Fair or Foul: Mother/Daughter pole dancing
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Foul: this looks inappropriatesometimes you gotta get to the motivation of things...
WHY do you want your daughter POLE DANCING?
not if it's okay or not... why specifically POLE DANCING?
there's literally a million other ways to promote athleticism, and physical activities......but why does it HAVE TO BE POLE DANCING??
that's my issue...if you can easily compare it to other things like gymnastics and volley ball, then why the ? not do those other things like gymnastics and volley ball???
yall pushing this agenda like the secret to life is in Pole Dancing and pole dancing alone...like this kids future depends on their ability to pole dance from the age of 5......like the world has some kind reward for those who have over a decade of experience at pole dancing by the tme they reach adulthood...
i mean....there is a profession that i know of specifically that would reward such talents.....but yall explain it....
y does it have to be pole dancing? -
I didn't come back in this thread but man I tell ya
The fact is some ppl see the word 'pole' and they immediately strip club and magic citty and some big ? bab making her way thru college
Doesn't matter what's in the actual OP, ? 's seen pole dancing and they see they little girls gyrating for dollars. More pitiful than anything
@brother_five outside of whatever your opinion is of the OP, can u agree with this or nah?
I need brother @chicity to clarify his point before I can agree or disagree
is this post saying that ppl who associate 'poles' with sex are ? ? or is this post saying that rushing to judge the situation without watching the video is trash?
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Smh..... couldn't let my baby girl do it. If you going to bond with your child let it be with some books counting reading you can post that online.. But what she was doing should have been kept private. And as a father I wouldn't want no pics of my child naked on the internet no way.
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Fair: i see nothing wrong heresometimes you gotta get to the motivation of things...
WHY do you want your daughter POLE DANCING?
not if it's okay or not... why specifically POLE DANCING?
there's literally a million other ways to promote athleticism, and physical activities......but why does it HAVE TO BE POLE DANCING??
that's my issue...if you can easily compare it to other things like gymnastics and volley ball, then why the ? not do those other things like gymnastics and volley ball???
yall pushing this agenda like the secret to life is in Pole Dancing and pole dancing alone...like this kids future depends on their ability to pole dance from the age of 5......like the world has some kind reward for those who have over a decade of experience at pole dancing by the tme they reach adulthood...
i mean....there is a profession that i know of specifically that would reward such talents.....but yall explain it....
y does it have to be pole dancing?
Why the ultimatum? Why does it have to be one or the Other? Why assume that this is the ONLY thing that the child is learning?
As a kid, I played every sport you can imagine... Basketball, football, kickball, soccer, you name it. -
She's a better pole dancer than KhaleesiBrother_Five wrote: »I didn't come back in this thread but man I tell ya
The fact is some ppl see the word 'pole' and they immediately strip club and magic citty and some big ? bab making her way thru college
Doesn't matter what's in the actual OP, ? 's seen pole dancing and they see they little girls gyrating for dollars. More pitiful than anything
@brother_five outside of whatever your opinion is of the OP, can u agree with this or nah?
I need brother @chicity to clarify his point before I can agree or disagree
is this post saying that ppl who associate 'poles' with sex are ? ? or is this post saying that rushing to judge the situation without watching the video is trash?
or both?
Id say both.
A lot of these intelligent posters sound mad ignorant..
Its like u cant have a BLM vs ALM debate if the cac insists that BLM is a terrorist/hate group.. we cant even begin the convo..
The IC is largely refusing to separate pole dancing from stripping. The definition of ignorance. -
At the analogies made in this thread
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Mores so the bold because it leads to italicizedBrother_Five wrote: »I didn't come back in this thread but man I tell ya
The fact is some ppl see the word 'pole' and they immediately strip club and magic citty and some big ? bab making her way thru college
Doesn't matter what's in the actual OP, ? 's seen pole dancing and they see they little girls gyrating for dollars. More pitiful than anything
@brother_five outside of whatever your opinion is of the OP, can u agree with this or nah?
I need brother @chicity to clarify his point before I can agree or disagree
is this post saying that ppl who associate 'poles' with sex are ? ? Or is this post saying that rushing to judge the situation without watching the video is trash?
or both?
I can see why ppl associate poles and sex, that's the society we live in and with all the ? up on SM you don't know WHAT someone is going to post but I don't feel that the OP was sexual at and bc of that I can't say that at face value a baby plus pole is a no-no -
So you fear the stigma of 'pole dancing'?sometimes you gotta get to the motivation of things...
WHY do you want your daughter POLE DANCING?
not if it's okay or not... why specifically POLE DANCING?
there's literally a million other ways to promote athleticism, and physical activities......but why does it HAVE TO BE POLE DANCING??
that's my issue...if you can easily compare it to other things like gymnastics and volley ball, then why the ? not do those other things like gymnastics and volley ball???
yall pushing this agenda like the secret to life is in Pole Dancing and pole dancing alone...like this kids future depends on their ability to pole dance from the age of 5......like the world has some kind reward for those who have over a decade of experience at pole dancing by the tme they reach adulthood...
i mean....there is a profession that i know of specifically that would reward such talents.....but yall explain it....
y does it have to be pole dancing?
You fear how others are going to react to it, how others may perceive it?
Did you hear that lil baby laughing while they was spinning? Did you see her playing with her mom b4 she got on the pole?
None of that matters tho because of the stigma of pole dancing right?
Had she had the same joy playing with Barbie's she'd grow up to be a doctor right? -
Brother_Five wrote: »I didn't come back in this thread but man I tell ya
The fact is some ppl see the word 'pole' and they immediately strip club and magic citty and some big ? bab making her way thru college
Doesn't matter what's in the actual OP, ? 's seen pole dancing and they see they little girls gyrating for dollars. More pitiful than anything
@brother_five outside of whatever your opinion is of the OP, can u agree with this or nah?
I need brother @chicity to clarify his point before I can agree or disagree
is this post saying that ppl who associate 'poles' with sex are ? ? or is this post saying that rushing to judge the situation without watching the video is trash?
or both?
Id say both.
A lot of these intelligent posters sound mad ignorant..
Its like u cant have a BLM vs ALM debate if the cac insists that BLM is a terrorist/hate group.. we cant even begin the convo..
The IC is largely refusing to separate pole dancing from stripping. The definition of ignorance.
what is silly is lumping all those against this into one accord for being against this -
I agree with this alsoBrother_Five wrote: »I didn't come back in this thread but man I tell ya
The fact is some ppl see the word 'pole' and they immediately strip club and magic citty and some big ? bab making her way thru college
Doesn't matter what's in the actual OP, ? 's seen pole dancing and they see they little girls gyrating for dollars. More pitiful than anything
@brother_five outside of whatever your opinion is of the OP, can u agree with this or nah?
I need brother @chicity to clarify his point before I can agree or disagree
is this post saying that ppl who associate 'poles' with sex are ? ? or is this post saying that rushing to judge the situation without watching the video is trash?
or both?
Id say both.
A lot of these intelligent posters sound mad ignorant..
Its like u cant have a BLM vs ALM debate if the cac insists that BLM is a terrorist/hate group.. we cant even begin the convo..
The IC is largely refusing to separate pole dancing from stripping. The definition of ignorance.
what is silly is lumping all those against this into one accord for being against this
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@trillfate would you be ok with posting a video of your son playing on a stripper pole on social media?
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I'm pretty open minded, but what kind if man is willing to build with a ? that's cool with her daughter poledancing?! No matter how "elegant" you want it to be, a little girl has no business on a got damn pole.
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Fair: i see nothing wrong hereLmao!
It's funny how @dwo is trying to be captain american and be all concerned with kids when he had no qualms with a baby being put in a dresser just so he can smash the single mother.
I love the hypocrisy on the IC!
Lets not forget that the scumbag thread exists on the IC before yall wanna come out acting like moral police -
Foul: this looks inappropriate
So you fear the stigma of 'pole dancing'?sometimes you gotta get to the motivation of things...
WHY do you want your daughter POLE DANCING?
not if it's okay or not... why specifically POLE DANCING?
there's literally a million other ways to promote athleticism, and physical activities......but why does it HAVE TO BE POLE DANCING??
that's my issue...if you can easily compare it to other things like gymnastics and volley ball, then why the ? not do those other things like gymnastics and volley ball???
yall pushing this agenda like the secret to life is in Pole Dancing and pole dancing alone...like this kids future depends on their ability to pole dance from the age of 5......like the world has some kind reward for those who have over a decade of experience at pole dancing by the tme they reach adulthood...
i mean....there is a profession that i know of specifically that would reward such talents.....but yall explain it....
y does it have to be pole dancing?
You fear how others are going to react to it, how others may perceive it?
Did you hear that lil baby laughing while they was spinning? Did you see her playing with her mom b4 she got on the pole?
None of that matters tho because of the stigma of pole dancing right?
Had she had the same joy playing with Barbie's she'd grow up to be a doctor right?
naw bruh, "others" don't got ? to do with it...... I DON"T LIKE IT....so I'm going say no, do something else....
if it keeps coming back to this ? , i'm gonna ask....why it gotta be the pole?
i don't want my daughter on the pole, cuz i don't want my daughter on no pole.....to me it's that simple.....i don't give a ? about what others got to say......this is me
but what confuses me is why the defense for the pole.....like what the ? you gotta prove by fighting for the pole if a parent simply doesn't think it's cool -
Foul: this looks inappropriateNeighborhoodNomad. wrote: »I'm pretty open minded, but what kind if man is willing to build with a ? that's cool with her daughter poledancing?! No matter how "elegant" you want it to be, a little girl has no business on a got damn pole.
thank you bruh -
ok...
so I finally watched the video
it was not problematic to me
on the other hand...
I have a ? daughter and a niece (so I'm sensitive to women's issues lol)
I can understand why ppl think the worst.
the idea alone is repugnant. it is asking a lot to ask people to disassociate poles from strip clubs and sex.
so this specific case aint worthy of uproar.
however, if presented with the idea of incorporating 'pole dancing' into your childs life, I can see people being upset at the notion alone. -
I'm trying to figure out the hate for the pole
So you fear the stigma of 'pole dancing'?sometimes you gotta get to the motivation of things...
WHY do you want your daughter POLE DANCING?
not if it's okay or not... why specifically POLE DANCING?
there's literally a million other ways to promote athleticism, and physical activities......but why does it HAVE TO BE POLE DANCING??
that's my issue...if you can easily compare it to other things like gymnastics and volley ball, then why the ? not do those other things like gymnastics and volley ball???
yall pushing this agenda like the secret to life is in Pole Dancing and pole dancing alone...like this kids future depends on their ability to pole dance from the age of 5......like the world has some kind reward for those who have over a decade of experience at pole dancing by the tme they reach adulthood...
i mean....there is a profession that i know of specifically that would reward such talents.....but yall explain it....
y does it have to be pole dancing?
You fear how others are going to react to it, how others may perceive it?
Did you hear that lil baby laughing while they was spinning? Did you see her playing with her mom b4 she got on the pole?
None of that matters tho because of the stigma of pole dancing right?
Had she had the same joy playing with Barbie's she'd grow up to be a doctor right?
naw bruh, "others" don't got ? to do with it...... I DON"T LIKE IT....so I'm going say no, do something else....
if it keeps coming back to this ? , i'm gonna ask....why it gotta be the pole?
i don't want my daughter on the pole, cuz i don't want my daughter on no pole.....to me it's that simple.....
but what confuses me is why the defense for the pole.....like what the ? you gotta prove by fighting for the pole if a parent simply doesn't think it's cool
You said b4 said it's an adult themed device used for sexually encouragement.
Op disproved that
The video of the choreographed dance Kha posted disproved that
Now what's the beef with the pole pause -
Fair: i see nothing wrong hereI'm sure most folks wouldnt be cool with a baby being put in a dresser. But hey...
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She's a better pole dancer than KhaleesiDang @missk you have the courage to go against the grain and claim agnostic but you can't separate pole dancing and stripping, even after witnessing the 9 year old video?
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Foul: this looks inappropriateLmao!
It's funny how @dwo is trying to be captain american and be all concerned with kids when he had no qualms with a baby being put in a dresser just so he can smash the single mother.
I love the hypocrisy on the IC!
Lets not forget that the scumbag thread exists on the IC before yall wanna come out acting like moral police
? outta here ? , i was 20 years old and it wasn't even my kid.....
you a single mother now, maybe you can bait one of these ? ? to smash your single mother ass in one room while your daughter spins on a pole in the other and yall can be just like me...... -
This what it boils down to.Brother_Five wrote: »ok...
so I finally watched the video
it was not problematic to me
on the other hand...
I have a ? daughter and a niece (so I'm sensitive to women's issues lol)
I can understand why ppl think the worst.
the idea alone is repugnant. it is asking a lot to ask people to disassociate poles from strip clubs and sex.
so this specific case aint worthy of uproar.
however, if presented with the idea of incorporating 'pole dancing' into your childs life, I can see people being upset at the notion alone.
Again pitiful and now...... a lil depressing
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Foul: this looks inappropriate
I'm trying to figure out the hate for the pole
So you fear the stigma of 'pole dancing'?sometimes you gotta get to the motivation of things...
WHY do you want your daughter POLE DANCING?
not if it's okay or not... why specifically POLE DANCING?
there's literally a million other ways to promote athleticism, and physical activities......but why does it HAVE TO BE POLE DANCING??
that's my issue...if you can easily compare it to other things like gymnastics and volley ball, then why the ? not do those other things like gymnastics and volley ball???
yall pushing this agenda like the secret to life is in Pole Dancing and pole dancing alone...like this kids future depends on their ability to pole dance from the age of 5......like the world has some kind reward for those who have over a decade of experience at pole dancing by the tme they reach adulthood...
i mean....there is a profession that i know of specifically that would reward such talents.....but yall explain it....
y does it have to be pole dancing?
You fear how others are going to react to it, how others may perceive it?
Did you hear that lil baby laughing while they was spinning? Did you see her playing with her mom b4 she got on the pole?
None of that matters tho because of the stigma of pole dancing right?
Had she had the same joy playing with Barbie's she'd grow up to be a doctor right?
naw bruh, "others" don't got ? to do with it...... I DON"T LIKE IT....so I'm going say no, do something else....
if it keeps coming back to this ? , i'm gonna ask....why it gotta be the pole?
i don't want my daughter on the pole, cuz i don't want my daughter on no pole.....to me it's that simple.....
but what confuses me is why the defense for the pole.....like what the ? you gotta prove by fighting for the pole if a parent simply doesn't think it's cool
You said b4 said it's an adult themed device used for sexually encouragement.
Op disproved that
The video of the choreographed dance Kha posted disproved that
Now what's the beef with the pole pause
man i ain't tryna hear all that....
it's a ? stripper pole....do some other ?
you can do artsy dance without a damn pole, my whole family is full of dancers and they be doing all kinds a crazy ? with it, and it's cool....but they ain't swinging on no damn poles....
i just ain't feeling that ? .... -
Fair: i see nothing wrong hereAs men...we're naturally looking out to defend our daughters...it's a sensitive topic. It's no surprise that a man will *generally* be more strict about the activities his daughter is involved in...and a woman will *generally* be more strict about the activities her son is involved in.
Given the fact that there is a stigma for pole dancing...you're not going to convince any of us that this is ok. Because we're men...and we know how ? think. We're trying to craft our daughters in the image of a woman we want them to be...so allowing them to participate in something we KNOW has a stigma for hoe-involvement...isn't going to sit right with us.
Same thing for women...you know how women think. If I took my 4 year old son to "playa classes", "spitting game" classes, and "dry ? the beach ball" classes...you would be pretty ? that I took your innocent son to classes that fulfilled a stigma that he would grow up to be one of the men you hate today.
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Fair: i see nothing wrong hereDamn, this thread still doing numbers? At this point, what else needs to be said?mryounggun wrote: »I agree with one thing: this really is the type of ? that shouldn't be argued...at least not for this long and to this extent.
You see your kid swinging on a metal pole in the living room and think, 'This is harmless fun!', let 'em do it.
You see your kid swinging on a metal pole in the living room and think, 'This is sexual. I'm raising a ? who will soon be sucking ? in a back room for her rent money and popping that ? for a goon if I don't put a stop to this!', then don't let 'em do it.
Close thread.
