Y'all Ever Accept That You'll Never Live a "Normal" life?
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Besides the fact that I'm employed and not homeless, there's very few normal things bout my life. I grew up overseas & hate explaining this ? when ? ask "Where are you from?" I don't have any family. I probably won't ever marry/have a kid. ? I doubt I'll ever even be in a long term relationship. Everything in my life seems to be a catch 22. ? is rough man. I've almost just accepted that my life will never be "normal". Can any of y'all relate? What's not normal bout your life?
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I got family...But the rest...I can kinda cosign...Damn, now I'm depressed...
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Normalcy is subjective..i dont think about ? like that..everybody came out the factory flawded..why split hairs about it?
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im 24 and unless i get a kid or a "wife/babymomma" within the next few years i can see me bein dead or n jail b4 30...
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@damobb2deep
Why you figure that... Ain't u Airforce? -
damobb2deep wrote: »im 24 and unless i get a kid or a "wife/babymomma" within the next few years i can see me bein dead or n jail b4 30...
And you'll have no one to blame but yourself.
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damobb2deep wrote: »im 24 and unless i get a kid or a "wife/babymomma" within the next few years i can see me bein dead or n jail b4 30...
Hopefully its the former, ? wasting my tax dolllars on u animals. -
High Revolutionary wrote: »damobb2deep wrote: »im 24 and unless i get a kid or a "wife/babymomma" within the next few years i can see me bein dead or n jail b4 30...
And you'll have no one to blame but yourself.
uhhh was i supposta blame sombody else???? -
ChasinBundles wrote: »damobb2deep wrote: »im 24 and unless i get a kid or a "wife/babymomma" within the next few years i can see me bein dead or n jail b4 30...
Hopefully its the former, ? wasting my tax dolllars on u animals.
lol u help pay my salary now ? ... i do work 4 da government.. -
damobb2deep wrote: »ChasinBundles wrote: »damobb2deep wrote: »im 24 and unless i get a kid or a "wife/babymomma" within the next few years i can see me bein dead or n jail b4 30...
Hopefully its the former, ? wasting my tax dolllars on u animals.
lol u help pay my salary now ? ... i do work 4 da government..
lol say word? U was one of the hoes caught up in that Secret Service sex scandal? -
? _i_look_like wrote: »@damobb2deep
Why you figure that... Ain't u Airforce?
yea... but all its gonna take is dat call " bro he jus got murked... we kno who did it" and da plottin starts.. ive said this time and time again i joined 4 my ? ... not me... ive done more n my life den i exspected... da only thing mssin is a child.. if i have one i MIGHT fall back a lil... but until then ? its in gods hands... i havent lived my life 4 me ever honestly... i live 4 other people... -
damobb2deep wrote: »? _i_look_like wrote: »@damobb2deep
Why you figure that... Ain't u Airforce?
yea... but all its gonna take is dat call " bro he jus got murked... we kno who did it" and da plottin starts.. ive said this time and time again i joined 4 my ? ... not me... ive done more n my life den i exspected... da only thing mssin is a child.. if i have one i MIGHT fall back a lil... but until then ? its in gods hands... i havent lived my life 4 me ever honestly... i live 4 other people...
And you're satisfied with that? -
damobb2deep wrote: »? _i_look_like wrote: »@damobb2deep
Why you figure that... Ain't u Airforce?
yea... but all its gonna take is dat call " bro he jus got murked... we kno who did it" and da plottin starts.. ive said this time and time again i joined 4 my ? ... not me... ive done more n my life den i exspected... da only thing mssin is a child.. if i have one i MIGHT fall back a lil... but until then ? its in gods hands... i havent lived my life 4 me ever honestly... i live 4 other people...
Noooooooo!! Please, no child bro, we already know how that story will end if u have one. -
What's a "normal" life and what's so good about it ?
Marriage, kids, family all have pros and cons. And growing up overseas isn't ? up, by itself. -
damobb2deep wrote: »? _i_look_like wrote: »@damobb2deep
Why you figure that... Ain't u Airforce?
yea... but all its gonna take is dat call " bro he jus got murked... we kno who did it" and da plottin starts.. ive said this time and time again i joined 4 my ? ... not me... ive done more n my life den i exspected... da only thing mssin is a child.. if i have one i MIGHT fall back a lil... but until then ? its in gods hands... i havent lived my life 4 me ever honestly... i live 4 other people...
And you're satisfied with that?
yea...
its life... u ever seen dat movie " menace 2 society" when dude grandad asks him " do u care if u live or die" and his answer is " i dont kno" dat how i feel... " i dont kno" on one hand i dont care it is what it is... on da other i kno da pain it would cause my momma... she already back on work cuz her sister put her back on it... she lost her daughter... lost 2 brothers... lost her dad... den me? i dont think she would be able 2 take it... she would be da last person with my blood line alive... and at 40... and a lesbian i doubt she would have another child....
and it would hurt my dad as well... im his only blood son... and i kno he is scared of getting dat call " marco jus got killed" or " marco jus went 2 jail dey say he jus killed sombody" -
As long you sastified bro that's all that matters.
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Normal was never the point to shoot for in the first place..
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I can relate. I'm 25 and never been in a serious relationship. ? I be good though, i be doin all sorts of other ? atleast.
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Normal to me is:
Having a job that allows you have your own ? (car, crib, etc)
Being cool wit your fam. Atleast on speaking terms
Having close homies nh
Having a license/car
Being able to have a relationship wit a chick lasting longer than 3 months
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? gonna co-sign the ? like crazy outta here, IC is a safe haven for self-destructive ? ups.
you couldnt find 5 drug-free, educated, non-baby daddy/momma persons with standards out here, no lie -
I'm 29 years old with 2 kids and one on the way. My current girlfriend will most likely be my wife. My sons mom is cool and contempt for now. my current future wife is 6 months prego.
This is as good as its gonna get -
Cool and contempt bruh?
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cool and contempt is the best i can describe her.
she doesnt start any issues with me or my girl. i do take of my son.
cool and contempt -
Normalcy is subjective..i dont think about ? like that..everybody came out the factory flawded..why split hairs about it?
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ChasinBundles wrote: »damobb2deep wrote: »ChasinBundles wrote: »damobb2deep wrote: »im 24 and unless i get a kid or a "wife/babymomma" within the next few years i can see me bein dead or n jail b4 30...
Hopefully its the former, ? wasting my tax dolllars on u animals.
lol u help pay my salary now ? ... i do work 4 da government..
lol say word? U was one of the hoes caught up in that Secret Service sex scandal?
lol nope... but dat ? aint new.. -
The_Maryvale_Joker wrote: »cool and contempt is the best i can describe her.
she doesnt start any issues with me or my girl. i do take of my son.
cool and contempt
Perhaps you should look up the definition of the word contempt.
con·tempt /kənˈtem(p)t/Noun: 1. The feeling that a person or a thing is beneath consideration, worthless, or deserving scorn