Fellas: Are we TOO HARD on Single Mothers?
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its according to the individual.
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Bolded part.sdrawkcabseh wrote: »Therein lies the problem: There is a difference between thinking and knowing. For example, the first few times I kicked it with my woman, I paid attention to what she did and not what she said. She proved to me, through her actions, that she was really down for me.
Couple years back, I tried dating women with kids twice,and it only took two times for me to wise up and stop the unecessary simping( a point every man must reach in his life). I know a bit about it, seeing the relationships of some of my female cousins and their delusions has told me all I need to know....
When I have kids, me and the missus will be married.....
The hell marriage got to do with having kids and this thread? -
sdrawkcabseh wrote: »Therein lies the problem: There is a difference between thinking and knowing. For example, the first few times I kicked it with my woman, I paid attention to what she did and not what she said. She proved to me, through her actions, that she was really down for me.
Couple years back, I tried dating women with kids twice,and it only took two times for me to wise up and stop the unecessary simping( a point every man must reach in his life). I know a bit about it, seeing the relationships of some of my female cousins and their delusions has told me all I need to know....
When I have kids, me and the missus will be married.....
Being married and having a kid doesnt ensure you're child wont be raised by a single mother one day. Smarten up.
Suppose you die in a car accident. Boom. Your wife is now a single mother.
Time to be hard on that ? , huh? -
Hyde Parke wrote: »its according to the individual.
some ppl just don't understand that.. -
some ppl just don't understand that..
when the thread starter said "single mothers" that just set the tone for stereotypes and generalizations.....
very well, carry on, cheerio. -
sdrawkcabseh wrote: »Therein lies the problem: There is a difference between thinking and knowing. For example, the first few times I kicked it with my woman, I paid attention to what she did and not what she said. She proved to me, through her actions, that she was really down for me.
Couple years back, I tried dating women with kids twice,and it only took two times for me to wise up and stop the unecessary simping( a point every man must reach in his life). I know a bit about it, seeing the relationships of some of my female cousins and their delusions has told me all I need to know....
When I have kids, me and the missus will be married.....
Problem with what? Because we didn't work out as a couple? I'm not sure what you are trying to say.... since I didn't tell you any details about our relationship.
Like I said you must deal with trife women... you have basically grouped all single moms in to one box. Good luck with the whole wife and kids bit... I hope yall live happily ever after. -
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The hell marriage got to do with having kids and this thread?
Nothing at all -
you damn right LOL...Who else gonna ? all them beaten, demoralized ? ...
Rest of the IC...im sorry for that digression.
LOL....
I can't blame you for scoopin up all the scallowags cause the potential for easy ? is too great
buy a kid a little toy from the dollar store, give the little rugrat a dollar to go to the ice cream truck, and then you got at least an hour to bust they moms down....too easy LOL
but nah seriously, cats on here ? on single mothers because either they only meet ? ass chicks(prob cause they ? ass dudes themselves SMH) or
their ego is hurt feeling like they are getting to the ? 2nd behind the kid's father
but majority of these IC ? not getting ? at all anyway, so of course they ? on single mothers for sport -
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The hell marriage got to do with having kids and this thread?
It has everything to do with curving the problems in the black community. It has everything to do with setting an exemplary example for my kids when I have them. They can have confidence, knowing that dad and mom are raising them and not just mom, or not just dad. It has everything to do with breaking the negative cycle that the media loves to perpetuate of men like me.
We've to go back to the basics in life, because many, are missing the point.... -
American Loo VII 3D wrote: »Being married and having a kid doesnt ensure you're child wont be raised by a single mother one day. Smarten up.
Suppose you die in a car accident. Boom. Your wife is now a single mother.
Time to be hard on that ? , huh?
Not at all. My wifey knows what to do in the event that said situation occurs...... -
sdrawkcabseh wrote: »It has everything to do with curving the problems in the black community. It has everything to do with setting an exemplary example for my kids when I have them. They can have confidence, knowing that dad and mom are raising them and not just mom, or not just dad. It has everything to do with breaking the negative cycle that the media loves to perpetuate of men like me.
We've to go back to the basics in life, because many, are missing the point....
I'm sure there are better ways for you to "serve the black community" that questioning our hardness on hoes on a hip hop message board.
go clean up a vacant lot, ? -
sdrawkcabseh wrote: »Not at all. My wifey knows what to do in the event that said situation occurs......
...yeah, ? with another ? . -
sdrawkcabseh wrote: »It has everything to do with curving the problems in the black community. It has everything to do with setting an exemplary example for my kids when I have them. They can have confidence, knowing that dad and mom are raising them and not just mom, or not just dad. It has everything to do with breaking the negative cycle that the media loves to perpetuate of men like me.
We've to go back to the basics in life, because many, are missing the point....
Easy tiger, easy.
I agree with you 100%. I really do.
So you get married, you have a house, 3 kids, blah blah - the American Dream ? . Your wife decides to file for divorce (you're too boring, she is depressed).
What will happen then? -
mssouthernthang wrote: »Problem with what? Because we didn't work out as a couple? I'm not sure what you are trying to say.... since I didn't tell you any details about our relationship.
Like I said you must deal with trife women... you have basically grouped all single moms in to one box. Good luck with the whole wife and kids bit... I hope yall live happily ever after.[/QUOTE
Gracias.... -
Easy tiger, easy.
I agree with you 100%. I really do.
So you get married, you have a house, 3 kids, blah blah - the American Dream ? . Your wife decides to file for divorce (you're too boring, she is depressed).
What will happen then?
He would make his wife ? herself to avoid being a single mother -
American Loo VII 3D wrote: »I'm sure there are better ways for you to "serve the black community" that questioning our hardness on hoes on a hip hop message board.
go clean up a vacant lot, ?
I don't need to serve "the black community". Things that I do are for the betterment of mankind, not exclusively black people. I come on here to "awaken" some of my fellow brothers..... -
I don't have any problems with responsible single mothers. However, I have to be honest and say I am probably too selfish @ this point in life to deal with a chick who has to juggle the responsibility of her kid with our time together. And I don't have much patience when it comes to kids. Sorry, I just don't. Still, I don't feel like I look down on single mothers. I see myself as the one with the issue rather than vice versa (if that makes sense).
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He will probably go OJ on her, to avoid the negative media stereotype placed on kids being raised by mom and dad - in two different households.American Loo VII 3D wrote: »He would make his wife ? herself to avoid being a single mother -
American Loo VII 3D wrote: »...yeah, ? with another ? .
Never. I'm like Jesus, even if I'm long gone, I'm still in her heart forever.... -
sdrawkcabseh wrote: »Never. I'm like Jesus, even if I'm long gone, I'm still in her heart forever....
You just proved yourself to be a clown. -
American Loo VII 3D wrote: »He would make his wife ? herself to avoid being a single mother
You sure you don't want to edit this before making yourself sound completely like a fool? -
sdrawkcabseh wrote: »Never. I'm like Jesus, even if I'm long gone, I'm still in her heart forever....
I'm going to puke
You are delusional honey... ? happens. You better prepare yourself for it now -
Easy tiger, easy.
I agree with you 100%. I really do.
So you get married, you have a house, 3 kids, blah blah - the American Dream ? . Your wife decides to file for divorce (you're too boring, she is depressed).
What will happen then?
I've already got a strong legal team and some other measures in place if that ever happens... -
blakfyahking wrote: »LOL....
I can't blame you for scoopin up all the scallowags cause the potential for easy ? is too great
buy a kid a little toy from the dollar store, give the little rugrat a dollar to go to the ice cream truck, and then you got at least an hour to bust they moms down....too easy LOL
but nah seriously, cats on here ? on single mothers because either they only meet ? ass chicks(prob cause they ? ass dudes themselves SMH) or
their ego is hurt feeling like they are getting to the ? 2nd behind the kid's father
but majority of these IC ? not getting ? at all anyway, so of course they ? on single mothers for sport
This nicca out here etherin' souls lol....
