What's The Worst Habit A Woman Can Have In Your Opinion?
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Hate when women defend other women who they know ? ' up on some U-N-I-T-Y ? .
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Being a ? ?
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Young females wana argue about the dumbest ? .
Older ones know what they want -
Smoking.
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Cosigning Amber Rose/Blac Chyna/Kardashian behavior
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obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: ».. this ? didn't ask not one follow up question when his friend told him "my wife is divorcing me for a woman." I would have gotten all the ? tea ..
I've never taken instances like this as an opportunity to extract more information. That seems selfish.
People will spill their own tea, esp close friends. It's better to simply be open rather than inquisitive, even if curious.
A man especially may not be ready to talk about all the details quite yet. Key word being talk.
I want to say women are selfish/immature in that way, that drama can be an activity for them when you strip everything down..
Are women naturally selfish/immature in that way, @obnoxiouslyfresh ?
Well women are more expressive, in general. So we couldn't fathom anyone sharing a detail like "my spouse left me for their ? lover" if they had no intention of elaborating. If I mention "Yea my husband left me for a man," I'm already on the road to following up with "Yea girl, I saw "fat ? " in his Google search history so I followed him to work and this ? stopped at a hotel and came out wearing assless chaps holding hands with some dude that looked like Richard Simmons." Our brains can't even compute that someone wouldn't have more to say about something so salacious. It would be like learning that a teenager died or something and not asking how. -
obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »My worst habit is overanalyzing ? and seeing things that ain't there. My man could say that he's thirsty and wants a glass of water and I will call all of my friends trying to dissect precisely what he meant by the word "thirsty" and what he could have really meant by saying "glass" instead of "cup". By the time I'm done, I'll have it figured out that by thirst he was talking about a deep inner soul longing that can only be filled by the love of another woman who is independent and whole and knows what she needs and that is why he needed a glass which was actually a metaphor for the self reflection required of him which will allow him to see the attributes of that woman clearly in order to decipher whether she is the one who could fulfill his needs as a life-long partner in holy matrimony.
Meanwhile... this ? be just wanting a beverage and I've already broken up with him in my mind because I deserve better than someone who doesn't see me as whole already.
So basically he could ? your whole world if simply by saying "We need to talk"
If he say we need to talk, I'm asking what's her name. -
atribecalledgabi wrote: »Trap questions and mind games...asking questions they already know the answer to see how you respong. My mom did it to me all the time growing up and now I'm like "how do ? still be falling for this ? ?"
guilty!!!!
Fam.....when I tell you I HAAAAAATE that ? ??? And by the time you get to the point I'm already mad cuz you coulda just said what the problem was in the beginning...and because I'm mad the change you seek ain't gonna happen lol -
self entitlement.....you know the ones with kids and think they deserve a king when all they can get is a pauper.
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Hate when women defend other woman who they know ? ' up on some U-N-I-T-Y ? .
Top 5 pet peeve. Almost makes Twitter unbearable -
Asking me to cook and do dishes.
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Man, I've seen women in my family do this so much growing up that I do it to chicks now sometimes just to ? with them lol.atribecalledgabi wrote: »Trap questions and mind games...asking questions they already know the answer to see how you respong. My mom did it to me all the time growing up and now I'm like "how do ? still be falling for this ? ?" -
Hate when women defend other woman who they know ? ' up on some U-N-I-T-Y ? .
We all we got!
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atribecalledgabi wrote: »atribecalledgabi wrote: »Trap questions and mind games...asking questions they already know the answer to see how you respong. My mom did it to me all the time growing up and now I'm like "how do ? still be falling for this ? ?"
guilty!!!!
Fam.....when I tell you I HAAAAAATE that ? ??? And by the time you get to the point I'm already mad cuz you coulda just said what the problem was in the beginning...and because I'm mad the change you seek ain't gonna happen lol
it's really bad with me because I'm super duper Blunt, but I like to know motives and reasons behind everything so I'll ask a million questions to get to why, what, when, and where and have a full-blown circular ass argument. All gone about in a round about way.
and I'll be over that ? in 5 minutes and wondering why he's mad lol
I'll be like I know what I wanted to know, I'm done what's the problem?
I'm one frustrating woman. -
Complaining about the food at my favorite spots. You be eating there for years, they know your face, know your beer, no problems, great food. Then suddenly some new chick the one that need to see the manager.
I had one with a legit gripe, but the others....
"I dont like how this taste, its too dry", im like yo, nobody has ever sent the stuffed blackened fish back. The ? is going on.
That aint a habit really, but ive seen this happen too many times. Its gotta be some other ? to that amongst female folk. Particularly when you start to date. -
Besides the obvious ? like hygiene.
Smoking and always on FB telling their business is the worst. -
Talking too much, smoking, asking too many questions and wanting to take a picture for everything.
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Too needy and too much talking
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Farting
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flakey hoes
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Nagging
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Joker_De_La_Lover wrote: »Farting
Nope.... I love when a woman can ? comfortably in front of a ? ... especially the loud ones -
"As a woman" or even worse "As a mother". Just say what you have to say, damn.
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obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: ».. Our brains can't even compute that someone wouldn't have more to say about something so salacious. It would be like learning that a teenager died or something and not asking how ..
More to say as in more feelings on the matter, or more to say/share with you?
Wanting to know more, even if you only want to help, doesn't entitle one to more information, friends and family included.
I know this seems like a stiff point, but people that've said what they intended aren't "not having more to say" simply because you want to know more. In my experience, women are bad with this; Because they make things about them... so I'll ask a million questions to get to why, what, when, and where and have a full-blown circular ass argument. All gone about in a round about way.
and I'll be over that ? in 5 minutes and wondering why he's mad lol
I'll be like I know what I wanted to know, I'm done what's the problem?
I'm one frustrating woman ..
A lot of women use relationships in this way, as zones where certain things have to be accepted about them / they're allowed to think and behave in ways that wouldn't fly with anyone else.
This is where I get in trouble now, because I don't waste time with any of this anymore. I'll bypass this entire segment, expose most/all tripping points, explain to her why she shouldn't trip, and be done. Proactively. Obviously this causes arguments, but that's because it's always linked to her feeling entitled to overthink, suspect, etc.
Relationship or otherwise, If you're wrong and I know you're wrong, I don't owe you the opportunity to drag us both thru the process of you coming to that conclusion on your own; Because it's not my job to find a way to endure unnecessary questions/speculation just because that's what you wanna do, just because we're together.
Women don't understand this.
