What's The Worst Habit A Woman Can Have In Your Opinion?
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obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: ».. Our brains can't even compute that someone wouldn't have more to say about something so salacious. It would be like learning that a teenager died or something and not asking how ..
More to say as in more feelings on the matter, or more to say/share with you?
Wanting to know more, even if you only want to help, doesn't entitle one to more information, friends and family included.
I know this seems like a stiff point, but people that've said what they intended aren't "not having more to say" simply because you want to know more. In my experience, women are bad with this; Because they make things about them... so I'll ask a million questions to get to why, what, when, and where and have a full-blown circular ass argument. All gone about in a round about way.
and I'll be over that ? in 5 minutes and wondering why he's mad lol
I'll be like I know what I wanted to know, I'm done what's the problem?
I'm one frustrating woman ..
A lot of women use relationships in this way, as zones where certain things have to be accepted about them / they're allowed to think and behave in ways that wouldn't fly with anyone else.
This is where I get in trouble now, because I don't waste time with any of this anymore. I'll bypass this entire segment, expose most/all tripping points, explain to her why she shouldn't trip, and be done. Proactively. Obviously this causes arguments, but that's because it's always linked to her feeling entitled to overthink, suspect, etc.
Relationship or otherwise, If you're wrong and I know you're wrong, I don't owe you the opportunity to drag us both thru the process of you coming to that conclusion on your own; Because it's not my job to find a way to endure unnecessary questions/speculation just because that's what you wanna do, just because we're together.
Women don't understand this.
Tbh I'm an inquisitive person so this is a habit of mine, it has nothing to do with me feeling emboldened in a relationship to push buttons. I'm a habitual button-pusher. -
obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »My worst habit is overanalyzing ? and seeing things that ain't there. My man could say that he's thirsty and wants a glass of water and I will call all of my friends trying to dissect precisely what he meant by the word "thirsty" and what he could have really meant by saying "glass" instead of "cup". By the time I'm done, I'll have it figured out that by thirst he was talking about a deep inner soul longing that can only be filled by the love of another woman who is independent and whole and knows what she needs and that is why he needed a glass which was actually a metaphor for the self reflection required of him which will allow him to see the attributes of that woman clearly in order to decipher whether she is the one who could fulfill his needs as a life-long partner in holy matrimony.
Meanwhile... this ? be just wanting a beverage and I've already broken up with him in my mind because I deserve better than someone who doesn't see me as whole already.
used to over-analyze like this, but i've gotten better. i'm like a happy puppy every time i see him like even if i had a bad day, and he's the brooding type that just needs his space and is not happy/smiling all the time. i would take that to mean he was upset with me about something and keep asking him what's wrong, which would annoy him then real start some bickering. he had to tell me finally like, everyone ain't all happy all time like you and this is just my temperament, it ain't about you all the time
as far as gossiping, he only likes hearing dirt on my family cuz they act like their ? don't stink lol
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atribecalledgabi wrote: »atribecalledgabi wrote: »Trap questions and mind games...asking questions they already know the answer to see how you respong. My mom did it to me all the time growing up and now I'm like "how do ? still be falling for this ? ?"
guilty!!!!
Fam.....when I tell you I HAAAAAATE that ? ??? And by the time you get to the point I'm already mad cuz you coulda just said what the problem was in the beginning...and because I'm mad the change you seek ain't gonna happen lol
it's really bad with me because I'm super duper Blunt, but I like to know motives and reasons behind everything so I'll ask a million questions to get to why, what, when, and where and have a full-blown circular ass argument. All gone about in a round about way.
and I'll be over that ? in 5 minutes and wondering why he's mad lol
I'll be like I know what I wanted to know, I'm done what's the problem?
I'm one frustrating woman.
this is annoying. but what is more annoying is the fact that women know that they are this way and do nothing to change/improve/better themselves. they KNOW they are a pain in the ? ass when they do this ? . make a ? not want to talk to yall.
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atribecalledgabi wrote: »atribecalledgabi wrote: »Trap questions and mind games...asking questions they already know the answer to see how you respong. My mom did it to me all the time growing up and now I'm like "how do ? still be falling for this ? ?"
guilty!!!!
Fam.....when I tell you I HAAAAAATE that ? ??? And by the time you get to the point I'm already mad cuz you coulda just said what the problem was in the beginning...and because I'm mad the change you seek ain't gonna happen lol
it's really bad with me because I'm super duper Blunt, but I like to know motives and reasons behind everything so I'll ask a million questions to get to why, what, when, and where and have a full-blown circular ass argument. All gone about in a round about way.
and I'll be over that ? in 5 minutes and wondering why he's mad lol
I'll be like I know what I wanted to know, I'm done what's the problem?
I'm one frustrating woman.
this is annoying. but what is more annoying is the fact that women know that they are this way and do nothing to change/improve/better themselves. they KNOW they are a pain in the ? ass when they do this ? . make a ? not want to talk to yall.
Yeah I don't necessarily agree but you're entitled to your opinion. My thing is I'll ask a direct question if I don't get a direct answer and I got to go around I'ma go around the direct answer and I'ma find out what I need to know. Don't lie, don't avoid topics, and I won't annoy you simple -
Don't lie, don't avoid topics, and I won't annoy you simple
What if a ? just tired and not in the mood to talk? Do you consider that too? -
obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »My worst habit is overanalyzing ? and seeing things that ain't there. My man could say that he's thirsty and wants a glass of water and I will call all of my friends trying to dissect precisely what he meant by the word "thirsty" and what he could have really meant by saying "glass" instead of "cup". By the time I'm done, I'll have it figured out that by thirst he was talking about a deep inner soul longing that can only be filled by the love of another woman who is independent and whole and knows what she needs and that is why he needed a glass which was actually a metaphor for the self reflection required of him which will allow him to see the attributes of that woman clearly in order to decipher whether she is the one who could fulfill his needs as a life-long partner in holy matrimony.
Meanwhile... this ? be just wanting a beverage and I've already broken up with him in my mind because I deserve better than someone who doesn't see me as whole already.
we need a "WOW!!" button -
What's that's ? when u ask them what's wrong and they say "nothin," but blow up 2 hours later.
Oh and disrespectful getting loud in public
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worst habit a women can have is setting a sex schedule
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obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »My worst habit is overanalyzing ? and seeing things that ain't there. My man could say that he's thirsty and wants a glass of water and I will call all of my friends trying to dissect precisely what he meant by the word "thirsty" and what he could have really meant by saying "glass" instead of "cup". By the time I'm done, I'll have it figured out that by thirst he was talking about a deep inner soul longing that can only be filled by the love of another woman who is independent and whole and knows what she needs and that is why he needed a glass which was actually a metaphor for the self reflection required of him which will allow him to see the attributes of that woman clearly in order to decipher whether she is the one who could fulfill his needs as a life-long partner in holy matrimony.
Meanwhile... this ? be just wanting a beverage and I've already broken up with him in my mind because I deserve better than someone who doesn't see me as whole already.
used to over-analyze like this, but i've gotten better. i'm like a happy puppy every time i see him like even if i had a bad day, and he's the brooding type that just needs his space and is not happy/smiling all the time. i would take that to mean he was upset with me about something and keep asking him what's wrong, which would annoy him then real start some bickering. he had to tell me finally like, everyone ain't all happy all time like you and this is just my temperament, it ain't about you all the time
as far as gossiping, he only likes hearing dirt on my family cuz they act like their ? don't stink lol
He's told me that before. "Everything is not about you." And I'm like "whaaaaat? How can anything in life not be about me??" -
Leaving her period blood stained panties soaking in the sink, biting her nails.
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Yes. I'm very considerate. I just ain't gonna forget in the morning. -
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What's that's ? when u ask them what's wrong and they say "nothin," but blow up 2 hours later.
Oh and disrespectful getting loud in public
I'm guilty if this, but I usually stew for a couple days then...
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I hate how I get so needy and clingy around my period time
Like sometimes I think if I don't hear from him all day he wants to break up or there is a problem.
And really he's been at work And in Meetings etc
Lucky I have a an amazing bff that talks me off the ledge so I don't freak out on him. -
Indecisiveness, flakiness, passive aggressive behavior is number 1 on my list though.
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You need not relate to know what you don't accept -
SimplyKrys wrote: »Leaving her period blood stained panties soaking in the sink, biting her nails.
Who...Dee ? ...even do that
Never in my life seen no ? like that..
Then she just gone drop that ? and get ghost like it's nothing to expound on -
Oh..anotha thing I ain't see no one mention.."constantly accuse you of cheating"
That ? there..specially when u ain't cheating,..like..if I wanted to cheat, that ? u saying is evidence..wouldn't be no ? id leave to be seen in the first place..if I was cheating -
Either smoking or being trifling
For the life of me i cant understand how a WOMAN can keep a house/car so filthy. -
MsSouthern wrote: »I hate how I get so needy and clingy around my period time
Like sometimes I think if I don't hear from him all day he wants to break up or there is a problem.
And really he's been at work And in Meetings etc
Lucky I have a an amazing bff that talks me off the ledge so I don't freak out on him.
ok so again, theres acknowledgement of ? up. i appreciate that. and i appreciate that you take steps to prevent ? up a ? day on some ? because you're in your feelings and living in a world of imagination land that has been constructed by your emotions or hormones.
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Never knowing what they wanna eat
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A woman who doesn't clean their gotdamn house/car or who isn't tidy in general. That ? is an omen and tells a lot about that person!
I done been to a some PRETTY brawds spot for the first time and walked in like....
And then have the nerve to tell me..... "Ya know you can sit down!"
I'm jus like......
Sometimes I still can't believe them yamps lived like that. smh
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When theres a disagreement n shes driven by "feelings" rather than logic so none of the facts or moral of the story become important.
