So I Am Trying To Quit ? .
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What about jackin off before sex to last longer?
Ive heard alot of people say they do this strategy
I've never understood the logic behind this strategy. Instead of jackin, why not just bust that 1st nut ? her, then just keep going for a 2nd nut if u want the sex to last longer. Lifes not a porno movie ...just cause you bust once dont mean the scene is immediately over ....if the ? is bad, your gonna wanna keep going & bust a 2nd nut with her anyway. -
So the thing here is this:
Not everyone can just go once a day and be done. In the same way an alcoholic can't just have "one drink" and continue the day.
Some vices affect others differently. What may be non-addictive to you, may be like heroin to another person.
And yes, cutting ? can improve your life if you've identified your feelings about it are negatively impacting your social, mental and physical health. Moderation can work for some but for others it's like smoking a cigarette at the gas station, not worth it.
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What about jackin off before sex to last longer?
Ive heard alot of people say they do this strategy
I've never understood the logic behind this strategy. Instead of jackin, why not just bust that 1st nut ? her, then just keep going for a 2nd nut if u want the sex to last longer. Lifes not a porno movie ...just cause you bust once dont mean the scene is immediately over ....if the ? is bad, your gonna wanna keep going & bust a 2nd nut with her anyway.
Yep, goes to show how porn warps people's ordinary views of sex. Porn is not real, but people are augmenting their sex lives based on the unrealistic expectations of porn. The actors there are on mad drugs to keep their stamina and performance up during the scenes. You can't compete with that without taking drugs. -
I don't see how cutting beating your meat can improve your life. I mean it's not like it takes up so much time in my day that it effects my productivity. I can see how it could help if you doing it numerous times a day but if you a one a day maxer like me.... Shiiii that's just healthy.
On that note how the ? do people do it more than once a day? The shame alone is enough for me to not to it more than once
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But in another not it does suppress sexual desires by a great margin
But you could also not whackit and channel your desires elsewhere into something more productive, or stimulate urself mentally -
I see what u did there lol -
Yall niggs goin 2 hell for that lmfao
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I've actually done a little research on this. Jackin off itself ain't a problem.
The problem is internet porn. The fact that it's so widely and instantly available makes it effect your brain's dopamine reward system in a similar way to ? or heroin. And thats kind of just the tip of the iceberg..
That ? can really ? up your mind if you don't reel it in
PPM is prime example of this. Whatever freak ? you THINK you got just know that ? is tame compared some of the filth in that thread. Inside out ? and worse
Some of them ? brains is ? -
My ? went to sleep early
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Day 3 and feeling good, the temptation is getting stronger but I will overcome.
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This thread has inspired me. 24 hrs strong.
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This thread is ? weird
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Banged my girl again today which is strange, twice in one week is rare these days lol, I still haven't done the deed and It's almost day 4, ? I feel good but also I am looking forward to my girl getting her period again, that's when the real test will begin.nickel-us P wrote: »This thread has inspired me. 24 hrs strong.
Good for you man stay strong. -
Aye you inspired me too bro. Im bout to stop for good. All that ? i was just talking about porn and i was JUST on pornhub. I gotta cut that ? out
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So many people struggle with quiting that ? , but it's hella worth it once u overcome it. like once u figure out how that ? been manipulating your brain, and effecting the way you view women, it's easier to conquer it. The benefits you get from cutting out the porn by far outweigh any discomfort withdrawal or whatever along the way. You'll see, at the end of the day you get a quiet, solid confidence and good feeling that lasts way longer than any intense bustation of a nut from porn. Plus you earn more self respect. If you give in, you put all that potential at risk. Simply not worth the trade off.
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Preach2Teach wrote: »? I feel good but also I am looking forward to my girl getting her period again
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So many people struggle with quiting that ? , but it's hella worth it once u overcome it. like once u figure out how that ? been manipulating your brain, and effecting the way you view women, it's easier to conquer it. The benefits you get from cutting out the porn by far outweigh any discomfort withdrawal or whatever along the way. You'll see, at the end of the day you get a quiet, solid confidence and good feeling that lasts way longer than any intense bustation of a nut from porn. Plus you earn more self respect. If you give in, you put all that potential at risk. Simply not worth the trade off.
This is what I've been telling people. A lot of my guys say there's nothing wrong with it but when I ask them to go a few days without it and all of a sudden there's a problem. Porn warps your view on normal sex, on women and your role as a man. I got some brothers in college that because of porn think they have to be this raging, slay all women in sight physical sexual beast.
They focus so much energy on bedding women and not making real progress.
The confidence you get from quitting is so much better than the withdrawal. I have days that I get mad ? in class and I'm just thinking about smashing everything in sight. But that is just the temporary "pain" of improving yourself. Back then I would have succumbed to the temptation by heading back to my room. Now I'll just breathe deeply, say a quick prayer and refocus my mind.
Quitting P&M is an exercise like running or lifting. It's not the first mile or the first couple reps that create progress, but the last couple miles that burn your lungs and legs as well as the last 3 reps that require all your strength to complete.
As you overcome you'll feel so much better. Keep the faith and keep striving. -
Aye you inspired me too bro. Im bout to stop for good. All that ? i was just talking about porn and i was JUST on pornhub. I gotta cut that ? out
Cuttin' off PornHub is just the first step......but whut u gonna do about them hours of porn u already got commited to memory?, lol
THAT MENTAL WEBSITES A MUTHFUCKA!...lets see how long u could go without loggin on to that.
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? so many times i actidentally typed in findtubes when i was trying to get the university webpage
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I'm over a month removed and I went on a porn site just to see what's up see opened afew flicks of my fave type pressed play one at a time and watch for afew ended up x'ing them out with no ? given
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Day 4 for me now, this is the best I have ever done and it feels good, if I can do this then anybody can.
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I had a bad habit of overly ? in my 20s. Took like a 2 year break and restarted. I'm gonna attempt to take another long break from it. I started to delete the Instagram models from my account and try not to watch porn anymore. ? hard but necessary
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if you have a girl/wife/side chick .....dont cheat yourself or her from having great sex
but yea cut down on the porn to once or twice a month.when you have sex do all the freaky ? you wanna do....let your girl sit on your face and cumm on your face,eat her ass out with some strawberry ice cream,? her in the ass,bust a nutt on her face,role play,have sex in random places at random times,have butt ass naked sex in the rain while its lightning and thundering,? her while she has starbursts candy in her ? ,then make her lick it off, make your porn tapes and watch them back,etc.i've did all this in my lifetime.you have a brain and a imagination,use it for something real....
if you have someone thats willing to let it all out,real sex is a billion times better than ? .
you have to have self control in everything you do....sex,? ,smoking weed,eating the wrong foods,spending money,being on the net,listening to dumbed down rap music,etc
sacrafice is the main key 2 $ucce$$....
i believe in you, so believe in yourself....you can do it!!!!!!!!!! -
Goat threat. I gave that ? up as well. Been about a month now I suppose. ? just ain't healthy fellas.
I support t/s as well as anyone else breaking free of that ? . -
Preach2Teach wrote: »It's crazy how some songs can trigger sexual desires to beat the meat, I had the music on last night and had to skip a lot of tracks, Lil Kim and the 2 Live Crew are a no no.
this neegha is the type of neegha that just gets the urge to whack it when he hears the benny hill song
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MK6TXMsvgQg
probably makes that same face too nh -
Guess I'll be the one to say it...
I ain't giving ? up lol