Fellas: Are we TOO HARD on Single Mothers?
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mssouthernthang wrote: »I'm going to puke
You are delusional honey... ? happens. You better prepare yourself for it now
No delusions here. If it happens, it happens. Whether I break up with my woman today or tomorrow, it doesn't matter. As long as she acts right and continues doing as she has been, she's good. If she acts out in any way or tries to play "games", she's out the door. I told her this from day one and the fact that she's cool with letting me "lead", she's a keeper.
She was with me through hard times, when I lost family member after family member back to back, so where most women would've folded under such pressure, she stayed.... -
sdrawkcabseh wrote: »never. I'm like jesus, even if i'm long gone, i'm still in her heart forever....
lol
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Probably depends on the age group. I'm 20 so yea I'm probably hard on single moms. But ? it seems everyone in my class is having babies now
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depends on what you define as a single mother - in the literal sense or societal view
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blakfyahking wrote: »LOL....
I can't blame you for scoopin up all the scallowags cause the potential for easy ? is too great
buy a kid a little toy from the dollar store, give the little rugrat a dollar to go to the ice cream truck, and then you got at least an hour to bust they moms down....too easy LOL
but nah seriously, cats on here ? on single mothers because either they only meet ? ass chicks(prob cause they ? ass dudes themselves SMH) or
their ego is hurt feeling like they are getting to the ? 2nd behind the kid's father
but majority of these IC ? not getting ? at all anyway, so of course they ? on single mothers for sport
I cant really ? on them like that.....Im just not ready to fill that role. No matter what alot of these women say....that's what they're looking for. One girl I was kickin it with was tryna push her daughter on me after 3 weeks. I mean....I gotta heart, I hope that daughter of hers has a strong male role model around as she grows up, I think everybody deserves somebody including her & everybody deserves a 2nd chance at love & all that gushy gushy ? but, im 22. I aint ready for all that. But like I said.............i have NO QUALMS about scooping up that ? . -
depends on what you define as a single mother - in the literal sense or societal view
Huh?
What do you mean? What's the societal definition of a single mother vs. the literal one? -
100%Sagittarius wrote: »Huh?
What do you mean? What's the societal definition of a single mother vs. the literal one?
Both have endless amounts of baggage.... -
100%Sagittarius wrote: »Huh?
What do you mean? What's the societal definition of a single mother vs. the literal one?
basically a mom who does it all by herself or a mom who has assistance in some kind of way whether it's child support, another man, etc -
ok, first of all are we being put on trial for disrepesecting single mothers, or not dating them? if it's the latter then this thread is a bunch of ? . are people really supposed to feel guilty for dating preferences? and second, have we not discussed this before? maybe no one really understands what is meant by "damaged goods" what i gather is not so much that women with kids are this or women with kids are that, it's just that a women with kids is.... a women with kids it aint that a woman with kinds have problems... it's simply that the kids ARE the problem. at the same time... those of us should just say that they couldnt handle a woman with kids or that they're not mature enough to deal with them or simply wanna start a family from scratch... that's all... it is. no need for disrespecting them, no need for caping them. so can we please stop all these wack ass babymomma threads?
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MorganFreemanKing wrote: »ok, first of all are we being put on trial for disrepesecting single mothers, or not dating them? if it's the latter then this thread is a bunch of ? . are people really supposed to feel guilty for dating preferences? and second, have we not discussed this before? maybe no one really understands what is meant by "damaged goods" what i gather is not so much that women with kids are this or women with kids are that, it's just that a women with kids is.... a women with kids it aint that a woman with kinds have problems... it's simply that the kids ARE the problem. at the same time... those of us should just say that they couldnt handle a woman with kids or that they're not mature enough to deal with them or simply wanna start a family from scratch... that's all... it is. no need for disrespecting them, no need for caping them. so can we please stop all these wack ass babymomma threads?
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I cant really ? on them like that.....Im just not ready to fill that role. No matter what alot of these women say....that's what they're looking for. One girl I was kickin it with was tryna push her daughter on me after 3 weeks. I mean....I gotta heart, I hope that daughter of hers has a strong male role model around as she grows up, I think everybody deserves somebody including her & everybody deserves a 2nd chance at love & all that gushy gushy ? but, im 22. I aint ready for all that. But like I said.............i have NO QUALMS about scooping up that ? .
3 weeks?????
yeah shorty was a ? like I said
a chick on her job aint just fishin for a new daddy for her kid
it takes a lot more time just to figure out if you qualified for her, let alone her kid too
SMH @ "instant family" hoez LOL
just add a random dude and stir the ? up and now you got a young cat lost in the game LOL -
If it dont work out with my current chick I will never date another single mom unless I'm in my 40's and meet a woman around that same age who happened to have kids.
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blakfyahking wrote: »3 weeks?????
yeah shorty was a ? like I said
a chick on her job aint just fishin for a new daddy for her kid
it takes a lot more time just to figure out if you qualified for her, let alone her kid too
SMH @ "instant family" hoez LOL
just add a random dude and stir the ? up and now you got a young cat lost in the game LOL
word...she was 18 thou. I was 20 back then. It was my fault. I thought that since she was an italian/puerto rican broad from Delaware county (Suburbs of Philly), she wasnt afflicted with bubblehead/yamp symptoms & I found out the broad was no different. -
lol...did you copy and paste that? i swear i read it in another thread
guilty...i posted this in the LAST single mother thread. like i said tho, we've discussed this before. first 3 sentences are new. -
Until both men and women become more responsible in their actions, the word "family" will continue to fade......
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No we are not hard on them enough because if we were they will be less ? with these fat hos with lil ? . i see it all the time
If you dating a single mother and u not above 40 then you have low self esteem, find a ? with no kids to be with
? need to quit saving these ? they put theirselve in that predicament then they need to be by theyselves and they should be worrying about raising they kids instead of finding new ?
Plus i dont have kids and dont wont an instant family
I gonna have my own kids not some other ? lil bastard
Aint nothing good can come from a single mother i mean she is a single mother for a reason
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hell these brawds hard on us ? so why should we show love? nobody forced them to sleep with tyrone or jerome who sold dope and cant stay outta jail to save his life.all these bastard kids in this world and women wonder why they cant find a decent man.and the decent man they find they dont show respect or appreciate the ? anyway
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There are good single mothers you know.
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There are good single mothers you know.
where? and if there are they became good single mothers overnight -
I would say as a whole no. My experiences have been that for every man that doesn't date single mothers, there is a man who doesn't mind it(within reason of course). Just personal preference, and like the saying goes, there's somebody for everybody.
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Heart Of A Hustler wrote: »No we are not hard on them enough because if we were they will be less ? with these fat hos with lil ? . i see it all the time
If you dating a single mother and u not above 40 then you have low self esteem, find a ? with no kids to be with
? need to quit saving these ? they put theirselve in that predicament then they need to be by theyselves and they should be worrying about raising they kids instead of finding new ?
Plus i dont have kids and dont wont an instant family
I gonna have my own kids not some other ? lil bastard
Aint nothing good can come from a single mother i mean she is a single mother for a reason
Take your capes off
Wisdom right here.... -
theres some single mothers that are good women
than theres yamp ass hoes that have 4 kids n she doesnt want to ever get a job... -
What repels men from single mothers is the same thing that repels men from being fathers..the idea of responsibility.
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Yea there some exceptions. But the world would be a better place if women made better choices. Men would have no choice but to follow real ? talk.
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What repels men from single mothers is the same thing that repels men from being fathers..the idea of responsibility.
There's a difference between handling your responsiblity if it's your kid, and simping a chick with a kid......
