How do yall keep sex in a relationship Fun
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Aye I was about to believe until I realized what you do for a living. Hahaha
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I've been with my husband almost 13 years and we have just as much, if not more, sex now as we did in the beginning
We keep it fresh and exciting by being in love and acting like it. We're very flirty and affectionate throughout the day, and if you keep that playfulness going, it's not hard to be in the mood for it all the time
We also didn't let ourselves go, so were still physically attracted to each other.
Being freaks in general sure helps too lol
that and ur husband ? other ? ..
that or he can..
its like a natural competition for u..
u HAVE TO stay on ur game..
let me be goin out of town..
majority of the time i dont even be ? on ? but jus the mere thought my girl is tryin to ? and suck me dry. hahaha
and when i come back she ? me probably tryin to see if i ? someone else..
and on the flip..
when i be dealin wit ? they irritate the ? out of me and because we not ? by time i get home im ? as ? from bein around all these fine ignorant ? for a week wit no sex. lol -
semi-auto-mato wrote: »semi-auto-mato wrote: »25+ and 4 kids later she is still the sexiest woman on earth to me. I cant keep my hands off her. it's that way because I love her mind. sex is as much of a mental connection as it is physical. we have sex just as much now as when we were younger. anyway stop thinking physical. start thinking mental. learn to mind ? her and the physical sex will only get better.
I have a real question for u and I dont want to come off as shallow.... u said after 4 kids. Has ur ole lady kept herself together looks wise? And what if she went from a slim women to a big woman will u till have that same ? towards her? Also does ur love for her trump looks if she did? I ask that because those are some of the reationale folk use for cheating.
facially u would never been able to guess my wife's age. I'm amazed at her aging process. physically she has gained weight. im not sure how much and because she is 5 8 and she carries her weight well. she has a lil pouch now though and she didn't have that before the kids.
its funny we put so much on emphasis on how our wife ages but forget we age as well. i got a lil pouch myself now. that's life. my love for her will always trump her looks and body changes.
Thats whassup.... I wish everyone was like that cuz unconditional love seems lost... with that said do u think u would have the same perspective if the weight change was drastic? like to the point u wernt as physically attractive to her as u used to be? -
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It ain't hard to please me so I don't care and if a ? need "spice" it's her own problem she better grab some Tony Chachery's or move on to the next ? cuz...I'll do a lil extra curricular here and there but not all the time cuz then they gon get spoiled I'm not bout to play that nonsense
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I've never really experienced sex being boring like that, but I do know when I've had to go on long trips and then came back, the sex was better. So there is something short hiatuses here and there to build the yearning.
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I took some dance classes last year.
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obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »I took some dance classes last year.
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semi-auto-mato wrote: »semi-auto-mato wrote: »25+ and 4 kids later she is still the sexiest woman on earth to me. I cant keep my hands off her. it's that way because I love her mind. sex is as much of a mental connection as it is physical. we have sex just as much now as when we were younger. anyway stop thinking physical. start thinking mental. learn to mind ? her and the physical sex will only get better.
I have a real question for u and I dont want to come off as shallow.... u said after 4 kids. Has ur ole lady kept herself together looks wise? And what if she went from a slim women to a big woman will u till have that same ? towards her? Also does ur love for her trump looks if she did? I ask that because those are some of the reationale folk use for cheating.
facially u would never been able to guess my wife's age. I'm amazed at her aging process. physically she has gained weight. im not sure how much and because she is 5 8 and she carries her weight well. she has a lil pouch now though and she didn't have that before the kids.
its funny we put so much on emphasis on how our wife ages but forget we age as well. i got a lil pouch myself now. that's life. my love for her will always trump her looks and body changes.
Thats whassup.... I wish everyone was like that cuz unconditional love seems lost... with that said do u think u would have the same perspective if the weight change was drastic? like to the point u wernt as physically attractive to her as u used to be?
assuming we are not talking about a disease like cancer or some thyroid problem that would cause a dramatic change in a person's weight beyond their control.
I don't see her doing anything that would completely turn me off like that on purpose. I cant see her working out to be a size 2 or eating until she is SSBBW. I think she will always fluctuate like she does now. she gets on her im gonna walk and eat this salad while drinking 20 gallons of water for a hot sec then she goes back to watching tv and eating red velvet cake and banana pudding from Magnolias the next. she has always been that way.
if she did decide she wanted to be a size 2 we would have a serious issue. it wouldn't necessarily be the dramatic change as much as I would have an issue with her making that decision without talking to me first. u don't decide to make such a drastic change without consulting your partner. JMO...ladies don't ? me.
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Dont expect a white woman to agree with that.
You and your kind been trying to "spice up your sex" for centuries.
While the black man and woman never had a problem with our natural sex.
Lmao..yeah cause black men never step out on their women. Who needs to when the sex never gets old and there is no need for that coveted "new ? "?
Get out ya feelings. A healthy sex life in a long term relationship takes EFFORT.jetlifebih wrote: »
I have for the most part.
You are too old at this point to still hold that childish mentality.
Men dont cheat because their sex at home is boring.
No matter how explosive the sex is at home; it doesnt override the feeling of knowing you can ? something else.
Its the thrill of the hunt. Women will never understand because they are the hunted. -
Dont expect a white woman to agree with that.
You and your kind been trying to "spice up your sex" for centuries.
While the black man and woman never had a problem with our natural sex.
Lmao..yeah cause black men never step out on their women. Who needs to when the sex never gets old and there is no need for that coveted "new ? "?
Get out ya feelings. A healthy sex life in a long term relationship takes EFFORT.jetlifebih wrote: »
I have for the most part.
You are too old at this point to still hold that childish mentality.
Men dont cheat because their sex at home is boring.
No matter how explosive the sex is at home; it doesnt override the feeling of knowing you can ? something else.
Its the thrill of the hunt. Women will never understand because they are the hunted.
Honey..lol.
I've had men tell me the sex just "isn't what it was" or "she doesn't like to do everything" or "she doesn't have the sex drive I do"..so don't tell me that men only cheat for the chase and not out of boredom or neglect.
I'm now in my own long term relationship and I can say from experience that it takes some effort. New sex is easy. Monogamous sex takes work.
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You get more ? when ur not a 25 year old wiz khalifa fan with a blonde patch in ya hair
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Dont expect a white woman to agree with that.
You and your kind been trying to "spice up your sex" for centuries.
While the black man and woman never had a problem with our natural sex.
Lmao..yeah cause black men never step out on their women. Who needs to when the sex never gets old and there is no need for that coveted "new ? "?
Get out ya feelings. A healthy sex life in a long term relationship takes EFFORT.jetlifebih wrote: »
I have for the most part.
You are too old at this point to still hold that childish mentality.
Men dont cheat because their sex at home is boring.
No matter how explosive the sex is at home; it doesnt override the feeling of knowing you can ? something else.
Its the thrill of the hunt. Women will never understand because they are the hunted.
I sadly agree with this idea that most Men, in general, can't deny that instinctual call towards "newer" ? . I think its DNA embedded and intuitive even for those men who choose to suppress the feeling for any number of reasons.
Its their choice to suppress ....
But Its still their. Even in its most passive state,
When you have to find a way to discreetly catch a glimpse of the ladies ass who's about to walk pass you in those LuLu Lemon stretch pants .... You just have too..... because..... "what if?"
raggedy conquered cooch gets old and familiar no matter how many different ways you try to cook it.
Newer attractive ? just always "seems" fresh and amazing in the wondering mind. It's mysterious.
How will that ? giggle at a 47 degree angle?
What will those moans sound like?
Look at those perfect ? 's.... my goodness...
so new...
so untapped...
so precious...
Can I have ?
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Shuffington wrote: »
Dont expect a white woman to agree with that.
You and your kind been trying to "spice up your sex" for centuries.
While the black man and woman never had a problem with our natural sex.
Lmao..yeah cause black men never step out on their women. Who needs to when the sex never gets old and there is no need for that coveted "new ? "?
Get out ya feelings. A healthy sex life in a long term relationship takes EFFORT.jetlifebih wrote: »
I have for the most part.
You are too old at this point to still hold that childish mentality.
Men dont cheat because their sex at home is boring.
No matter how explosive the sex is at home; it doesnt override the feeling of knowing you can ? something else.
Its the thrill of the hunt. Women will never understand because they are the hunted.
I sadly agree with this idea that most Men, in general, can't deny that instinctual call towards "newer" ? . I think its DNA embedded and intuitive even for those men who choose to suppress the feeling for any number of reasons.
Its their choice to suppress ....
But Its still their. Even in its most passive state,
When you have to find a way to discreetly catch a glimpse of the ladies ass who's about to walk pass you in those LuLu Lemon stretch pants .... You just have too..... because..... "what if?"
raggedy conquered cooch gets old and familiar no matter how many different ways you try to cook it.
Newer attractive ? just always "seems" fresh and amazing in the wondering mind. It's mysterious.
How will that ? giggle at a 47 degree angle?
What will those moans sound like?
Look at those perfect ? 's.... my goodness...
so new...
so untapped...
so precious...
Can I have ?
But if you've had let's just say 15+ women in your life and look back ....was there really a difference??
Not imo...in fact the chase gets tiring because it usually involves the same ? .... -
jetlifebih wrote: »Shuffington wrote: »
Dont expect a white woman to agree with that.
You and your kind been trying to "spice up your sex" for centuries.
While the black man and woman never had a problem with our natural sex.
Lmao..yeah cause black men never step out on their women. Who needs to when the sex never gets old and there is no need for that coveted "new ? "?
Get out ya feelings. A healthy sex life in a long term relationship takes EFFORT.jetlifebih wrote: »
I have for the most part.
You are too old at this point to still hold that childish mentality.
Men dont cheat because their sex at home is boring.
No matter how explosive the sex is at home; it doesnt override the feeling of knowing you can ? something else.
Its the thrill of the hunt. Women will never understand because they are the hunted.
I sadly agree with this idea that most Men, in general, can't deny that instinctual call towards "newer" ? . I think its DNA embedded and intuitive even for those men who choose to suppress the feeling for any number of reasons.
Its their choice to suppress ....
But Its still their. Even in its most passive state,
When you have to find a way to discreetly catch a glimpse of the ladies ass who's about to walk pass you in those LuLu Lemon stretch pants .... You just have too..... because..... "what if?"
raggedy conquered cooch gets old and familiar no matter how many different ways you try to cook it.
Newer attractive ? just always "seems" fresh and amazing in the wondering mind. It's mysterious.
How will that ? giggle at a 47 degree angle?
What will those moans sound like?
Look at those perfect ? 's.... my goodness...
so new...
so untapped...
so precious...
Can I have ?
But if you've had let's just say 15+ women in your life and look back ....was there really a difference??
Not imo...in fact the chase gets tiring because it usually involves the same ? ....
indeed. The chase gets tiring because the actual chase requires a lot of physical work....
Calling / talking / spending timing ect.
But what I'm talking about is the idea of new ? at your finger tips.... new fresh and ready ? with no strings. Doesn't just the thought of fresh ? bring about beautiful mental pleasantries?
I mean, The chase is a component of the hunt. People stop chasing when other priorities pop up... or they decide to suppress the urge... eventually they become to old and fragile to chase... doesn't mean they don't want to hunt.
The Hunt never goes away. Give an old guy some drinks, a safe space to confess, and he'll talk about how you need to do you and not rush into any relationship.
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Shuffington wrote: »jetlifebih wrote: »Shuffington wrote: »
Dont expect a white woman to agree with that.
You and your kind been trying to "spice up your sex" for centuries.
While the black man and woman never had a problem with our natural sex.
Lmao..yeah cause black men never step out on their women. Who needs to when the sex never gets old and there is no need for that coveted "new ? "?
Get out ya feelings. A healthy sex life in a long term relationship takes EFFORT.jetlifebih wrote: »
I have for the most part.
You are too old at this point to still hold that childish mentality.
Men dont cheat because their sex at home is boring.
No matter how explosive the sex is at home; it doesnt override the feeling of knowing you can ? something else.
Its the thrill of the hunt. Women will never understand because they are the hunted.
I sadly agree with this idea that most Men, in general, can't deny that instinctual call towards "newer" ? . I think its DNA embedded and intuitive even for those men who choose to suppress the feeling for any number of reasons.
Its their choice to suppress ....
But Its still their. Even in its most passive state,
When you have to find a way to discreetly catch a glimpse of the ladies ass who's about to walk pass you in those LuLu Lemon stretch pants .... You just have too..... because..... "what if?"
raggedy conquered cooch gets old and familiar no matter how many different ways you try to cook it.
Newer attractive ? just always "seems" fresh and amazing in the wondering mind. It's mysterious.
How will that ? giggle at a 47 degree angle?
What will those moans sound like?
Look at those perfect ? 's.... my goodness...
so new...
so untapped...
so precious...
Can I have ?
But if you've had let's just say 15+ women in your life and look back ....was there really a difference??
Not imo...in fact the chase gets tiring because it usually involves the same ? ....
indeed. The chase gets tiring because the actual chase requires a lot of physical work....
Calling / talking / spending timing ect.
But what I'm talking about is the idea of new ? at your finger tips.... new fresh and ready ? with no strings. Doesn't just the thought of fresh ? bring about beautiful mental pleasantries?
I mean, The chase is a component of the hunt. People stop chasing when other priorities pop up... or they decide to suppress the urge... eventually they become to old and fragile to chase... doesn't mean they don't want to hunt.
The Hunt never goes away. Give an old guy some drinks, a safe space to confess, and he'll talk about how you need to do you and not rush into any relationship.
Second realest post in here
@semi-auto-mato 's first post was the trillest -
eat. that. butt.
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yungflashy wrote: »im not talking about the see you only on the weekend or a couple days out the week. i mean living with and see this pain in the ass everyday type ?
I'd say less sex = best sex, see how long we both can hold out
Lol keep telling yourself that's why she not letting you ? on some alternative facts ? ... "less sex = best sex"... foh b.
You sharing your ? fam. -
Cause your walls no longer exist. ? probably looking like the abyss. Cant be fun for you. -
KingFreeman wrote: »
Dont imagine me, ? . -
jetlifebih wrote: »jetlifebih wrote: »Porn got ? having to "keep things spicy"
Stop watchin porn my g and you'll be straight...
? that. Ill break up with this ? before I stop watching porn.
It's only going to make the sex more boring seeing chicks with more desireable bodies being bent out of shape and piped up ...I'm trynna tell ya
well then, get a chick that's just as bad as a porn chick. I mean body wise most porn chicks don't look that good without make up -
KingFreeman wrote: »yungflashy wrote: »im not talking about the see you only on the weekend or a couple days out the week. i mean living with and see this pain in the ass everyday type ?
I'd say less sex = best sex, see how long we both can hold out
Lol keep telling yourself that's why she not letting you ? on some alternative facts ? ... "less sex = best sex"... foh b.
You sharing your ? fam.
nah fam, thats facts, when u stay in the ? you don't give it a chance to get back at its tightest
just a week of no sex, the ? gon be tighter than ever, she gon be wet and ? as ever and your testosterone will be through the roof
foh youngin
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