Unwritten Reasons Women Don't Like You
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2stepz_ahead wrote: »
ok...bs aside. i respect you answerstopoftheworld wrote: »What do you mean mother issues??
I grew up without one, so are you talking about people who weren't fortunate enough to have on in our life? Or the scrub ? who depend on mommy?
@topoftheworld
@Wuwop both, sadly. growing up without a mother or mother figure affects both sexes differently. females won't have a model for emulation and identification. while the emotional and relational growth in males often retards.
I have found that an emotionally or psychologically absent mother tends to have a more deleterious effect on a male than a physically absent one due to circumstances outside of one's control (e.g. sickness, death).
conversely, I have observed mother/son emotionally-suffocating relationships because the mother doesn't have a healthy adult relationship with a male partner. this almost always stifles their son's growth and often negatively effects his ability to maintain a meaningful relationship with a healthy woman.
let me ask you this @topoftheworld
why do some women think they deserve the lifestyle they see others live and give their mate ? when they dont.
i also talk to alot of women...and they always say what a mans role in the relationship should be...but alot of them dont support the man on the way building up but want to benefit off of what is he has "built". yet these same women think they should not work and play the homemaker role because "women should be supported". what value does this woman add to this mans life after all the hard work is done? only to maybe become bored or angry and take half his ? . i think at point he has a reason to have an inflated sense of self.
also, undisciplined.....lets get back to that. is it me or is it more and more women moving towards the definition you gave. it seems instagram is more important having morals. chicks having plans of the next pic they gonna send out but no plans on applying for the new position that gives them more responsibilities because they figure some thirsty dude will wife them up.
i can say alot about dudes too...but we on women right now.
A potential mate, man or woman, has much ... much more "value" to offer to a relationship ... than their net worth
If that is all you see them as ... a mere price tag; monogamy may not be for you ...
You also seem to be doing a hell of a lot of generalizing
Birds should stop being birds...
? ? should stop being ? ? ...
To treat all people as the lowest caliber of their gender is grossly misrepresentative.
when i say value,i mean more than net worth but that also should be thought about.
i think you missed the part about waiting until things are built.
i am not saying all women but lets not act like this is not becoming the norm more and more.
perfect example are chicks hoeing early then get burned out and want marry the nerd dude late because he now has something.
there is no way a porn star or lifetime stripper should think its an option.
but thats just my opinion. -
Ultimately,
I think there are is a healthy amount of good me and women out there... If you constantly find yourself dealing with the BS... I think you may need to reconsider the time of women/men you approach.. Or change your approach all together. People in general know what they can and cannot do when it comes to others.. -
If you're out and about no matter where you go, you can pick up anyone. The problem is when you decide to stay with or put up with that person. If you meet a female at a real estate convention, she can still be a woman with problems.
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EmM HoLLa. wrote: »Ultimately,
I think there are is a healthy amount of good me and women out there... If you constantly find yourself dealing with the BS... I think you may need to reconsider the time of women/men you approach.. Or change your approach all together. People in general know what they can and cannot do when it comes to others..
Yes they know but they put there self first.I seen it all the time.People know they shouldn´t steal BUT he got enought not to notice......I should not ? her cause I got a whife BUT that ? don´t do ? . -
MrMinimalist wrote: »If you're out and about no matter where you go, you can pick up anyone. The problem is when you decide to stay with or put up with that person. If you meet a female at a real estate convention, she can still be a woman with problems.
this is one of the points i was getting to.
accomplishments dont mean anything because the person can still be "aint ? "
but some people put more into what someone has (females)or how the look(male) than what the person brings to the table. -
2stepz_ahead wrote: »2stepz_ahead wrote: »
ok...bs aside. i respect you answerstopoftheworld wrote: »What do you mean mother issues??
I grew up without one, so are you talking about people who weren't fortunate enough to have on in our life? Or the scrub ? who depend on mommy?
@topoftheworld
@Wuwop both, sadly. growing up without a mother or mother figure affects both sexes differently. females won't have a model for emulation and identification. while the emotional and relational growth in males often retards.
I have found that an emotionally or psychologically absent mother tends to have a more deleterious effect on a male than a physically absent one due to circumstances outside of one's control (e.g. sickness, death).
conversely, I have observed mother/son emotionally-suffocating relationships because the mother doesn't have a healthy adult relationship with a male partner. this almost always stifles their son's growth and often negatively effects his ability to maintain a meaningful relationship with a healthy woman.
let me ask you this @topoftheworld
why do some women think they deserve the lifestyle they see others live and give their mate ? when they dont.
i also talk to alot of women...and they always say what a mans role in the relationship should be...but alot of them dont support the man on the way building up but want to benefit off of what is he has "built". yet these same women think they should not work and play the homemaker role because "women should be supported". what value does this woman add to this mans life after all the hard work is done? only to maybe become bored or angry and take half his ? . i think at point he has a reason to have an inflated sense of self.
also, undisciplined.....lets get back to that. is it me or is it more and more women moving towards the definition you gave. it seems instagram is more important having morals. chicks having plans of the next pic they gonna send out but no plans on applying for the new position that gives them more responsibilities because they figure some thirsty dude will wife them up.
i can say alot about dudes too...but we on women right now.
A potential mate, man or woman, has much ... much more "value" to offer to a relationship ... than their net worth
If that is all you see them as ... a mere price tag; monogamy may not be for you ...
You also seem to be doing a hell of a lot of generalizing
Birds should stop being birds...
? ? should stop being ? ? ...
To treat all people as the lowest caliber of their gender is grossly misrepresentative.
when i say value,i mean more than net worth but that also should be thought about.
i think you missed the part about waiting until things are built.
I guess I view things differently.
Of course, a better financial situation is better for us ... as a couple ... and strides toward that are appreciated.
But before my wife and I became a couple, the things we valued in one another were ambition and work ethic ... Regardless of our respective earning potential.
IMO, someone's exact net worth should not be a consideration in choosing to be with them...
Can they provide for themselves?
Are they about their ? ?
Do they have ambition in life?
Ok, cool ...
This notion that a woman has to bring something to the table favorably proportionate to what I earn, is flawed to me.
There are more important things in life than money.2stepz_ahead wrote: »2stepz_ahead wrote: »
ok...bs aside. i respect you answerstopoftheworld wrote: »What do you mean mother issues??
I grew up without one, so are you talking about people who weren't fortunate enough to have on in our life? Or the scrub ? who depend on mommy?
@topoftheworld
@Wuwop both, sadly. growing up without a mother or mother figure affects both sexes differently. females won't have a model for emulation and identification. while the emotional and relational growth in males often retards.
I have found that an emotionally or psychologically absent mother tends to have a more deleterious effect on a male than a physically absent one due to circumstances outside of one's control (e.g. sickness, death).
conversely, I have observed mother/son emotionally-suffocating relationships because the mother doesn't have a healthy adult relationship with a male partner. this almost always stifles their son's growth and often negatively effects his ability to maintain a meaningful relationship with a healthy woman.
let me ask you this @topoftheworld
why do some women think they deserve the lifestyle they see others live and give their mate ? when they dont.
i also talk to alot of women...and they always say what a mans role in the relationship should be...but alot of them dont support the man on the way building up but want to benefit off of what is he has "built". yet these same women think they should not work and play the homemaker role because "women should be supported". what value does this woman add to this mans life after all the hard work is done? only to maybe become bored or angry and take half his ? . i think at point he has a reason to have an inflated sense of self.
also, undisciplined.....lets get back to that. is it me or is it more and more women moving towards the definition you gave. it seems instagram is more important having morals. chicks having plans of the next pic they gonna send out but no plans on applying for the new position that gives them more responsibilities because they figure some thirsty dude will wife them up.
i can say alot about dudes too...but we on women right now.
A potential mate, man or woman, has much ... much more "value" to offer to a relationship ... than their net worth
If that is all you see them as ... a mere price tag; monogamy may not be for you ...
You also seem to be doing a hell of a lot of generalizing
Birds should stop being birds...
? ? should stop being ? ? ...
To treat all people as the lowest caliber of their gender is grossly misrepresentative.
i am not saying all women but lets not act like this is not becoming the norm more and more.
perfect example are chicks hoeing early then get burned out and want marry the nerd dude late because he now has something.
there is no way a porn star or lifetime stripper should think its an option.
but thats just my opinion.
You would be hard pressed to find a reasonable person that believes that being a gold digger is a desirable trait for a potential mate (Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong)
I hold that as a given...
That is more about the person ... than their net worth, though...
A hard working, self made teacher earning $40K a year is a more desirable than a THOT with $400K saved up from gold digging -
2stepz_ahead wrote: »MrMinimalist wrote: »If you're out and about no matter where you go, you can pick up anyone. The problem is when you decide to stay with or put up with that person. If you meet a female at a real estate convention, she can still be a woman with problems.
this is one of the points i was getting to.
accomplishments dont mean anything because the person can still be "aint ? "
but some people put more into what someone has (females)or how the look(male) than what the person brings to the table.
I agree with this 100% -
Watching this thread made me post this video:
Are You The Type of Guy Most Women Want?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OYvWHEU_8P4 -
JokerBadAzz wrote: »These hoes want Ike Turner
And David ruffin and luscious Lyon and the bad guy in the Tyler Perry movies and the guy who saves them
At the same time -
The endgame is that women in 2016 aint ? . Ive heard all the excuses that OP mentioned above. Women are only good for sex and companionship. Do not wife the hoes. You're signing your own death sentence.
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why ya'll so HOH ALL the damn time?
do ya'll EVER take a break?
LAWD -
You ugly and broke
And you really can't be both in this world and expect women to want you -
You ugly and broke
And you really can't be both in this world and expect women to want you
depending on what a woman thinks is ugly and broke....that can be 99% of the population -
jimprophet wrote: »The endgame is that women in 2016 aint ? . Ive heard all the excuses that OP mentioned above. Women are only good for sex and companionship. Do not wife the hoes. You're signing your own death sentence.
cmon bruh....some of these chick cant even fukkand its many pets that can be adopted for companionship. -
There is a misconception that everyone is entitled to or supposed to be in a relationship , or that every relationship is supposed to be the same
Men and women -
Cuz I'm an alcoholic druggie. Lssss
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There is a misconception that everyone is entitled to or supposed to be in a relationship , or that every relationship is supposed to be the same
Men and women
if i may add on..
some of both think they deserve so much more than what they put in yet dont want to stand for any compromise.
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2stepz_ahead wrote: »true...cant blame them. its lot of fukk ? running around investing in jordans and thinking they know it all...lol. shots fired.
@S2J
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2stepz_ahead wrote: »true...cant blame them. its lot of fukk ? running around investing in jordans and thinking they know it all...lol. shots fired.
@S2J
Lol I salute you nh for bein a real ? with the @ . Like i said, when i post my 401k statement right next to them 11's dont tell me im doin too much haha Ima heel toe and take out the trash in those. Those are throwaways. Thats nothin.
Matters fact, new mixtape comin out, 401ks &J's ©
As for ol boy he just mad he got all the money in the world but cant satisfy his girl #bars
Aye tell yo wife come get at a real ? . If she tired of a ? cryin alllll in the threads, tell her come get a real one llls That ? girl shed tears to Faboulous mixtape, 'You never had a real one'.
@2stepz_ahead wife: '? , i HAVEN'T'
"Shots fired, lol"
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Duck down records presents:
Shots fired!! -
Damn, this thread still poppin?
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hoes say im the man of their dreams, until dey see my bank account
broke ? ? -
Ajackson17 wrote: »Cabana_Da_Don wrote: »Ya have to read ''The Prince'' by Machiavelli there's a side note that quotes a women admitting that man puts women in a level way too high.
Women are very complex and yet quite so simple.
Thats a paradox lol. -
Females like me and want to be with me when they see how ambitious I am. Same female will do a 180 when she realizes I'm not going to sacrifice any effort or energy to entertain her.
Her: you care more about money than me.
Me: yes. is that an actual question......or
Her: *sobs*
