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obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »Aint no way I'd be sitting there asking him about this ? years later with tears in my eyes. I wouldnt give that muthafucka the satisfaction. Look how pleased he looks with himself.
thats not whats going on, but ok
@AP21 Well go ahead and tell me whats going on since you know so much.
so he supposed to be in tears in order for you to believe he is sincere in his contrition?
MEN ARE NOT WOMEN...the sooner ya'll realize this and stop trying to make them process ? like you all, the better most of ya'll will be. Stop trying to domesticate and emasculate men!!
Ok fine. Maybe inside his head, he's balled up in the fetal position. I still wouldn't be sitting in his face crying over some old ? . Especially no light skin with curly hair, probably thinking he's ? 's gift. I wouldnt give his bright ass the satisfaction.
Lmao feelings like whoa -
Imo this is the disastrous outcome of trying to make men, especially young men deny their biological nature and urges. It's like if everything in your body is screaming for water, but then society wants to deem you some kind of scumbag when you actually take the drink every fiber of your being is screaming for
It's like with forcing unnatural monogamy on young men you are almost setting them up for failure and leading to them labeling themselves and being labeled by others as dogs. They could very easily be very caring, loving, thoughtful in all other aspects of what it means to be a nurturing boyfriend/partner, but if they can't live up to an impossible task, they ain't ? , it's ? up
What I saw in that video was a young man who clearly loved that girl, but could not deny his biological nature. And what I saw with her was a beautiful young lady who let society define for her what a good relationship should be. So all of the good, the fact that he was her best friend, it should be disregarded because he needed to sow his wild oats a bit? If she could understand that his love for her had nothing to do with his biological urges, who knows, maybe these two would still be together
@Kai
Bruh what is the name of the factory that made you?
Id settle for a ? printout GOT DAYUM.... -
this ? ? got ? scheduling meeting with me to " talk"....
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The Lonious Monk wrote: »The Lonious Monk wrote: »obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »Aint no way I'd be sitting there asking him about this ? years later with tears in my eyes. I wouldnt give that muthafucka the satisfaction. Look how pleased he looks with himself.
thats not whats going on, but ok
@AP21 Well go ahead and tell me whats going on since you know so much.
so he supposed to be in tears in order for you to believe he is sincere in his contrition?
MEN ARE NOT WOMEN...the sooner ya'll realize this and stop trying to make them process ? like you all, the better most of ya'll will be. Stop trying to domesticate and emasculate men!!
I agree with your sentiment, but come on, dude did look a little satisfied with himself.
i watched the same video that you did, and didnt get that
but i ask, did people expect him to shed tears in order to prove he was sincere?
I mean, it had to be awkward af for both of them to be up there in the first place. Why would he be smiling at something like that? I just dont get how ya'll can even come to that conclusion...
To me, it wasn't just his look. It was the combination of his demeanor and the things he said. I don't know the dude so I could be completely wrong. It just seemed to me to be fake, especially him pouring it on in the end about wanting to see her grow and all that ? . I just don't buy it. But that's really just speculation based on perception and nothing else.
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obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »Aint no way I'd be sitting there asking him about this ? years later with tears in my eyes. I wouldnt give that muthafucka the satisfaction. Look how pleased he looks with himself.
thats not whats going on, but ok
@AP21 Well go ahead and tell me whats going on since you know so much.
so he supposed to be in tears in order for you to believe he is sincere in his contrition?
MEN ARE NOT WOMEN...the sooner ya'll realize this and stop trying to make them process ? like you all, the better most of ya'll will be. Stop trying to domesticate and emasculate men!!
Ok fine. Maybe inside his head, he's balled up in the fetal position. I still wouldn't be sitting in his face crying over some old ? . Especially no light skin with curly hair, probably thinking he's ? 's gift. I wouldnt give his bright ass the satisfaction.
yes.
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obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »Aint no way I'd be sitting there asking him about this ? years later with tears in my eyes. I wouldnt give that muthafucka the satisfaction. Look how pleased he looks with himself.
thats not whats going on, but ok
@AP21 Well go ahead and tell me whats going on since you know so much.
so he supposed to be in tears in order for you to believe he is sincere in his contrition?
MEN ARE NOT WOMEN...the sooner ya'll realize this and stop trying to make them process ? like you all, the better most of ya'll will be. Stop trying to domesticate and emasculate men!!
Ok fine. Maybe inside his head, he's balled up in the fetal position. I still wouldn't be sitting in his face crying over some old ? . Especially no light skin with curly hair, probably thinking he's ? 's gift. I wouldnt give his bright ass the satisfaction.
obviously, she never got closure from it
could've possible impacted relationships she had after him
forgiveness is more about you moving forward and less about the person you feel has offended you
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I don't understand the purpose of this.. Telling her everything you did.. And then recording it for the world to see on some social experiment tip.. Whatever..
Ultimately, homegirls final straw should have been when she caught him red handed and instead of telling the other girl to leave he made her leave. Now i don't know all the details but if that was what happened.. Not only should she have stopped dealing with him.. She should have never spoken to dude ever again in life.. That type of disrespect should not be tolerated by anyone. Man or Woman.
As an aside. Love her smile. She'll be all right.. Life goes on. -
lol@ the background music.
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Imo this is the disastrous outcome of trying to make men, especially young men deny their biological nature and urges. It's like if everything in your body is screaming for water, but then society wants to deem you some kind of scumbag when you actually take the drink every fiber of your being is screaming for
It's like with forcing unnatural monogamy on young men you are almost setting them up for failure and leading to them labeling themselves and being labeled by others as dogs. They could very easily be very caring, loving, thoughtful in all other aspects of what it means to be a nurturing boyfriend/partner, but if they can't live up to an impossible task, they ain't ? , it's ? up
What I saw in that video was a young man who clearly loved that girl, but could not deny his biological nature. And what I saw with her was a beautiful young lady who let society define for her what a good relationship should be. So all of the good, the fact that he was her best friend, it should be disregarded because he needed to sow his wild oats a bit? If she could understand that his love for her had nothing to do with his biological urges, who knows, maybe these two would still be together
@Kai
Bruh what is the name of the factory that made you?
Id settle for a ? printout GOT DAYUM....
lol, i'm far from perfect and have my own flaws. but, i guess having spent years in clinical, scientific settings, i learned that despite how you may want things to be, if the facts, biological, evolutionary facts don't align with that thinking, clinging on to it anyway is only gonna end up with egg on your face. don't fight facts and nature, make peace with that ? then go and control/change the things you can. for example, while males have natural urges for more than one partner, they also have natural urges towards pair bonding, so they are very capable of forming meaningful relationships.
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And I agree with everything @Kai wrote except the part about him loving her cause I dont think it was that deep for him, but who cares. These were kids in college. Who has time to sit up and confront their college boyfriend about cheating? Like really? A 20 year old cheated on his girlfriend. Who would've thunk it. They could both go sit down somewhere
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obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »And I agree with everything @Kai wrote except the part about him loving her cause I dont think it was that deep for him, but who cares. These were kids in college. Who has time to sit up and confront their college boyfriend about cheating? Like really? A 20 year old cheated on his girlfriend. Who would've thunk it. They could both go sit down somewhere
So let me ask you this. If you agree. Do you expect your S/O to cheat.. And if you caught him. What would be your recourse. Or do have a if I don't know it won't hurt me disposition toward cheating? Just curious. -
This idea that men can't avoid cheating is pretty crazy though. It's easy not to cheat as long as you're actually ready to be monogamous and found a chick that's worth being committed to. Most dudes that cheat fail in one of those areas. I think the percentage of dudes that are incapable of being faithful is pretty small.
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goin out and cheating is one thing.........but bringing it to the home he ain't even respect her
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If you dont belive nor want to be in an monogamous relationship dont get into one.
I am in total agreement with you there, my point was more about society making it seem like 1. That's the only way to be in a committed relationship and that 2. Being a male who is fulfilling your biological imperatives makes you a bad person
am with you to a certain extent when it comes to monogamy, but then again why is it then ok to police a woman's sexuality which I've seen you do?
that said, i think monogamy is unnatural for both genders and takes work... so stepping on alone, doesn't automatically make one this irredeemable, evil person
what gets me is the dishonesty
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But OB cool with her geriatric pastor being a dirt bag
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desertrain10 wrote: »If you dont belive nor want to be in an monogamous relationship dont get into one.
I am in total agreement with you there, my point was more about society making it seem like 1. That's the only way to be in a committed relationship and that 2. Being a male who is fulfilling your biological imperatives makes you a bad person
am with you to a certain extent when it comes to monogamy, but then again why is it then ok to police a woman's sexuality which I've seen you do?
that said, i think monogamy is unnatural for both genders and takes work... so stepping on alone, doesn't automatically make one this irredeemable, evil person
what gets me is the dishonesty
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@kai
What happened here is two people that want different things trying to force their wants on each other rather then finding someone who would agree with their wants and be cool with it.
Im just saying though, homie shouldnt be given a pass cause hes a man. Hes not even wrong for cheating or ? other women, he just wrong for getting with a woman who expects him to be faithfull when hes not willing to be faithfull
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The Lonious Monk wrote: »This idea that men can't avoid cheating is pretty crazy though. It's easy not to cheat as long as you're actually ready to be monogamous and found a chick that's worth being committed to. Most dudes that cheat fail in one of those areas. I think the percentage of dudes that are incapable of being faithful is pretty small.
what? u can have all that and some chick throws it at you.....sometimes its that simple -
But OB cool with her geriatric pastor being a dirt bag
bruh...LMAO
had to be one of the longest capes i've seen on here in a long ass time -
EmM HoLLa. wrote: »obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »And I agree with everything @Kai wrote except the part about him loving her cause I dont think it was that deep for him, but who cares. These were kids in college. Who has time to sit up and confront their college boyfriend about cheating? Like really? A 20 year old cheated on his girlfriend. Who would've thunk it. They could both go sit down somewhere
So let me ask you this. If you agree. Do you expect your S/O to cheat.. And if you caught him. What would be your recourse. Or do have a if I don't know it won't hurt me disposition toward cheating? Just curious.
Well I'm not in college.. lol
so it's a little different. But as a general rule, people in college are too young to be trippin off somebody cheating. Thats just my opinion.
But for an old hen like myself, it's one and done. I dont have time to be lowjacking no man or wondering what he on when I'm not around. I don't expect my guy to cheat but I dont nothin past no man. All I do is trust him and observe if his actions are in line with his words. The benefit of the doubt must always be granted and it remains in tact until it's broken. If there are no signs of him cheating, there is no need for me to assume that he is. -
The Lonious Monk wrote: »This idea that men can't avoid cheating is pretty crazy though. It's easy not to cheat as long as you're actually ready to be monogamous and found a chick that's worth being committed to. Most dudes that cheat fail in one of those areas. I think the percentage of dudes that are incapable of being faithful is pretty small.
Everybody is different.. I think if men reeeaaally wanted to they could be faithful.. I just think most of them who cheat don't want to be faithful. It's that simple. Being capable is not really what's in question.. -
EmM HoLLa. wrote: »The Lonious Monk wrote: »This idea that men can't avoid cheating is pretty crazy though. It's easy not to cheat as long as you're actually ready to be monogamous and found a chick that's worth being committed to. Most dudes that cheat fail in one of those areas. I think the percentage of dudes that are incapable of being faithful is pretty small.
Everybody is different.. I think if men reeeaaally wanted to they could be faithful.. I just think most of them who cheat don't want to. It's that simple. Being capable is not really what's in question..
i so confused -
But OB cool with her geriatric pastor being a dirt bag
OB is cool with minding her own business. That's really all it is -
obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »EmM HoLLa. wrote: »obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »And I agree with everything @Kai wrote except the part about him loving her cause I dont think it was that deep for him, but who cares. These were kids in college. Who has time to sit up and confront their college boyfriend about cheating? Like really? A 20 year old cheated on his girlfriend. Who would've thunk it. They could both go sit down somewhere
So let me ask you this. If you agree. Do you expect your S/O to cheat.. And if you caught him. What would be your recourse. Or do have a if I don't know it won't hurt me disposition toward cheating? Just curious.
Well I'm not in college.. lol
so it's a little different. But as a general rule, people in college are too young to be trippin off somebody cheating. Thats just my opinion.
But for an old hen like myself, it's one and done. I dont have time to be lowjacking no man or wondering what he on when I'm not around. I don't expect my guy to cheat but I dont nothin past no man. All I do is trust him and observe if his actions are in line with his words. The benefit of the doubt must always be granted and it remains in tact until it's broken. If there are no signs of him cheating, there is no need for me to assume that he is.
Got ya..
How do you feel about having to start all over? Knowing that there is no guarantee that the new guy you run into won't turn around and do the same ? ? The other ladies can chime in as well? -
EmM HoLLa. wrote: »The Lonious Monk wrote: »This idea that men can't avoid cheating is pretty crazy though. It's easy not to cheat as long as you're actually ready to be monogamous and found a chick that's worth being committed to. Most dudes that cheat fail in one of those areas. I think the percentage of dudes that are incapable of being faithful is pretty small.
Everybody is different.. I think if men reeeaaally wanted to they could be faithful.. I just think most of them who cheat don't want to. It's that simple. Being capable is not really what's in question..
Yeah, that's kinda my point. They aren't ready. My personal opinion is that almost every dude gets to a stage where he's ready for a committed relationship, but it's different for everyone. I will admit though that I do think that it's true that men are only as faithful as their options. That seems contradictory, but I think there are limits to that too. Basically human relationships are a lot more complex than people believe.
