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  • MistyKnight
    MistyKnight Members Posts: 7,821 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    @thatdamnjay toss me a mod spot .....preferably the social lounge GnS or the Reason... I'm the safe candidate.... I'm unbiased , cool w everybody, avg an 55% lol/post rate and I ve never been banned

    LOL

    You cat fight with me like Yunn does.
    GTFOH!
  • Chi Snow
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    CONFLICT wrote: »
    Chicity wrote: »
    Keep it funky Jay, in your head/opinion

    Who got the next three modspots?

    ? you know yiure one of them. Especially since jamel says u are. Jamel is jays "favorite"
    You know Jamel gets high....a lot.....
  • Rasta.
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    CONFLICT wrote: »
    Chicity wrote: »
    Keep it funky Jay, in your head/opinion

    Who got the next three modspots?

    ? you know yiure one of them. Especially since jamel says u are. Jamel is jays "favorite"

    Hopefully not! Too many coalition ? on the board of iC trustees. And no outward diss to @Cain but homie ain't distinguish himself well enough for another coalition member #factsonly
  • SixSickSins
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    Have you ever got some ? off here? And don't you dare lie to me...we family, we all we got! *no dweezy*


    Nope.

    but...

    Nah, nope : )


    edit: I did contribute to the end of a marriage tho...and no, I'm not talking about TooX.

    I've actually been pm'd by at least 2 husbands on here, smfh

    Let's talk about the TooXquisite situation...because I heard about that before I ever even became acquainted with you...in other words, your reputation proceeds you...let's talk about it.

    that's not a question tho...

    she no longer posts on here. tread carefully, cuz there's only so much info I'm gonna divulge.

    Ya, we follow one another on twitter. Her natural hair is pretty. I've always wanted to ask her, but I didn't know if it was sensitive info or not. How about you just surmise the situation concisely for us? <<¬¬¬made it a question this time!

    I also know better than to ask for names of the wives whose husbands PM'd you...but how did you handle both of those situations respectively? What had the husbands found out about their wives' actions on here that warranted registering an account on here to speak with you?


    pm's only



    first time was in 2004. had a ? shook. her and her husband were goin thru separation, and she told me he had disappeared, dipped off the radar. about a week later, a whip pulled up in front of my crib with...that state's tags. the doors opened up (as in UP, Lambo type doors), and a ? who looked JUST LIKE HER HUSBAND hopped out. this was in front of my crib, where my kids slept. I was tooled up, but was considerably shook. the ? did something (I was gettin my tools ready), hopped back in the whip, and left. never saw him again, but saw a similar whip about a week later. second time I saw it was from a distance, to this day, I dunno if they were outta state tags and if it had Lambo doors.

    I told her about it. she tried assuring me he was still in...their state. but she hadn't seen him in like 48 hours.

    I was still a lil wild back then tho, I was shook, but that just made the situation worse. I was ready to openly disrespect him, which I did, without disrespecting her. I knew there was a price to pay, but just didn't give a ? .

    karma's a muthafukka. I did indeed pay.

    the second time was around 2006-2007, different young lady. me and her had been pm'ing that morning. out of the blue, a pm came, but there was something different about it (I don't remember what caught my eye, it was something subtle, like a grammar change or something). I thought it was her, and answered, but kept my answer conservative. about an hour later, she told me, her husband had come in the room, pushed her to the side, and shot me a pm. whatever my answer was, it had satisfied him (we had a policy of deleting pm's as soon as we'd read them, so he couldn't read our older ? ).

    ^ all that did was make us extremely even more careful.



    in the long run, I regretted these incidents (plus others). at the time, I was still wild and didn't give a damn. I'm older and a lot calmer now, but I earned my screen name long before ever signing up for the IC.

    ? . That damn Jay!

    You must laugh whenever you come across men on here saying to come fight and it never plays out when you are really bout that life.
  • _Jay_
    _Jay_ Members, Administrators Posts: 3,689 My Name Is My Name.
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    Do site administrators really have access to everyone's ? ?
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    Indeed we do : )

    to spare y'all tho, I only do that ? when I'm mad bored...and I only get bored like once, maybe twice in a year. for real

    Iont like nosy azz muthafukkaz, so I ain't tryna be a nosy azz muthafukka.
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    What? Well I'll be damned.

    I thought administrative access to ? were a running gag around here.

    Appreciate the honesty fam. I'll keep this information at the forefront of my mind always, I'm already a conservative PMer (as I'm sure you already know lolsmdh) but apparently I'll have to dial up the caution/preemptive measures even more.

    bruh...I'm damn near anti-social...on and offline. why go lookin for new stuff to not give a damn about? lol

    seriously tho, when it comes to message boards, admin can probably read your ? , depending on size. best way to combat that is to never pm something u can't/won't stand behind...and if you're tryna holla at a young lady, be pleasant the first few pm's, then ask for a phone number/whatsapp/gchat and go from there..
  • Rasta.
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    Do site administrators really have access to everyone's ? ?
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    Indeed we do : )

    to spare y'all tho, I only do that ? when I'm mad bored...and I only get bored like once, maybe twice in a year. for real

    Iont like nosy azz muthafukkaz, so I ain't tryna be a nosy azz muthafukka.
    VFwtKkX.gif
    What? Well I'll be damned.

    I thought administrative access to ? were a running gag around here.

    Appreciate the honesty fam. I'll keep this information at the forefront of my mind always, I'm already a conservative PMer (as I'm sure you already know lolsmdh) but apparently I'll have to dial up the caution/preemptive measures even more.

    bruh...I'm damn near anti-social...on and offline. why go lookin for new stuff to not give a damn about? lol

    seriously tho, when it comes to message boards, admin can probably read your ? , depending on size. best way to combat that is to never pm something u can't/won't stand behind...and if you're tryna holla at a young lady, be pleasant the first few pm's, then ask for a phone number/whatsapp/gchat and go from there..


    This ? has been reading pm's indeed smfh.....Some of the ladies still don't know about whatsapp though.
  • Chi Snow
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  • Aquafina..floe
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    jay y cant I be a mod

    im one of the most nicest realist posters on this site and I always flatter you with compliments

    I think with all the abuse this site has given me over the years I deserve a spot thanks you pumpkin cakes
  • LUClEN
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    when you're sad does that make you that damn blue jay?
  • MistyKnight
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  • MistyKnight
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    You know these posters are delusional out here saying that they're nice.

    *cough* Elzo, Chuck, & now Aqua *cough*

  • OmegaConflict
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    Khaleesi wrote: »
    @ThatDamnJay‌ , what do you look like?


    The next question depends on if I like what I C ;)

    ZqpxcdO.jpg


    I don't take many pics. prefer being low-key honestly. that pic's from...January? February? Iunno...sometime this year


    That ? looks like a ? bat
    0pwMCIF0qXibomqLQr4nXtfN91Gcdm7RAlFBuSe9HuZOQc7o8LS04n9xVpDR2TahuWtf89S9W4ZWLsuqZw7sYhy2A1MopL-_jigJFg1oo5A2ktUmWbc0CZeUcwST_Qo1BYbR5n2D9I3wvzBC8tN8gkLtfLlfz1hLMkS4YmCNfcSStbFzcJP3E4NMOfy-YwDrKiOvOKmhaQ=w168-h102-nc
  • Max.
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    Sion - ? stock broker

    UPTOWNCONNEXX -got exposed for fake fuckn some broad she signed up n never knew him

    KillaCham- reg mod

    Stew -reg mod

    Black_Samson -reg mod sometimes he smokes stuff that makes him paranoid

    MsSouthern -worthless gives feelings ban..makes up rules

    blackrain -who??

    MillzOG-doesnt post alot

    dalyricalbandit -regular mod

    kai reg mod

    Joker Soprano -mexican ?

    eternalmoney-who??

    peagle05 -reg mod

    GodGivBiz -Reg mod

    Parallel -reg mod

    , D.D.S -didnt know he was a mod
    , fortyacres&amule-didnt know he was a mod

    tupacfan -WHO?

    Du_Du -gets in his feelings too much

    RuffDraft-WHo?

    5th Letter-reg mod

    Haute-she never posts l/looks like mos def

    Cain- top 3 mod
  • OmegaConflict
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    jay y cant I be a mod

    im one of the most nicest realist posters on this site and I always flatter you with compliments

    I think with all the abuse this site has given me over the years I deserve a spot thanks you pumpkin cakes

    @ThatDamnJay‌ you wanna see aquafina nudes?
  • Elzo69Renaissance
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    Khaleesi wrote: »
    You know these posters are delusional out here saying that they're nice.

    *cough* Elzo, Chuck, & now Aqua *cough*

    Damn let me politic in peace btw how am I not nice?
  • _Jay_
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    Trillfate wrote: »
    Why aren't Lol's worth points anymore? What is this prejudice you have against funny?

    LOL's are still worth points bruh...me? prejudiced against folks being funny? ? ...that's the reason most of the folks are even on here, to be entertained, ? I look like havin a problem with dat??
    LOLs havent been worth points for months

    the fact u thought they were means u owe all of us mad back-pay

    #reparations

    I don't do screen shots, but I assure all of y'all, my dashboard explicitly says "This reaction adds 1 to a post's score", for LOLs.

    I'd hazard a guess that erybody's points are at their max, being 5 stars and all, and that's why LOLs appear to no longer count...I've been lookin for a way to reset them without erybody having to lose what they've earned, but it ain't lookin good


    @bold you should wait till the boards going through a quiet spell and wipe everyone's points/stars, would be entertaining as ? watching the mass ? about it.

    Guaranteed maximum entertainment from that, half the users will lose their minds.

    Did @p-tavern get back payed for the day he spent as an admin?

    Which IC member ? you the most with complaints? (Name names)

    Can you perma ban @gorillawitattitude ?

    Who's your favourite female/male poster?

    we're overdue for an upgrade, so I prolly won't...that's a good suggestion tho, I've thought about doin it JUST to ? with posters' minds *evilvillainlaugh*

    even tho he put that Auburn ? in there, I went lookin for the thread to put it in the Forum of Fame...somebody beat me to it. I laughed my azz off throughout that thread, laughing now just thinking about it
    ? Auburn.

    it varies...this week it's Trillfate. he used to ? me off, but I ? with him...wouldn't trust him around my lady tho, lol

    I can...will I? only if he reques...wait...didn't he just request a perma-ban a couple of weeks ago?? smfh...see what I gotta deal with?

    it varies...ppl who are low-key on here are ppl whose posts I check for regularly...atm it's prolly A.mann and Six





  • _Jay_
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    Allergens wrote: »
    Lol, ? said he had the gunz while sweating bullets. Lol, homie came to the crib on em,lol

    bruh...u don't even know...smh

    like, how do I explain this ? when my azz is the one in the wrong?? SMFH

  • Max.
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    Are there any new ideas u have to make the if better?

    Like how brought back reactions n everybody was glad
  • Westie
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    Do you save nudes from this site?
  • _Jay_
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    TonyDubbz wrote: »
    What I gotta do to get a trial run as a moderator?

    I've got about...5 pm's right now of potential mods that I haven't even read yet...NOT including the line that's already been established. NOT including the referrals from other mods. NOT including the pm I just got a few mins ago and haven't eem read yet. NOT including the ppl I'm currently vetting/shadowing

    best way to do it is to find a section that's YOU, and run that ? . threads, your feedback, etc., be passionate about that ? . after a minute, mods and posters will began talking about u (in a good way), and I take notice...that's how u get put on. be prepared to wait tho, smh
  • _Jay_
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    CONFLICT wrote: »
    Have you ever got some ? off here? And don't you dare lie to me...we family, we all we got! *no dweezy*


    Nope.

    but...

    Nah, nope : )


    edit: I did contribute to the end of a marriage tho...and no, I'm not talking about TooX.

    I've actually been pm'd by at least 2 husbands on here, smfh

    Let's talk about the TooXquisite situation...because I heard about that before I ever even became acquainted with you...in other words, your reputation proceeds you...let's talk about it.

    that's not a question tho...

    she no longer posts on here. tread carefully, cuz there's only so much info I'm gonna divulge.

    Ya, we follow one another on twitter. Her natural hair is pretty. I've always wanted to ask her, but I didn't know if it was sensitive info or not. How about you just surmise the situation concisely for us? <<¬¬¬made it a question this time!

    I also know better than to ask for names of the wives whose husbands PM'd you...but how did you handle both of those situations respectively? What had the husbands found out about their wives' actions on here that warranted registering an account on here to speak with you?


    pm's only



    first time was in 2004. had a ? shook. her and her husband were goin thru separation, and she told me he had disappeared, dipped off the radar. about a week later, a whip pulled up in front of my crib with...that state's tags. the doors opened up (as in UP, Lambo type doors), and a ? who looked JUST LIKE HER HUSBAND hopped out. this was in front of my crib, where my kids slept. I was tooled up, but was considerably shook. the ? did something (I was gettin my tools ready), hopped back in the whip, and left. never saw him again, but saw a similar whip about a week later. second time I saw it was from a distance, to this day, I dunno if they were outta state tags and if it had Lambo doors.

    I told her about it. she tried assuring me he was still in...their state. but she hadn't seen him in like 48 hours.

    I was still a lil wild back then tho, I was shook, but that just made the situation worse. I was ready to openly disrespect him, which I did, without disrespecting her. I knew there was a price to pay, but just didn't give a ? .

    karma's a muthafukka. I did indeed pay.

    the second time was around 2006-2007, different young lady. me and her had been pm'ing that morning. out of the blue, a pm came, but there was something different about it (I don't remember what caught my eye, it was something subtle, like a grammar change or something). I thought it was her, and answered, but kept my answer conservative. about an hour later, she told me, her husband had come in the room, pushed her to the side, and shot me a pm. whatever my answer was, it had satisfied him (we had a policy of deleting pm's as soon as we'd read them, so he couldn't read our older ? ).

    ^ all that did was make us extremely even more careful.



    in the long run, I regretted these incidents (plus others). at the time, I was still wild and didn't give a damn. I'm older and a lot calmer now, but I earned my screen name long before ever signing up for the IC.

    You was toold up? Where r u from ? The only ppl I heard say that is from Louisiana

    born in Massachusetts, livin in Alabama.

    think I picked that up from The Wire. it fits.



  • Westie
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    CONFLICT wrote: »
    Have you ever got some ? off here? And don't you dare lie to me...we family, we all we got! *no dweezy*


    Nope.

    but...

    Nah, nope : )


    edit: I did contribute to the end of a marriage tho...and no, I'm not talking about TooX.

    I've actually been pm'd by at least 2 husbands on here, smfh

    Let's talk about the TooXquisite situation...because I heard about that before I ever even became acquainted with you...in other words, your reputation proceeds you...let's talk about it.

    that's not a question tho...

    she no longer posts on here. tread carefully, cuz there's only so much info I'm gonna divulge.

    Ya, we follow one another on twitter. Her natural hair is pretty. I've always wanted to ask her, but I didn't know if it was sensitive info or not. How about you just surmise the situation concisely for us? <<¬¬¬made it a question this time!

    I also know better than to ask for names of the wives whose husbands PM'd you...but how did you handle both of those situations respectively? What had the husbands found out about their wives' actions on here that warranted registering an account on here to speak with you?


    pm's only



    first time was in 2004. had a ? shook. her and her husband were goin thru separation, and she told me he had disappeared, dipped off the radar. about a week later, a whip pulled up in front of my crib with...that state's tags. the doors opened up (as in UP, Lambo type doors), and a ? who looked JUST LIKE HER HUSBAND hopped out. this was in front of my crib, where my kids slept. I was tooled up, but was considerably shook. the ? did something (I was gettin my tools ready), hopped back in the whip, and left. never saw him again, but saw a similar whip about a week later. second time I saw it was from a distance, to this day, I dunno if they were outta state tags and if it had Lambo doors.

    I told her about it. she tried assuring me he was still in...their state. but she hadn't seen him in like 48 hours.

    I was still a lil wild back then tho, I was shook, but that just made the situation worse. I was ready to openly disrespect him, which I did, without disrespecting her. I knew there was a price to pay, but just didn't give a ? .

    karma's a muthafukka. I did indeed pay.

    the second time was around 2006-2007, different young lady. me and her had been pm'ing that morning. out of the blue, a pm came, but there was something different about it (I don't remember what caught my eye, it was something subtle, like a grammar change or something). I thought it was her, and answered, but kept my answer conservative. about an hour later, she told me, her husband had come in the room, pushed her to the side, and shot me a pm. whatever my answer was, it had satisfied him (we had a policy of deleting pm's as soon as we'd read them, so he couldn't read our older ? ).

    ^ all that did was make us extremely even more careful.



    in the long run, I regretted these incidents (plus others). at the time, I was still wild and didn't give a damn. I'm older and a lot calmer now, but I earned my screen name long before ever signing up for the IC.

    You was toold up? Where r u from ? The only ppl I heard say that is from Louisiana

    born in Massachusetts, livin in Alabama.

    think I picked that up from The Wire. it fits.



    What part of mass are you from?
  • KnowReasonForPeace
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    have you ever witnessed a mod doing ? work for a ic member against another ic member because they were getting ? on or just didn't like that person and knew the mod they ran to would ban them for a minor(? ) reason or no reason at all? and are there active mods you plan on getting rid of too along with the inactive ones?


    need this answered boss @ThatDamnJay
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