Lord Jamar: Ciara's Lawsuit Against Future is Destructive to Black Families...
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ofmc_QaASccLord Jamar is always known to hit the hard topics with VladTV, and this time around the outspoken rapper shared his thoughts on Ciara's $15 million lawsuit against Future for defamation. The Brand Nubian rapper believes that the couple's personal troubles being broadcast in the media is "detrimental" for the sake of Black families. He explained, "One of the strongest things we can do is come together and have children...and work together as a cohesive family unit."
Moving along, Lord Jamar also explained why he believes that welfare promotes single mothers and the "destabilization of family," because single mothers get more benefits from the government. During the conversation Jamar added that he believes mothers can't fill the father role for their children, and vice versa for men filling the mother role.
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I get what he's tryna say
"One of the strongest things we can do is come together and have children...and work together as a cohesive family unit."
But get the ? outta here.... what family?
Who in the ? , ever looked to Ciara and Future as the ideal blk family?
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Had this been Barack n Michelle going through that, or even Jay and Beyonce.. I'd Say may be.
But Lets be real, If blk families start being affected by a bunch of celebrities personal issues, than the blk families wasn't ? to begin with.
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Future's tweets are too, then
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Makes women look bad
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I get what he's tryna say
"One of the strongest things we can do is come together and have children...and work together as a cohesive family unit."
But get the ? outta here.... what family?
Who in the ? , ever looked to Ciara and Future as the ideal blk family?
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Had this been Barack n Michelle going through that, or even Jay and Beyonce.. I'd Say may be.
But Lets be real, If blk families start being affected by a bunch of celebrities personal issues, than the blk families wasn't ? to begin with.
These young birds don't connect to Barack and Michele bruh
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The lawsuit comes after alot of ? that destroyed their family already. To say the lawsuit is detrimental is dishonest, all the things that led up to it are just as bad if not worse.
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Cohesive family unit? Future got multiple kids w/ multiple women. He's being more destructive than anyone else in this situation to the black family
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Another case of allowing men to behave however they like and considering any retribution for that behavior as undeserved, out of line and ultimately blamed on the woman.
Maybe he'll think twice the next time he wants to publicly bash the mother of his child. -
Not this ? again, how is he "bashing" her by saying he has to go through lawyers to see his kid?
How is it "bashing" her for saying he doesnt liek that fact that she's allowing a ? she just met to be doing father like activities with his kid and calling the paparazzi to film it?
Yall expect celebs to become robots with no emotions , he spoke how he felt about the ? , that wasnt bashing anybody. -
IF SHE CATCH ME CHEATING I WILL NEVER TELL HER SORRY
The majority of everything being pushed by rappers now is detrimental to the black family. Perpetuating the stereotype that black men are nothing but uncontrollable sexual beings. -
There is plenty of blame to pass around. And I lose respect for anyone publicly airing out family\personal business. But the lawsuit is another level of dirt baggyness.
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Ain't future out here having kids recklessly.... That ? ain't destructive?
Its also destructive to have a baby with a man with multiple kids and doesn't spend time with them. -
Cohesive family unit? Future got multiple kids w/ multiple women. He's being more destructive than anyone else in this situation to the black family
Yet she still layed up and got pregnant by him
Nobody is more or less to blame...she knew what she was getting into and she need to own that ?
Y'all always bringing up his faults as if it excuse hers or give her a pass
If I messed with a ? with 3 baby dads, I ain't ain't gon say ? once she make me the 4th and it don't work...I walked right into that
All that stupid ? effect the kids, somebody gotta be the grown up -
Cohesive family unit? Future got multiple kids w/ multiple women. He's being more destructive than anyone else in this situation to the black family
Bruh,you are determined to hold dudes accountable for their action,huh?
But why???
Wouldn't it be easier just to blame the women and place the brunt of the fault on them??? -
? Lord Jamar and i still havent watched any of his videos
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Another case of allowing men to behave however they like and considering any retribution for that behavior as undeserved, out of line and ultimately blamed on the woman.
Maybe he'll think twice the next time he wants to publicly bash the mother of his child.
He ain't ? true enough, but truth be told she knew what kinda ? he was before she got with him.
Any dude that has children by three or more women you probably need to run in the other direct ladies no matter how nice and together he initially seems.
She found a little straight laced dude in Russell to play stepdaddy to her seed now she trying to play up this holier than art thou role, she ignore that ? long enough he'll get the hint. -
Cohesive family unit? Future got multiple kids w/ multiple women. He's being more destructive than anyone else in this situation to the black family
So, what standard are you using to conclude this type of family arrangement is destructive?
If, you are saying that Future is taking care of his children Spiritually, Emotionally and Financially then, I agree that can be destructive. A man having children with different women isn't inherently destructive.
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Cohesive family unit? Future got multiple kids w/ multiple women. He's being more destructive than anyone else in this situation to the black family
How is that destructive if he takes care of all of them
I think it's much more destructive for a female to have kids with a male that the female KNOWS will not support the kids
A lot more females need to be doubling and tripling up on successful men imo -
Another case of allowing men to behave however they like and considering any retribution for that behavior as undeserved, out of line and ultimately blamed on the woman.
Maybe he'll think twice the next time he wants to publicly bash the mother of his child.
He ain't ? true enough, but truth be told she knew what kinda ? he was before she got with him.
Any dude that has children by three or more women you probably need to run in the other direct ladies no matter how nice and together he initially seems.
She found a little straight laced dude in Russell to play stepdaddy to her seed now she trying to play up this holier than art thou role.
It don't matter who she laid with, fact is there are rules to be followed and he is not above them. You can't be publicly marring someone's name cause you mad. Handle the ? privately for the sake of your child and your dignity.
And to be honest we all know this ? has little to do with baby Future and more to do with the fact that he took a hit to his fragile ego. -
smh yall been brainwashed so long into thinking that european social standards are the right and only way to live. In Africa and the Middle East it was the norm for men to have kids by multiple women and be married to multiple women. These no game havin europeans made it a rule to have one woman max and yall ? subscribing to the ? smh
Plus yall are confusing a man who has kids with multiple women and provides for all of his kids and remains present in their lives to ? who have kids with multiple women and disappears. -
So having multiple children out of wedlock is NOW something that should be admired and emulated and this will make for a stronger "black family"??
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Cohesive family unit? Future got multiple kids w/ multiple women. He's being more destructive than anyone else in this situation to the black family
Bruh,you are determined to hold dudes accountable for their action,huh?
But why???
Wouldn't it be easier just to blame the women and place the brunt of the fault on them???
Accountable for what? Spreading seed and then supporting the seeds he spreads?
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Cohesive family unit? Future got multiple kids w/ multiple women. He's being more destructive than anyone else in this situation to the black family
So, what standard are you using to conclude this type of family arrangement is destructive?
If, you are saying that Future is taking care of his children Spiritually, Emotionally and Financially then, I agree that can be destructive. A man having children with different women isn't inherently destructive.
Generally when a man has kids in multiple households by multiple women it does speak to his character.
Children need love, time, attention, and strong male and female figures in their lives; however, a man cannot be a strong male figure if he has spread himself thin.
That is even assuming that he has an amicable relationship with the mothers of all his children.
Generally you show me a man with multiple kids by multiple women and I'll show you an ain't ? ? the two are not mutually exclusive, but they generally run hand and hand.
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Another case of allowing men to behave however they like and considering any retribution for that behavior as undeserved, out of line and ultimately blamed on the woman.
Maybe he'll think twice the next time he wants to publicly bash the mother of his child.
He ain't ? true enough, but truth be told she knew what kinda ? he was before she got with him.
Any dude that has children by three or more women you probably need to run in the other direct ladies no matter how nice and together he initially seems.
She found a little straight laced dude in Russell to play stepdaddy to her seed now she trying to play up this holier than art thou role.
It don't matter who she laid with, fact is there are rules to be followed and he is not above them. You can't be publicly marring someone's name cause you mad. Handle the ? privately for the sake of your child and your dignity.
And to be honest we all know this ? has little to do with baby Future and more to do with the fact that he took a hit to his fragile ego.
Did she think about future's dignity when she had his son all up under RW during that training camp and many other events at that time?
Did she she think about Future's dignity when she lied and said their relationship ended cuz he cheated when in actuality it ended when Future left her?
No she didn't cuz she's a bird. Deal with it -
Cohesive family unit? Future got multiple kids w/ multiple women. He's being more destructive than anyone else in this situation to the black family
So, what standard are you using to conclude this type of family arrangement is destructive?
If, you are saying that Future is taking care of his children Spiritually, Emotionally and Financially then, I agree that can be destructive. A man having children with different women isn't inherently destructive.
Generally when a man has kids in multiple households by multiple women it does speak to his character.
Children need love, time, attention, and strong male and female figures in their lives; however, a man cannot be a strong male figure if he has spread himself thin.
That is even assuming that he has an amicable relationship with the mothers of all his children.
Generally you show me a man with multiple kids by multiple women and I'll show you an ain't ? ? the two are not mutually exclusive, but they generally run hand and hand.
Terrible conclusion
You sound like a super square -
smh yall been brainwashed so long into thinking that european social standards are the right and only way to live. In Africa and the Middle East it was the norm for men to have kids by multiple women and be married to multiple women. These no game havin europeans made it a rule to have one woman max and yall ? subscribing to the ? smh
Plus yall are confusing a man who has kids with multiple women and provides for all of his kids and remains present in their lives to ? who have kids with multiple women and disappears.
You know how it go...."if it ain't white it ain't right"....
