For all my people here that DON'T have children.
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Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing ? with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.
Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.
*Secretly regrets thoting w/o protection post*
I don't regret having a kid, I do regret who I had a kid with though.
I see folks feeling some type of way about my comment. Truth hurts.
And this is why I'm not in a rush to have kids cause I'll be damned if I have kids with the wrong person. That situation is all too common nowadays . I'm 29 years old I'm good on that. -
Im just waiting on marriage. I know too many of the homies with baby mama problems and I dont want my child going through that. And im not cool with the ready made families these women already have
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Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing ? with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.
Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.
*Secretly regrets thoting w/o protection post*
I don't regret having a kid, I do regret who I had a kid with though.
I see folks feeling some type of way about my comment. Truth hurts.
And this is why I'm not in a rush to have kids cause I'll be damned if I have kids with the wrong person. That situation is all too common nowadays . I'm 29 years old I'm good on that.
not something you can avoid 100% -
Im just waiting on marriage. I know too many of the homies with baby mama problems and I dont want my child going through that. And im not cool with the ready made families these women already have
I'm trying my hardest to not be with a woman who has kids. I'm 32 and it's getting more and more difficult to find a woman around my age with no kids. I just can't see myself getting with a girl who has kids. -
Im just waiting on marriage. I know too many of the homies with baby mama problems and I dont want my child going through that. And im not cool with the ready made families these women already have
I'm waiting on marriage too. I really don't want to be that stereotype of black baby mama. -
if you're over 25 with no kids then its obvious you've been deemed weak and natural selection has chosen to weed your lineage out of humanity
And even more humiliating for men it's nature's way of informing you that you have a small ? -
I'm glad and nah I don't want any. I have a 2 year old niece. I love her to death but she's a monster trapped in a baby's body. Get my kiss and hug then send her bad ass off to her pops.
I'm good......baby mamma? Thank ? , hell nah -
2stepz_ahead wrote: »Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing ? with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.
Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.
*Secretly regrets thoting w/o protection post*
I don't regret having a kid, I do regret who I had a kid with though.
I see folks feeling some type of way about my comment. Truth hurts.
And this is why I'm not in a rush to have kids cause I'll be damned if I have kids with the wrong person. That situation is all too common nowadays . I'm 29 years old I'm good on that.
not something you can avoid 100%
That is true, but both my Parents did it and I don't see why I can't. -
2stepz_ahead wrote: »Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing ? with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.
Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.
*Secretly regrets thoting w/o protection post*
I don't regret having a kid, I do regret who I had a kid with though.
I see folks feeling some type of way about my comment. Truth hurts.
And this is why I'm not in a rush to have kids cause I'll be damned if I have kids with the wrong person. That situation is all too common nowadays . I'm 29 years old I'm good on that.
not something you can avoid 100%
That is true, but both my Parents did it and I don't see why I can't.2stepz_ahead wrote: »Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing ? with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.
Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.
*Secretly regrets thoting w/o protection post*
I don't regret having a kid, I do regret who I had a kid with though.
I see folks feeling some type of way about my comment. Truth hurts.
And this is why I'm not in a rush to have kids cause I'll be damned if I have kids with the wrong person. That situation is all too common nowadays . I'm 29 years old I'm good on that.
not something you can avoid 100%
That is true, but both my Parents did it and I don't see why I can't.
they were from a different era
women now don't think like your mom -
I'm 35 I want kids but was doing it the "right" way.. it'd a blessing and a curse. I want my folks to have grandkids but I see how my friends struggle with child support and stress with baby momas... I may just say ? it soon tho and bite the bullet lol
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Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing ? with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.
Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.
It easy to say that bit as a man if the relationship don't work and u have multiple kids u never will see a full check again... think about 900 a month ery month for multiple kids.... that's life changing -
Im just waiting on marriage. I know too many of the homies with baby mama problems and I dont want my child going through that. And im not cool with the ready made families these women already have
I'm trying my hardest to not be with a woman who has kids. I'm 32 and it's getting more and more difficult to find a woman around my age with no kids. I just can't see myself getting with a girl who has kids.
We lost.... unless u date younger but that generation is so worldly.... we looking for unicorns... -
Im just waiting on marriage. I know too many of the homies with baby mama problems and I dont want my child going through that. And im not cool with the ready made families these women already have
I'm trying my hardest to not be with a woman who has kids. I'm 32 and it's getting more and more difficult to find a woman around my age with no kids. I just can't see myself getting with a girl who has kids.
We lost.... unless u date younger but that generation is so worldly.... we looking for unicorns...
I just can't take these early 20s girls. Smh I don't have the patience, no matter how fine they are -
2stepz_ahead wrote: »2stepz_ahead wrote: »Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing ? with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.
Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.
*Secretly regrets thoting w/o protection post*
I don't regret having a kid, I do regret who I had a kid with though.
I see folks feeling some type of way about my comment. Truth hurts.
And this is why I'm not in a rush to have kids cause I'll be damned if I have kids with the wrong person. That situation is all too common nowadays . I'm 29 years old I'm good on that.
not something you can avoid 100%
That is true, but both my Parents did it and I don't see why I can't.2stepz_ahead wrote: »Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing ? with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.
Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.
*Secretly regrets thoting w/o protection post*
I don't regret having a kid, I do regret who I had a kid with though.
I see folks feeling some type of way about my comment. Truth hurts.
And this is why I'm not in a rush to have kids cause I'll be damned if I have kids with the wrong person. That situation is all too common nowadays . I'm 29 years old I'm good on that.
not something you can avoid 100%
That is true, but both my Parents did it and I don't see why I can't.
they were from a different era
women now don't think like your mom
Oh I know that, that's why I'm pushing 30 with no kids in sight
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Im just waiting on marriage. I know too many of the homies with baby mama problems and I dont want my child going through that. And im not cool with the ready made families these women already have
I'm trying my hardest to not be with a woman who has kids. I'm 32 and it's getting more and more difficult to find a woman around my age with no kids. I just can't see myself getting with a girl who has kids.
We lost.... unless u date younger but that generation is so worldly.... we looking for unicorns...
I just can't take these early 20s girls. Smh I don't have the patience, no matter how fine they are
yup, don't do it. -
for those of you on your high horses tom bout waiting to get married, you do know that if ya'll have kids, and ya'll get divorced, for whatever reason, she is now your baby mama too right? or is she the mother of your children b/c you put a ring on it?
let me know so i can see if i need to visit 2sides.com -
Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing ? with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.
Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.
Sometimes freedom is just the ability to not be responsible for someone or have that constant worry that comes with being a parent.
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Member 10 years ago yamps used to say "there's no good men left cuz they were all ? , dead or in jail" ? :joy: LOOOLLOLOLOL man how times have changed !!
What are they saying nowadays ??
he treats me like ? but at least he don't beat me. -
for those of you on your high horses tom bout waiting to get married, you do know that if ya'll have kids, and ya'll get divorced, for whatever reason, she is now your baby mama too right? or is she the mother of your children b/c you put a ring on it?
let me know so i can see if i need to visit 2sides.com
yea....marraige stops nothing...
if it's a goal cool. but to think it's an answer....I got a bridge to sell you in brooklyn -
for those of you on your high horses tom bout waiting to get married, you do know that if ya'll have kids, and ya'll get divorced, for whatever reason, she is now your baby mama too right? or is she the mother of your children b/c you put a ring on it?
let me know so i can see if i need to visit 2sides.com
You must've been divorced before, this sounds personal. -
for those of you on your high horses tom bout waiting to get married, you do know that if ya'll have kids, and ya'll get divorced, for whatever reason, she is now your baby mama too right? or is she the mother of your children b/c you put a ring on it?
let me know so i can see if i need to visit 2sides.com
You must've been divorced before, this sounds personal.
But you can look at the stats and see he has a point. My mother was married for 15 years and still ended up being a "baby mama". There are no guarantees in life. -
2stepz_ahead wrote: »for those of you on your high horses tom bout waiting to get married, you do know that if ya'll have kids, and ya'll get divorced, for whatever reason, she is now your baby mama too right? or is she the mother of your children b/c you put a ring on it?
let me know so i can see if i need to visit 2sides.com
yea....marraige stops nothing...
if it's a goal cool. but to think it's an answer....I got a bridge to sell you in brooklyn
I feel u. For a lot of folk it's the moral code of how they may have been raised. It was put in my head no kids before marriage.... seeing how single parent homes impact the community it made me cautious.... but as I got older the realization that the world doesn't have that same moral code... nothing is written in stone. -
2stepz_ahead wrote: »2stepz_ahead wrote: »Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing ? with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.
Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.
*Secretly regrets thoting w/o protection post*
I don't regret having a kid, I do regret who I had a kid with though.
I see folks feeling some type of way about my comment. Truth hurts.
And this is why I'm not in a rush to have kids cause I'll be damned if I have kids with the wrong person. That situation is all too common nowadays . I'm 29 years old I'm good on that.
not something you can avoid 100%
That is true, but both my Parents did it and I don't see why I can't.2stepz_ahead wrote: »Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing ? with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.
Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.
*Secretly regrets thoting w/o protection post*
I don't regret having a kid, I do regret who I had a kid with though.
I see folks feeling some type of way about my comment. Truth hurts.
And this is why I'm not in a rush to have kids cause I'll be damned if I have kids with the wrong person. That situation is all too common nowadays . I'm 29 years old I'm good on that.
not something you can avoid 100%
That is true, but both my Parents did it and I don't see why I can't.
they were from a different era
women now don't think like your mom
Women from this era don't how to cook, are ? everything on dating sites, live on social media, and want to be like ? . Not to mention the old social diseases that linger such as daddy issues, depression, not wanting to take responsibility, being birds, etc. Some of these chicks are yamps, ? gotta be careful.
And that's why I'm going international. The day I decide to settle down, I'm gettin me an exotic beauty that hasn't been westernized. Not them mail order brides. I'm talking those local beauties. Think Michael Corleone in the Godfather 2. -
for those of you on your high horses tom bout waiting to get married, you do know that if ya'll have kids, and ya'll get divorced, for whatever reason, she is now your baby mama too right? or is she the mother of your children b/c you put a ring on it?
let me know so i can see if i need to visit 2sides.com
You must've been divorced before, this sounds personal.
But you can look at the stats and see he has a point. My mother was married for 15 years and still ended up being a "baby mama". There are no guarantees in life.
Never said he was wrong that's why I didn't bring up the word marriage in my 1st post. I know how this ? works. -
I have a niece that is 22 years old. She used to whine, whine, whine about being with a guy. My siblings & I used to give her the food for thought. Told her "Stop worrying about that. Stop being desperate & take advantage of your life &live it before you end up with someone that you wish you wasn't with." & etc etc. She didn't soak the free game tho. Now she is expecting with twins, now she is saying "I wish I had a man that can teach my boys how to be a gentleman & treat a lady etc etc". I just smh at her status
