Poly-life or nah...
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whatevathehell wrote: »Well, no exposing or running this one off....future and past ic females take note...this how you pose to post..no ? given
She knows nothing about giving no ? she is charitable in that regard -
@MoneyPowerRespect why you think you need an actual poly relationship instead of just having a side ? that your current man knows about (or just knows about the situation)?
Everybody knowing each other and being everybody business seem messy to me and you got 2 other kids and their families to deal with behind that...I'd just keep it plain with my dude and keep that between us. -
I just picture explaining that ? to the kids before hand then again after if it doesn't work. It's not just you going into the poly life but your kids too.
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atribecalledgabi wrote: »@MoneyPowerRespect why you think you need an actual poly relationship instead of just having a side ? that your current man knows about (or just knows about the situation)?
Everybody knowing each other and being everybody business seem messy to me and you got 2 other kids and their families to deal with behind that...I'd just keep it plain with my dude and keep that between us.
You got to read between the lines, this isn't about her wanting a poly relationship, this is about her being insecure and thinking her guy is cheating, she's venting and soothing herself by mentally manipulating herself into thinking she'd be okay if her guy came clean about his side chick
Or this thread is a therapeutic rant because he came clean about his side chick -
MoneyPowerRespect wrote: »2stepz_ahead wrote: »why cant you get a ? an hold the ? at night?
There's no feeling like a head between your legs.
We don't live together and when I am there, I feel like I'm taking care of 3 kids.2stepz_ahead wrote: »as long as he can take care of the two of you.....an shares time
and when you want some dikk you get your ? ...or you an shorty hit it up....
yall pool your money for the bigger plan and create wealth, share the duties of raising kids and movie night.
i think everything will be cool.
Yeah. I know that some houses up there are reasonably priced but may need some work. That's cool.
She and I aren't going to have sex. I'm not ? .
I truly think that it'll work. I just don't wanna take my baby away from his dad. That distance is a killer.
They make dolls now. You got options -
If you arent happy then just leave...theres plenty of good dudes out there that will match your sex drive all this poly ? is extreme as ? ..smh at ? wanting whole lifesyle changes cause they aint bein ? enough
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whatevathehell wrote: »Well, no exposing or running this one off....future and past ic females take note...this how you pose to post..no ? given
I'm waiting to see if anyone will try to 'expose' me. I don't have anything to expose tbh -
atribecalledgabi wrote: »@MoneyPowerRespect why you think you need an actual poly relationship instead of just having a side ? that your current man knows about (or just knows about the situation)?
Everybody knowing each other and being everybody business seem messy to me and you got 2 other kids and their families to deal with behind that...I'd just keep it plain with my dude and keep that between us.
You got to read between the lines, this isn't about her wanting a poly relationship, this is about her being insecure and thinking her guy is cheating, she's venting and soothing herself by mentally manipulating herself into thinking she'd be okay if her guy came clean about his side chick
Or this thread is a therapeutic rant because he came clean about his side chick
Nah. He doesn't have a side chic.
If he did, I'd be sssssoooooo freaking happy..? -
FactsMoneyPowerRespect wrote: »whatevathehell wrote: »Well, no exposing or running this one off....future and past ic females take note...this how you pose to post..no ? given
I'm waiting to see if anyone will try to 'expose' me. I don't have anything to expose tbh -
MoneyPowerRespect wrote: »2stepz_ahead wrote: »
I don't feel like giving DoU this Hebrew Israelite work...I'm cool.
Yeshua loves you. Amen. -
atribecalledgabi wrote: »@MoneyPowerRespect why you think you need an actual poly relationship instead of just having a side ? that your current man knows about (or just knows about the situation)?
Everybody knowing each other and being everybody business seem messy to me and you got 2 other kids and their families to deal with behind that...I'd just keep it plain with my dude and keep that between us.
I tried JUST having a side ? on the low AFTER we talked about poly-life.
? was cool but he started catching feelings and had to let him go. -
MoneyPowerRespect wrote: »atribecalledgabi wrote: »@MoneyPowerRespect why you think you need an actual poly relationship instead of just having a side ? that your current man knows about (or just knows about the situation)?
Everybody knowing each other and being everybody business seem messy to me and you got 2 other kids and their families to deal with behind that...I'd just keep it plain with my dude and keep that between us.
I tried JUST having a side ? on the low AFTER we talked about poly-life.
? was cool but he started catching feelings and had to let him go.
What about a side boyfriend? Or just date a married ? so yall both know it ain't going nowhere serious lol
Ask @2stepz_ahead about the logistics... -
atribecalledgabi wrote: »MoneyPowerRespect wrote: »atribecalledgabi wrote: »@MoneyPowerRespect why you think you need an actual poly relationship instead of just having a side ? that your current man knows about (or just knows about the situation)?
Everybody knowing each other and being everybody business seem messy to me and you got 2 other kids and their families to deal with behind that...I'd just keep it plain with my dude and keep that between us.
I tried JUST having a side ? on the low AFTER we talked about poly-life.
? was cool but he started catching feelings and had to let him go.
What about a side boyfriend? Or just date a married ? so yall both know it ain't going nowhere serious lol
Ask @2stepz_ahead about the logistics...
All this sounds like too much work to make a misreable situation work.
If you dont like being with dude, dont be with dude and find someone you like being with. -
If the polygamist life was like Big Love ....it might not be so bad lol
But realistically it's not and it's not for me. I don't want to share my man period.
Seems too complicated and y'all have kids too. Not even ones born into that life either. That lifestyle almost has to be taught from birth
I couldn't even imagine being told "babe it's Wednesday ....you know that means I'm with my other wife ...I'll see you on Friday "
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Did you get with him thinking he was father material...was there ever any real love or just wishful thinking turned into pity
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I couldn't do it. I'd rather him just do his thing every now and again without involving me, and vice versa.
It's just a matter of time before that ? goes bad with that dynamic under one roof. There can only be one king and one queen of the house. -
@Kai didn't your big head ass say your guy can ? other females too
He can, I'm not a never married, three time baby mama tho. His son is grown, we're not getting young kids involved in our freakdom and moving them all over the place. You tried it tho
And you ever get a new ? after your wife left you or nah?
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MoneyPowerRespect wrote: »atribecalledgabi wrote: »@MoneyPowerRespect why you think you need an actual poly relationship instead of just having a side ? that your current man knows about (or just knows about the situation)?
Everybody knowing each other and being everybody business seem messy to me and you got 2 other kids and their families to deal with behind that...I'd just keep it plain with my dude and keep that between us.
You got to read between the lines, this isn't about her wanting a poly relationship, this is about her being insecure and thinking her guy is cheating, she's venting and soothing herself by mentally manipulating herself into thinking she'd be okay if her guy came clean about his side chick
Or this thread is a therapeutic rant because he came clean about his side chick
Nah. He doesn't have a side chic.
If he did, I'd be sssssoooooo freaking happy..?
oh reallyMoneyPowerRespect wrote: »2stepz_ahead wrote: »why cant you get a ? an hold the ? at night?
Because she thinks that he's a "nice guy". The minute a woman starts thinking that about her guy it's a wrap.
I actually want him to get another woman, but he doesn't think that she'll go for it.
Besides, who gets jealous over a ? who plays the game all the time???
"but he doesn't think that she'll go for it."
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atribecalledgabi wrote: »MoneyPowerRespect wrote: »atribecalledgabi wrote: »@MoneyPowerRespect why you think you need an actual poly relationship instead of just having a side ? that your current man knows about (or just knows about the situation)?
Everybody knowing each other and being everybody business seem messy to me and you got 2 other kids and their families to deal with behind that...I'd just keep it plain with my dude and keep that between us.
I tried JUST having a side ? on the low AFTER we talked about poly-life.
? was cool but he started catching feelings and had to let him go.
What about a side boyfriend? Or just date a married ? so yall both know it ain't going nowhere serious lol
Ask @2stepz_ahead about the logistics...
All this sounds like too much work to make a misreable situation work.
If you dont like being with dude, dont be with dude and find someone you like being with.
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Messy as ? .
Be sure to return when this ? blow up in y’all face tho I’m sure it’ll be an entertaining story :joy: -
MsSouthern wrote: »If the polygamist life was like Big Love ....it might not be so bad lol
But realistically it's not and it's not for me. I don't want to share my man period.
Seems too complicated and y'all have kids too. Not even ones born into that life either. That lifestyle almost has to be taught from birth
I couldn't even imagine being told "babe it's Wednesday ....you know that means I'm with my other wife ...I'll see you on Friday "
That's why I'm saying she should just do her ? on the side and have her man know about it and keep it between them. Cuz if you start adding other ppls kids into the mix the repercussions of that poly relationship not working out will be way more intense than just her and her current dude not working out. -
You a mess. I ain’t finna sugarcoat ? . I ain’t about to say you progressive or anything like that. You’re debating being on a roster vs a stale relationship. You’re an idiot. You have five kids and willing to show them it’s okay to settle. ? a history with a mf because it’s obvious he’s taking advantage of your lack of empowerment. That ? trying have you play a part of his fantasy and you’re actually contemplating it and disregarding the impact that ? will have on your kids. They will never be dedicated to anything because they won’t feel the need to. They will grow up selfish and disillusioned because their adults were too caught up in foolishness to actually know true discipline and self respect. I think you’re looking at the fact y’all have a history and he’s willing to provide majority of the financial support.
Idk you but if I did I would finesse you until you hated every fiber of my being. Stop being a silly ? and build for your kids. -
Polygamy could work though. But her situation is too messy. Too many kids, they too old etc.
In the right situation, with the right people polygamy could work though.
I still havent given up in my dream of being genuinely in love with like 4 chicks that are genuinely in love with me AND they all in love with each other. -
Nah but real talk I feel like smacking fire out this 1 ? when she asking me about my day while im trying to focus on the game. Its like man we had like 3 hours to talk but you was shutting the ? up, soon as you see me watch the game, you wanna talk about my day.
Idk if I can multiply that by a few more. -
If everbody cool with it then I see no issue...only problem is the last baby daddy bout to be left out in the cold while he sick n ?
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