Why is infidelity accepted and even celebrated within the black community?

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  • Bussy_Getta
    Bussy_Getta Members Posts: 37,679 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    AggyAF wrote: »
    Personally, the whole side chick thing its kinda lame

    I could never understand why men would want multiple women with multiple grievances to ? at you in multiples.
  • mryounggun
    mryounggun Members Posts: 13,451 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Your premise is all wrong. Infidelity and celebrating infidelity isn't restricted to the black community. Very few things are. But black youth culture has become the dominant culture in this country. So you see it more and other groups emulate it more. That's all.
  • Bussy_Getta
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    Cinco wrote: »
    Pico wrote: »
    AggyAF wrote: »
    Personally, the whole side chick thing its kinda lame

    I could never understand why men would want multiple women with multiple grievances to ? at you in multiples.

    If she on the side then ain't got time to listen to all those grievances.
    Keep it light, fun, etc

    That ? gonna have a grievance eventually.
    Plus you're a grown ass man why would you wanna sneak around???
  • Rasta.
    Rasta. Members Posts: 9,342 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Because we were never meant to be with one person forever.


    Nature says we are suppose to procreate.

    It does not say with the same person.

    Thread should be closed after this....man can never cheat or defeat nature.
  • King_sorrow
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    Rasta. wrote: »
    Because we were never meant to be with one person forever.


    Nature says we are suppose to procreate.

    It does not say with the same person.

    Thread should be closed after this....man can never cheat or defeat nature.

    If that's the case humanity would've never made it this far.
  • Rasta.
    Rasta. Members Posts: 9,342 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Rasta. wrote: »
    Because we were never meant to be with one person forever.


    Nature says we are suppose to procreate.

    It does not say with the same person.

    Thread should be closed after this....man can never cheat or defeat nature.

    If that's the case humanity would've never made it this far.

    If you don't think humanity has depended on nature to make it this far, you're deluded.
  • GodSpeed215
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    Its unnatural to be monogamous, and like everybody else saying, it’s not a race thing. Sex is a ? powerful drug for everybody.

    I like big ? and medium ? , if you monogamous you can’t have them both. People change every day and some people get sick of ? the same person

    New ? > Old ?
  • zzombie
    zzombie Members Posts: 11,280 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ? goes beyond the black community it's accepted and expected all over the planet pretty much
  • damnkp
    damnkp Members Posts: 1,824 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Ashley Madison doesn't sound like a black name
  • 2stepz_ahead
    2stepz_ahead Guests, Members, Writer, Content Producer Posts: 32,324 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    i think in our community it is more of a idgaf attitude towards it....its not more celebrated.

    i think being short sighted is another problem

    other cultures just hide it or care for it differently. just like drugs and poverty.
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  • T. Sanford
    T. Sanford Guests, Members, Writer, Content Producer Posts: 25,291 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    It feels good living the bachelor's life
  • King_sorrow
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    Rasta. wrote: »
    Because we were never meant to be with one person forever.


    Nature says we are suppose to procreate.

    It does not say with the same person.

    Thread should be closed after this....man can never cheat or defeat nature.

    If that's the case humanity would've never made it this far.
    Rasta. wrote: »
    Rasta. wrote: »
    Because we were never meant to be with one person forever.


    Nature says we are suppose to procreate.

    It does not say with the same person.

    Thread should be closed after this....man can never cheat or defeat nature.

    If that's the case humanity would've never made it this far.

    If you don't think humanity has depended on nature to make it this far, you're deluded.

    Of course we have, what I disagree with is the defeat nature portion of your argument. Man has defeated nature plenty of times. Eradication of disease, genetic modification etc.
  • King_sorrow
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    I realized I generalized with my title, my mistake.
  • BarryHalls
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    Meester wrote: »
    I blame young money.....

    "YANG MOOOLAHH BWAAAAY BWWWAAAHHHH!!!"

    Glad that label is going to ? !
  • Westie
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    Cinco wrote: »
    Pico wrote: »
    AggyAF wrote: »
    Personally, the whole side chick thing its kinda lame

    I could never understand why men would want multiple women with multiple grievances to ? at you in multiples.

    If she on the side then ain't got time to listen to all those grievances.
    Keep it light, fun, etc
    How long exactly can that last? And how many side chicks you gotta go thru to find that one that won't try to become the actual girlfriend?
  • Cinco
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    Westie wrote: »
    Cinco wrote: »
    Pico wrote: »
    AggyAF wrote: »
    Personally, the whole side chick thing its kinda lame

    I could never understand why men would want multiple women with multiple grievances to ? at you in multiples.

    If she on the side then ain't got time to listen to all those grievances.
    Keep it light, fun, etc
    How long exactly can that last? And how many side chicks you gotta go thru to find that one that won't try to become the actual girlfriend?
    You're right.
    Like Corey Holcomb said..
    "side chicks have a shelf life"

  • Splackavelli
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    its celebrated because ? aint ?
  • fuc_i_look_like
    fuc_i_look_like Members Posts: 9,190 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Go figure we also have more STDs than any other group of ppl on Earth also. Nothing is scared or respected anymore. And that ? is detremential to Black folks. All "new ? " aint good ? .
  • 2stepz_ahead
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    Go figure we also have more STDs than any other group of ppl on Earth also. Nothing is scared or respected anymore. And that ? is detremential to Black folks. All "new ? " aint good ? .

    i dont beleive this stat.

    i have seen more whote people with bumps on they lips and they are waaaaaaaaaay more sexually active early and more often than blacks.

    again they just hide it better.

    they also have a higher rate of pregnancy.

    they can just pay for abortions or set up marraiges
  • MrMinimalist
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    It's "easy" to ? somebody else's partner because that person is going to do what they want to do. If somebody ? your ? , just get a new one. The problem is when someone cheats, they wanna stay and work it out. That's too late for me.