How Many of Y'all Have Taken Care of Someone Elses Child, Because of a Relationship?
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Also we need to stop calling folks who simply disagree with us "? ." It's gotten watered down. Say what you want but Sotomayor be accurate on a lot of stuff. Especially with some of the characters on this forum.
But hopefully P.O.P. can hold it down for some of y'all
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Im 98% on the '? your fort lil man' camp. But i met ONE woman who i deadass would be new daddy to her kid. First off she was gorgeous. 2nd she was slick, she invited me to her crib and unbeknownst to me her son, her sister, her nephew, AND the damn dogs was there. Awwwkwaaaard
But it reminded me of my family next thing you know im cookin hamburger helper in the kitchen, helpin lil man wit his homework. damn i wonder what Kim and lil Ivan is doin these days
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Hamburger Helper :-&
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Their father better be dead in a coffin buried under six feet of dirt and rocks ,for me to even consider taking over the responsibility of his offspring that he help bring in to this world.
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BOSSExcellence wrote: »*raises hand*
raised by a man that wasnt my father...
raising a boy that isnt my son..
the only males that are not men in this equation is the absent fathers.. whether u choose to deal wit a women with or without child is a matter of preference..
to be honest.. majority of ? cant take care of their ? selves so good for the child..
jus dont let ur eyes loose sight of reality.. the same ? sayin single mothers aint ? probably aint ? ? themselves... give it a couple years.. single mothers is gonna be all ur able to pull. lol
Nah, we good ngga
Thats the tricknology right there. "If you dont mess wih single mothers YOU got the problem." Straight hoe logic.
Say bruh, you've gon soft. ? down. I'm disappointed in you Hamburglar @bossexcellence -
never had hamburger helper, they had the goat commercials back in the day
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MAN EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS A GAMBLE!!!
THERE IS 50/50 CHANCE YOU DONT MAKE IT HOME TODAY FROM WORK.
LAWD
You're right, but I'm not gonna continue gambling while she's still at the table with me. Once she's grown and I'm back to just me, then I can take those risks.
Honestly I'm looking forward to showing her it's okay to be alone too.
I don't want her growing up co-dependent.
Teach her to learn to weed out deadbeats and look for a gentleman.
Nobody likes to be alone.
Make sure to teach her to not act on impulse and to see through the fog and think years ahead.
Women got more responsibility than men when it comes to this because women got more power. Women are the gatekeepers to love. Teach her to find a provider, not an ? . Girls waste their youth on ? and end up looking for providers later on in life. NEVER a happy ending.
Let her know she needs to not give that power away unless the dude is showing proof that he is about it.
Good to be independent but don't go off on that I'm a strong single mother ? , it's so stereotypical because single moms end up producing future single moms.
If anything, teach her to learn from what you did wrong. Saddest thing to see youth wasted and gone on some garbage, kids are the future. -
Hamburger helper with ranch is GOAT
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Thanks Dr. Phil.
Lol..nah but sound advice.
I'm not on that strong single mother ? though, I'm on that strong woman ? .
Nothing wrong with committing to a man that compliments your life, but it's okay to be alone for a chapter too. And by alone I mean without a man..you can still have a full life surrounded by positive people as a single person. -
Hamburger Helper :-&
Nah bc see i would chop the lil green peppers in the joint! Yea lil man loved green peppers! In the taco seasonings hamburger helper joint. Yep, Taco Tuedays...But nah ? them kids! Ha ha
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Aww ? , we got real life bonding going on in this ?
? 's dropping real knowledge and ?
Teaching these single mothers how to raise they daughter while not raising they own sons and ?
Single mothers ready to give they life to Christ and ? the ? buddies in the motel and ?
? 's running back to that one chick they couldn't keep her baby daddy and got you over there chopping vegetables for a well balance meal and ?
? 's saying ? ya seed unless they paying that YMCA or Big Brother/Big Sister membership and ?
Brings a tear to my eye, I knew this thread could find a happy resolution yo.........
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You don't have to be a ? ? to not want to deal with other people's kids. Hell, I grew up with both parents and they've been married 40+ years. My dad always stressed to me to find a woman that had both of her parents in her life as well as little to no baggage. I can't start a life with a woman when she already started one with someone else.
Also, isn't it hilarious how some women give their best years to the worst ? possible?? Then, by the time they realize they've been going after the wrong ones, the milk has gone bad and NOW they want to check for good guys to "man up". I'll pass. I volunteer at Boys and Girls Club and 100 Black Men. It's too many beautiful women out here that don't have kids. I'll smash a couple single mothers though.......with a condom -
Dude on the first page said it takes a certain amount of real ? minerals hahahahaha imma start using that phrase
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Yo, this ? named d-rugs
My moms dates him
Swear to ? I hate him
If I could I would break him
When he comes around, her brain sizzles like a Steakum
Damn, can't jakes take him
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ShencotheMC wrote: »Also we need to stop calling folks who simply disagree with us "? ." It's gotten watered down. Say what you want but Sotomayor be accurate on a lot of stuff. Especially with some of the characters on this forum.
But hopefully P.O.P. can hold it down for some of y'all
@shencothemc you are a ? idiot, if you agree with a self-hating ? that is anti-black woman, yet who promotes anti-black through the use of multicultural relationships and how black women are holding the victimized black man down. It is obvious that that ? clown fish is only speaking about one centralized experience from his life, where he feeds to the masses, mainly black men( which is his prime audience), his ignorance and the wild stupidity of anti-black women rhetoric.
But youre a ? idiot, so I wouldnt expect much from your ? to compute that he is an ignorant misogynistic pig that promote anti-black woman propaganda.
I wish I could slap your ? into next week, but you might infect the future with your stupidity. ? idiot. -
Welp.
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Imma take care of all my mans kids ? yall :-(
I'm a real woman. -
ShencotheMC wrote: »Also we need to stop calling folks who simply disagree with us "? ." It's gotten watered down. Say what you want but Sotomayor be accurate on a lot of stuff. Especially with some of the characters on this forum.
But hopefully P.O.P. can hold it down for some of y'all
@shencothemc you are a ? idiot, if you agree with a self-hating ? that is anti-black woman, yet who promotes anti-black through the use of multicultural relationships and how black women are holding the victimized black man down. It is obvious that that ? clown fish is only speaking about one centralized experience from his life, where he feeds to the masses, mainly black men( which is his prime audience), his ignorance and the wild stupidity of anti-black women rhetoric.
But youre a ? idiot, so I wouldnt expect much from your ? to compute that he is an ignorant misogynistic pig that promote anti-black woman propaganda.
I wish I could slap your ? into next week, but you might infect the future with your stupidity. ? idiot.
Love and Peace indeed. lol.
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manofmorehouse wrote: »You don't have to be a ? ? to not want to deal with other people's kids. Hell, I grew up with both parents and they've been married 40+ years. My dad always stressed to me to find a woman that had both of her parents in her life as well as little to no baggage. I can't start a life with a woman when she already started one with someone else.
Also, isn't it hilarious how some women give their best years to the worst ? possible?? Then, by the time they realize they've been going after the wrong ones, the milk has gone bad and NOW they want to check for good guys to "man up". I'll pass. I volunteer at Boys and Girls Club and 100 Black Men. It's too many beautiful women out here that don't have kids. I'll smash a couple single mothers though.......with a condom
if u passed a collection,plate around, ud vet my money......... Preach -
*get
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Aye nothing but good vibrations and peace to all. If my opinions don't match up with your ideals then it is what it is. *shrugs*
Funny thing is that alot of the man's rhetoric matches up with alot of the things said on this very forum, but it seems that the lie is far more entertaining than the truth here. -
Imma take care of all my mans kids ? yall :-(
I'm a real woman.
Yall nggas would goat this.
Thats another angle to it: If a woman has consistently fuked wit dudes wit kids thats a red flag too. Shows she IS about the ? . Im not bout to be her prize, ? that. -
ShencotheMC wrote: »Aye nothing but good vibrations and peace to all. If my opinions don't match up with your ideals then it is what it is. *shrugs*
Funny thing is that alot of the man's rhetoric matches up with alot of the things said on this very forum, but it seems that the lie is far more entertaining than the truth here.
? your opinion and his misinformed opinion. Dont justify stupidity with stupidity, you ? dunce. -
I don't think you was posed to take the post seriously lmao
