Women's Mentality at the club and parties!!!!!!!!!!
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what type of dude approaches women with intentions of long talks about her day and purse shopping?
anyway, if you aint out to socialize stay your stank ass at the crib...
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Yooo..any dude that steps to a woman that is not broke down and busted...
A)that isnt his relative,professor,fellow employee, or partner of a close friend
B)that he isnt trying to gain a favor from non sexually
...is trying to ? at some point, yall fellas got to keep it real.
You really mean to tell me that if any instance aside the above..if you had a chance to jump in that thang you not goin for it? LMFAO at dudes goin to the club just to dance.
Like dude said tho stop gassin these chicks up and lookin desperate...they KNOW you tryin to ? . Look for the chicks that are peeping YOU out. You approaching a group of chicks at the club that are in a circle dancing interrupting thier good time LOL. Look around for the chicks that are lookin around...when yall make eye contact twice go for the ? .
Then dont push for it brah..play it cool. Give her attention..then give her none. Women are not logical thinkers...first she going to KNOW you tryin to ? ...next she going to think...damn does he even want to ? ?
Thats when you make your move brah...its called gettin it when its time to get it -
The_Introvert wrote: »LOL. Man I don't even go with the mentality that I'm tryna ? because usually its a major turn off. I just go and do me and the ? runs into me, ain't gotta chase after it.shawnbrown wrote: »Man yall nuggas got it twisted. It aint da ladies fault. Its yall fault
I would say 7 times outta 10 its the way you approach. Girls dont wanna look slutty or weak in front of their friends so they gotta put up that armor. Fellas? You know how it is when you wit ya boys and you dont wanna look weak. I bet if you approached these women different you would get better results more times than not. ACT LIKE you not tryin to ? her. You have to really screw up your face like somebody just made you mad an be like wtf ? i aint alk the rest of these thirsty ? here you dont even get my ? hard please go somewhere wit thatyeah it does seem to come in easy when u dont try, funny but true.louis the great wrote: »Theres only so much talkin you can actually do in a "club". For instance after I dance wit a chick and if I think I want to talk to her I dont ask for her number I whip out the iPhone4 to the dial and they put the number in, its funny cuz most them hoes dont know how to save they number, or you get the slick chick who really want to ? you that nite and blow ur ? up soon as the club let out. The key to the club imo is dont get tied up in one chick its plenty of good looking chicks in there so go after as many as you can, especially if you at the bar i dont see how a ? cant go home wit atleast 4 numbers just from chillin and bullshitin at the bar. Idk maybe chicks different in yall regions
All of this. I usually go to the club w the IDGAF face & body language and whatever happens, happens. It's not even a mean mug just blank "Pac in the car w/ Suge b4 he got shot" face LOL. Last time I went to the club I posted up @ the bar for like 20 mins w/ couple drinks shooting the breeze w/ my ? . Everytime a chick passed me just made a lil eye contact & short head nod or dueces sign & kept it moving. Had like 3 chicks come over talking about "why dont u smile?", after that it was all on me. Got 3 #'s and smashed 1 that night, but she was a ? so it's nthn to really gloat about ***Kanye Shrug***. -
lol sux for u, im handsome as ? . But yeah u can tell these chicks lonely, in their circles dancin, lookin around constantly like they want a dude to approach them, but alot times no dude ever steps to them.then why aren't you getting any play, playboy?
U might be mislead as to where u stand on the attractiveness scale.
Somebody done gassed you up like ? .
LMAO young ice is NEVER funny... BUT he came for ya head, boo
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forget u charlie
>: (
im funny...
youre not.. but it's all good.. youre lightskin, young and dumb.. ill ? with you
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Alot of them just want the attention. I can understand if a guy approaches you wrong, and hits u wit some crazy azzz line. But if he comes at u like a gentleman, at least show some kinda manners and give him a chance. If you're not interested, then show some class and decline in a way proper way. But ? up your face, and tryin to play ? in front of folks is uncalled for.
And if you don't wanna be bothered wit, then yes, stay yo azzz home! That's like sayin "I don't wanna get shot," yet u move to one of the worse, gang infested neighborhoods in the country. Another I don't understand about y'all women. Why do y'all need permission from your girls, in order to talk to a brotha?? Last time I checked, you're suppose to be a GROWN AZZZ ADULT!! The chick could be feelin u more than any other brotha in there. But as soon as one of her stankin azzz, ain't got no man havin friends insert her input and says "Naw girl. He LOOK broke," u change your mind.
Ladies stop takin advice from that lonely, bitter azzz, miserable Lookin hefa! There's a reason why she's alone. There's a reason why she cockblocks mofos who try to holla at u. It's not b/c she Lookin out for ur safety. Well maybe part of that. But most of that has to wit the old phrase of "misery loves company".
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But 99% of the time..they ARE trying to smash.
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
My Girls and I switch into ? mode when necessary.
Iif you were getting blocked, its cos she didnt want u. -
But hold up, a lot of ? women are up in there wantin to smash also. They front like they don't. But let them find the right ? . Next thing u kno, she's bunk over in a bathroom stall, gettin pounded. So u can't sit there and say it just us. Y'all ain't wearin those skin tight outfits to attract other women...sorta. Lol
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Just stop giving a ? . If you're trying to have fun, whether it's dancing for you or just good convo/vibing with chicks, get around the place until you find some that are being cool. There's always some in there who'll be feeling you...you just have to filter throught the ones who don't want to make themselves available to you.
You ever just posted up somewhere by yourself on a wall or pillar out in the open...where you could be seen standing alone? If chicks think you look good, trust that someone is gonna eventually either come ask why you're standing there alone or give you the not so subtle sign that they want you to speak by brushing up against you as they walk by. You could also sit @ the bar but I don't drink..so when I did go to clubs I'd sometimes just post up if I got tired of moving around.
NVM ugly ? can't relate to that shet^^. -
that works???
Cause imma be old enough to go to the club soon
and i dont like dancing...
If you dress nice and look nice and make yourself visible chicks have their eye on you. Many chicks are attracted to the guy who looks like he's out there having a lot of fun...but you also have chicks out there who are more aggressive and sociable...the type that will jump @ the opportunity to talk to you if you're making yourself visible....even if they say something like "why you look mad?" or "why aren't you dancing," etc...you just have to take it from there...flip it into a convo or dance w/ her. -
men + women + liquor = always lead to hurt feelings. lol...always
if you holla at a female and she get disrespectful with you... brush it off and move on to the next. crying about it or retaliating makes you seem desperate/weak...... and for the most part a woman won't get loud or disrespectful with you unless she's ? , having a bad day or you are harassing her and that was literally your 5th time asking her to dance after following her to the other side of the club.
and t/s if thats the norm for you, maybe it is indeed your approach and or body language -
Guys posted up on the wall dressed nice arent the ones having fun. According to my female friends they look boring and lame no matter how handsome they are.
They say they like the dudes getting it in on the floor, and they always open up after a slower song comes on and exchange info. They say if the guy getting it in too heavy they wait till hes alone to put that ass on him or steal a dance. No ? ...but they said the dudes that are good dancers are usually the most fun and interesting...and that they ? the best.
Thats word to the girls sitting right next to me reading this thread. -
U can do all that at home though
why go to a place with a reputation of people going to hook up, if u have no intention of even talking to a person that isn't your circle of women u dance with?
People get, almost like a high from rejecting people, or knowing they are sought after. I've led on many women and broken hearts needlessly just cause it made me feel good knowing that chick wanted me. I had no intention of really being anything more than friends. But leading them on made me feel like i was a mack.
Women obviously feel the same way.
So because you're guilty of this offense all women must be the same way? I'm sure alot of women are like that but not all go to the club to reject dudes and get their ego stroked. It's nice to be hit on but it's not a requirement to have a good time with the girls. -
Guys posted up on the wall dressed nice arent the ones having fun. According to my female friends they look boring and lame no matter how handsome they are.
They say they like the dudes getting it in on the floor, and they always open up after a slower song comes on and exchange info. They say if the guy getting it in too heavy they wait till hes alone to put that ass on him or steal a dance. No ? ...but they said the dudes that are good dancers are usually the most fun and interesting...and that they ? the best.
Thats word to the girls sitting right next to me reading this thread.
I can believe that. I think a lot of folks, both men and women, act like they're too "cool" to cut a rug on the dance floor. Too concerned wit being seen, rather than enjoying the atmosphere, and having fun. So I don't blame those women who rather get wit the brotha on the dance floor. Why get dressed up, spend money gettin in the club, just to post up on the wall? Or hang around your girls the WHOLE night? Explain that too me -
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i'm just sayin
u and your girls can go to a pool hall, bowling alley, movie, see a play, a musical performance, a comedy show, a casino, fancy restaurant etc etc
but ur going to a club
why?
i mean, there are A LOT of places to go to have A LOT of fun that aren't as sexually oriented as the club
Okay and we DO do all that..that night you see that group of girls at the club maybe the first time they've been in months..that's usually the case when I go. The club is the only place you're going to go with a DJ and a dancefloor. -
Sadly yes.
Well not all but most women, cause truth be told 99% of the time a man approaches you they ARE trying to ? . Sometimes you just don't want to be bothered, especially when you're having a good time out with the girls.
but you ladies dont have to diss em though even when you are having a good time with the ladies
the best time to find someone is when youre out with the fellaz or ladies cause you never know when you meet up with mr/mrs right during that moment -
but you ladies dont have to diss em though even when you are having a good time with the ladies
the best time to find someone is when youre out with the fellaz or ladies cause you never know when you meet up with mr/mrs right during that moment
Oh I agree..I'm not going to be rude to a dude that's trying to approach me unless he's disrespectful. I know that it's got to be hard to even do that, ESPECIALLY if there is a group of females.
Some guys get offended no matter how nice you try to be though..rejection is rejection to them. -
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Uh Kat that's the only way it's going to happen LOLlol..so women should shut themselves in to a house instead of going out just to avoid advances from men? Right.
Clubs are fun sometimes. You get to hear your favorite songs, drink and dance...it's not the same atmosphere at a house.
It seems like women are fine with the arrangement as is..ya'll are the ones getting all hurt cause they don't want to talk to you.
Anyway, I was at a club wit Tora and the females I spoke to were all nice to me. I only got attitude once but I ignored her ? comment cuz I was on my job.
THen again mabe they were only nice cuz pretty females like pictures taken of them? In any event, when I talk to females they're generally polite to me :shrug: -
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darkone360 wrote: »I can believe that. I think a lot of folks, both men and women, act like they're too "cool" to cut a rug on the dance floor. Too concerned wit being seen, rather than enjoying the atmosphere, and having fun. So I don't blame those women who rather get wit the brotha on the dance floor. Why get dressed up, spend money gettin in the club, just to post up on the wall? Or hang around your girls the WHOLE night? Explain that too me
I've been thinkin bout this ? for months, why spend the money if u aint gonna have fun. just lame -
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you run up on her after eating a bag a Dorito's and a blooming onion, and say " Aye ? !!!! You wanna ? ?
lol trying to catch my breath, lmao
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