 2 learn that U half to be they're win thangs R good in bed
Bear and mine that family is people two. In we all half feelings of not wanting 2 bee seen ass pawns
So yeah,you half a write two bee offended -
EMOTIONS MAKE YOU CRY SOMETIME.
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About a hour ago I was asked i if could help my cuzn move there house(stufff) into storage..my aunt(there mom) passed away years ago,,and there step dad just recently Got diagnosed with cancer,,,that's sad and all but there cousins never make events or even just check up/say hi...so i flat out said "yea im not helping" im kinda ? bcuz last time i helped a family member all they did was ? under there breathe n didnt even say thanks.
Their,their,their
Sum times family has 2 learn that U half to be they're win thangs R good in bed
Bear and mine that family is people two. In we all half feelings of not wanting 2 bee seen ass pawns
So yeah,you half a write two bee offended
I'm not gonna type properly for a bunch of ? online -
man...y'all know my story.
took care of ? an they began to feel entitled.
the rest is history -
I refuse to share my success when they didn't share my struggle.
The past couple of years, I've cut a lot of people out of my life. -
Eh I'm antisocial. ? em.
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sigh. Not this ? again. We get it, you're antisocial outcasts who will 'cut a mfer off with the quickness' and the internet is your refuge. Nggas is basketball wives.
