What's worse being ? ? or being falsely accused of ? ?

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  • jono
    jono Members Posts: 30,280 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    being ?
    DWO wrote: »
    jono wrote: »
    DWO wrote: »
    jono wrote: »

    i do personally feel it is worse for a man to be ? by another man...i do think that is worse....



    So ? is only bad when its man on man ? ? Smh this thread is silly. You a silly ? Du.

    And you're a ? idiot...

    I went on and on about how bad ? is and you respond I only think ? is bad of its man on man??

    Come on bruh... That's not what the ? I said.

    You been arguing this whole time that being accused of ? is soooooo bad YET unequivocally state that a man ? a man is worse.

    So you tell me whats going on here.

    Exactly what it says... Men and women are different. The same thing happening to them will worse considering what it is..

    Domestic abuse is a bad thing. It is however worse when a man domestically abuses a woman in my opinion. That does not mean a woman domestically abusing a man isn't bad. It just means the contrast is worse.

    ? is bad. It is however worse if a man rapes another man in my opinion. That doesn't mean that a man ? a woman isn't bad. It just means man on man is worse.

    If you think that opinion of wrong then ? it I'm not explaining that one any further.

    However back to the original argument, I still feel that ? itself is slightly worse than being falsely accused, but the potential consequences of the latter make them closer to being equal human wrongs than anything.

    Its ridiculous but I'm going to let you cook.
  • leftcoastkev
    leftcoastkev Members Posts: 6,232 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Is it possible for me to be ? but still the one to ? ?

    I saw a porn where the dude was ? the girl and was about to pull out...she locked in and he wasn't able to pull out in time....
    So I guess it's possible......he got ? for a couple strokes.....

    NSFW
  • desertrain10
    desertrain10 Members Posts: 4,829 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    mryounggun wrote: »
    This thread is a really good example of part of the reason why the that kid from Stanford was able to get the sentence he got.

    exactly

    speaks to a broader cultural sense that mischaracterizes ? as sex rather than an act of extreme violence

  • S2J
    S2J Members Posts: 28,458 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Not even reading this thread. The ic favorites is disgusting tho

    Dwo makes this thread so there's 260 replies.

    This thread is ? and it shoulda been clapped off the rip.
  • thefabmd2dc
    thefabmd2dc Members Posts: 2,572 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Getting ?
    Anyone can come back from a false accusation.
    ? is the only crime that you can't get over
  • Idiopathic Joker
    Idiopathic Joker Members, Moderators Posts: 45,691 Regulator
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    Getting ?
    Anyone can come back from a false accusation.
    ? is the only crime that you can't get over

    Yup. I seen a ? not too long ago I was locked up with still walking funny. I seen that ? get gang ? in the chow room when we had one guard on duty. We had mashed potatoes that day and ? was slapping his ass with hand fulls of potatoes using it at batter for their ? ? .

    I'm never going back to prison.
  • CapitalB
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    being falsely accused of ?
    MissK wrote: »
    i even posed the question to @MissK but she jus wacked me..

    What's the point in discussing further with someone who's going to say boohoo get an abortion and if you get ? go take meds.

    You and your daughter stay safe.

    nah ? ..
    u stay safe..

    and if its too late for that be safer next time..
    smh the ? ?!
  • Plutarch
    Plutarch Members Posts: 3,239 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ? is sex? Wow, c'mon people. We all should know by now that ? has little to do with sex, more to do with power.
    S2J wrote: »
    Not even reading this thread. The ic favorites is disgusting tho

    Dwo makes this thread so there's 260 replies.

    This thread is ? and it shoulda been clapped off the rip.

    I agree, but you almost sound like you're hating.

    No diss to t/s, but on the surface, this is obviously a ? thread (along the lines of what's worst: slavery or the Holocaust), if it's supposed to be taken seriously.

    But in the two pages that I've read, some gems were dropped. Some people really don't know how a person's life can be utterly destroyed if he's just accused of ? . It's way beyond messed up.
  • Splackavelli
    Splackavelli Members Posts: 18,806 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    _? _ wrote: »
    If I was falsely accused I would be ashamed embarrassed and mad. If I was ? I would be on the brink of suicide. For a woman ? is so degrading n belittling embarrassing the worst but I think women are able to handle ? better because they still have their essence of womanhood. But for a man if u are ? you are no longer a man. The psychological consequences of the actual can destroy ppl, the court destroys the falsely accused lifestyle but they make it thru

    Both. Is bad but being falsely accused will ruin your reputation and your social status and add to the fact that it will have ? wanting to ? you
  • xxCivicxx
    xxCivicxx Members Posts: 6,927 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    mryounggun wrote: »
    This thread is a really good example of part of the reason why the that kid from Stanford was able to get the sentence he got.

    Completely different situation and you're actually really dumb for trying to make that comparison

    Sorry
  • xxCivicxx
    xxCivicxx Members Posts: 6,927 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    mryounggun wrote: »
    DWO wrote: »
    mryounggun wrote: »
    This thread is a really good example of part of the reason why the that kid from Stanford was able to get the sentence he got.

    naw, that kid got his sentence because of money, status, privilege, and ? networks...the general consensus has been and always will be that ? is a horrible horrible crime, and the time he got is ? disgusting by any stretch of the imagination....

    i did not make this thread with any agendas or motives, i just wanted to have conversation about something i felt that was the other side of the same coin that might be equally as bad, but not directly addressed..

    frankly i'm surprised by the response as well... but nowhere do i support ? nor to i minimize ? , or to i take ? lightly...

    1. You're right. That's why I was careful to say that this was PART of the reason. All those things to named are a part of the reason as well. But a big part of it is that, unless it's done under the most vile circumstances, tape just doesn't seem to be a huge deal to a lot of people.

    2. I gotta disagree with you, Du. The fact that you said you were torn about which is worse means you minimize ? . In my opinion anyway.

    It's good that you can recognize this
  • jniam
    jniam Members Posts: 623 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    being ?
    Nah man, you aint taking my manhood.

  • xxCivicxx
    xxCivicxx Members Posts: 6,927 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    DWO wrote: »
    naw i don't minimize ? at all... nor would i want to be ? ...wtf?

    i'm talking in all the distress that goes along with a false accusation.....

    there are many horrible horrible, horrid consequences....some so extreme it pretty much makes both equally as bad and many people feel that they're equally as bad... that doesn't minimize either, it's just taking into account how bad each are.....i could have made a equal option, but i wanted to spark a conversation that made people argue the extreme horrors of both sides....

    and both sides did that...in detail....

    this was a good discussion.....over all that's where we come here to do....talk about ? .....debate ? ....

    everything about ? in my opinion is ? up....the thought of a loved one being ? being ? is enough to drive me mad......the suggestion of myself being held down and ? ...inconceivable.....i can't even begin to place myself through that thought process..and joker's stories about hearing men get ? at a jail....that ? isn't something i would wish on my worse enemy as it stands..........and not to take away anything from women being ? ... ..i do personally feel it is worse for a man to be ? by another man...i do think that is worse....and i don't give a ? who disagrees on that note....

    but back to the subject....everything that can be discussed, everything can be debated..it doesn't make a damn difference how sensitive the subject... it can be debated... if you chose not to debate, or find the topic too much for you...stay the ? out the thread....it's that simple....but people came to talk and debate, and i'll say it again....it was a good topic for discussion...

    i don't know if this will change anyone's outlook on the topic...but i still think it was a good conversation.....

    the pains and horrors a person who was falsely accused have to go through were strongly represented in this thread...everything might not have been covered, but many people voiced strongly that being accused in some cases can be just as bad....which further lets me know...this was a strong topic.....


    i asked the same question on facebook, and it was a good debate there as well....

    and for the record on facebook
    6 said accused was worse
    7 said both were equally horrific
    2 said ? was worse

    and amongst those that said falsely accused was worse 1 was a female who was ? before....

    so i'm just saying the topic is a strongly debatable topic......i just didn't want to give anyone here the chance to say equally i wanted people to chose one or the other to get more conversation.....


    even though i'm still not voting...i'm sure this will go into tomorrow morning....

    The feminine posters(male and female) are trying to shame you into discontinuing this very debatable topic btw
  • xxCivicxx
    xxCivicxx Members Posts: 6,927 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    DWO wrote: »
    jono wrote: »

    i do personally feel it is worse for a man to be ? by another man...i do think that is worse....



    So ? is only bad when its man on man ? ? Smh this thread is silly. You a silly ? Du.

    And you're a ? idiot...

    I went on and on about how bad ? is and you respond I only think ? is bad of its man on man??

    Come on bruh... That's not what the ? I said.

    He likes to twist people's words in feminine ways lol

    I avoid most of his posts now, they just irritate me
  • xxCivicxx
    xxCivicxx Members Posts: 6,927 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Getting ?
    Anyone can come back from a false accusation.
    ? is the only crime that you can't get over

    Can you name someone?

    I keep seeing this statement being made in this thread...
  • 700
    700 Members Posts: 14,496 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    being ?
    prolly being ?
    i can shake off somebody accusing me of ?

    but somebody literally ? me.....naw

    cant shake that off plus the physical pain of it

    ill let somebody accuse me of ? anyday before i let somebody ? me

    this should be a open and shut debate
  • MissK
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    MissK wrote: »
    i even posed the question to @MissK but she jus wacked me..

    What's the point in discussing further with someone who's going to say boohoo get an abortion and if you get ? go take meds.

    You and your daughter stay safe.

    nah ? ..
    u stay safe..

    and if its too late for that be safer next time..
    smh the ? ?!

    Aren't you the poster ? on here?
    ? please.
  • LUClEN
    LUClEN Members Posts: 20,559 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    That depends. Some people serve a lot of time over false accusations. I don't care how bad you were ? , that ? is not worse than being put in a maximum security prison for 15 years
  • Beta
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    being ?
    The chances that somebody in this thread has gotten ? or ? somebody is 40%
  • CapitalB
    CapitalB Members Posts: 24,556 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    being falsely accused of ?
    MissK wrote: »
    MissK wrote: »
    i even posed the question to @MissK but she jus wacked me..

    What's the point in discussing further with someone who's going to say boohoo get an abortion and if you get ? go take meds.

    You and your daughter stay safe.

    nah ? ..
    u stay safe..

    and if its too late for that be safer next time..
    smh the ? ?!

    Aren't you the poster ? on here?
    ? please.

    what is it wit ? and bringin up irrelevant ? in a discussion!!?

    oh yeh...
    the lack of logic..

    anyways.. as u were..
  • mryounggun
    mryounggun Members Posts: 13,451 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    being ?
    xxCivicxx wrote: »
    mryounggun wrote: »
    This thread is a really good example of part of the reason why the that kid from Stanford was able to get the sentence he got.

    Completely different situation and you're actually really dumb for trying to make that comparison

    Sorry

    I respect your misguided opinion. Salute.
  • xxCivicxx
    xxCivicxx Members Posts: 6,927 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    mryounggun wrote: »
    xxCivicxx wrote: »
    mryounggun wrote: »
    This thread is a really good example of part of the reason why the that kid from Stanford was able to get the sentence he got.

    Completely different situation and you're actually really dumb for trying to make that comparison

    Sorry

    I respect your misguided opinion. Salute.

    Still posting like a female I see
  • dalyricalbandit
    dalyricalbandit Members, Moderators Posts: 67,918 Regulator
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    "I did not have sexual relations or ? that woman"

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    vs

    "yea man i got ? "

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    both ? up but when saying your side of the story the ? one as a man might sound worse
  • blackrain
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    xxCivicxx wrote: »
    Getting ?
    Anyone can come back from a false accusation.
    ? is the only crime that you can't get over

    Can you name someone?

    I keep seeing this statement being made in this thread...

    ? Tyson went to jail for ? and this ? came back to the ring, movies, and had people giving rave reviews for his 1 man show he toured doing last year
  • 700
    700 Members Posts: 14,496 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    being ?
    so the ones choosing accused of ? would basically take A ? IN THE ASS over being accused of ?

    these ? crazy

    ill take jail and social shame before I take a ? in the ass