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Shameful ? smh
I aint seen this level of maternal disrespect since they popped Omar's granny's best crown off her head...on the Sundy truce smh the SUNDAY TRUCE -
@AP12, I hope u and ya wife have a long marriage lol
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Sion is ethering these hoes
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Maybe cause I come from an immigrant family but this whole "ion give money to my parents" thing is weird. My mother sent money overseas to my grandmother every month when she came to this country, my family supports each other, without asking for anything back.
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damn some of yall were neglected like a mawfucka comin up it really shouldnt be a strain to give ya moms money out of da goodness of ya heart nd wat not
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Skyler White wrote: »Skyler White wrote: »Skyler White wrote: »You ? got it confused...MzGrahamBitches wrote: »Man ? that, what part of the game is it for your children to be helping YOU out financially? I'm not talking due to old age, I get that, but because of your own POOR financial decisions?
She made her choices in life, why do I have to bail her out for them when I'm HER child?
I mean occasionally, I know ? happens, but if it's consistent because you're making the same bad decisions..it gets old.
But she had my back for a whole year after I had my baby so I still feel obligated to at least loan her some money when she needs it, even though I've easily repaid that debt.
Because a lot of these ? moms is broke good for nothing hoes and theyre just enablers
If I have my ? together & im not asking my man for bill money then why does this broke, irresponsible hoe ask my man for money? She shoulda been had her ? together. Matter of fact, where is her man? Shouldn't she be asking him for money?
I can understand breaking bread fir a gift every now & then but if you're paying your mom's bills and she's healthy and able bodied enough to get up & work then you need to cut her lazy ass off.
Wait, wait-a-minuttte *kevin hart voice*
I dont know if you trollin or what, but this is just plain triflin.
While you doin all this expert analysis on mother-son relationships...*puts on glasses* how about we delve into this CLEAR sign of undiagnosed mother-daughter envy/jealousy/competition goin on?
envy? envious of whom?
like @? _i_look_like said, my mom has not and does not receive money from me. my mom is 33 years older than me. she had plenty of years to get her ? together and she used those years wisely so that now that she's an older adult, she's taking care of herself quite well. my mom makes approx 2.5 times more than I do yearly, ? I look like giving her bill money every month? she is not ? and I do not have to tithe to her.
my mom doesn't even expect gifts from her kids on holidays. as long as we send a card, try to show our faces, and give her a phone call to show our appreciation, she's good. nothing I can do for her materially will match up to what she can do for herself anyway.
like i said, if your mom is disabled, elderly, and unable to take care of herself I can understand supporting her.
but taking money out of your household to take care of another able bodied adult is ridiculous. especially when you have a wife, serious long term s/o, and/or kid(s).
i find it ridiculous that you nignogs go absolutely HAM about paying child support and single mothers who struggle to pay their bills, but you have no qualms about sponsoring a lazy old bird that can't manage her funds month to month? the reality is that if your mom is begging you for money for bills, she's no better than the same irresponsible single moms that men ? about.
Its not registerin to you cuz you too busy tryin to elicit 'ethers'.
In your mind, ALL of our 'lazy, no-good, welfare, wic, subsidized-home havin' mothers look like this:
In reality, our mothers are teachers, govt workers, homes paid in full, etc, etc.
Its not about the money itself, its the PRINCIPLE. Its the gratitude. For Christsakes she BIRTHED yo ass smdh
Now, truly, there is no way to fully address this 'debate' without gettin Biblical on your ass', so i'll just stop now b/c, im sorry you lookin triflin out here.
'I feel sorry fa ya muddah' Lol
I express my gratitude by being the best person I can be and showing her that all of her hard work wasn't in vain.
I work, raise my kid, and try to be the best wife I can be. Trying to further my education so I can follow in her footsteps. I do ? she can brag about to her friends when they discuss their kids. I bring home diplomas she can hang above her mantle.
You feel sorry for my mother? Well I feel sorry for you that your mother has instilled a ? up sense of guilt in you to the point that you feel the need to pay her penance.
I don't need to shower my mom with money to show her I'm grateful. I'd much rather utilize the skills and teachings she instilled in me growing up: one of those being "don't take care of an able bodied ? . I don't care who he is."
How old are you? Seriously, please answer. Ya moms is 33 yrs older than you? She gotta at LEAST be, what, 56, minimum. My dear, my dear, my dear. You have a lot to learn.
MOST adults, once they reach 25 or so, the tables turn. Now you start to look out for your folks the way they did for you. Why? Life is SHORT. I dont feel like givin you more work than you've already been served here, but I pray you dont learn the hard way.
Also, you talkin bout ya moms talkin with her friends? Who you think the kids of those friends are? We RIGHT here, tellin you how triflin you are. Moms brag, and not just about the plaques n pieces of paper you talkin. You got ya moms lookin crazy up at the bingo hall -
I sorry but I wouldn't want my son paying any of my bills every month, that just wouldn't sit right with me. Me raising him does not mean he is owes me anything once he is grown.
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How do you feel about giving money to your father Miss White
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i dont give a dman if my mama poor or rich
im breakin bread cause i want to -
all these posts and dudes still don't get it...smh
get wat?
that i should say ? my momma and and do what these ? want
you sound like a sucka for love ass ? right now
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CS plap. My moms the type who won't ask for ? even if she needs it, but she don't gotta ask cause I'll give it if I see she needs it or any other time that I just want to
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Cosizzle! -
who is this ? on my background blowing me kisses?
*goes to google?= -
The thread is disgusting
Me becoming employed is the reason to pay them back
I like the reciprocal relationship between them.
Even tho I disagree with them on most topics. -
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good thread
I was thoroughly entertained looking at all the feelings splattered all over this thread
but real talk some of ya'll chicks seem to have mother issues
@skyler white shooting subliminals out here
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Skyler White wrote: »I guess it feels funny to give my mom money knowing she makes over 100k a year.
Maybe if my mom didnt have it like that I'd be more willing to break bread.
I wish that well to do heifer would ask me for money. I'd laugh at her. I know what her yearly salary is.
The first year I was able to file independent on my taxes, my mom ? around & claimed me behind my back knowing I hadn't lived with her or needed her for money for over 2 years. When I asked why she said because she needed a dependent to lower her taxes. Thats when I realized my mama had bread. I needed her tax return later that yr to file for fafsa so I got a chance to really see how much she makes...she was making 106k in 2007 plus quarterly bonuses. Shes had two promotions since then.
I'd laugh in her face if she expected me to give her bread...she cool, she got a bakery compared to my dutch oven.
damn off topic yo, but my parents did the same sneaky ass ? to me last year. I was heated like a m'? when I found that out. not only did I NOT get a refund, I ended up owing IRS money cuz of that ? ? they pulled. -
some people dont do ? for they child (? worldddd)
some childs dont give you ? when you retire (? worlddddd) -
Skyler White wrote: »gets offended when you ask him to go get tested before having sex.
has absolutely NO porn on his computer or in his apartment (probably turned on by some out there freak ? that he doesnt want you to see)
oh, so you see value in a man with a porno collection huh? -
I think it just boils down to personal circumstances and situations.
I found nothing Sky said to be illogical and I could relate to some of it all though my situation is a bit different. In a perfect world that's how it SHOULD work, at least until retirement age and even then you should make effort to plan for that as much as possible. I don't WANT to be a burden on my child until it's absolutely necessary and that should be the goal we strive for as parents imo.
But in the end if you're coming from two different situations then you just won't be able to relate in that regard.
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i think its a ? i need to google for nueds?
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HyenaKilla wrote: »MzGrahamBitches wrote: »I think it just boils down to personal circumstances and situations.
I found nothing Sky said to be illogical and I could relate to some of it all though my situation is a bit different. In a perfect world that's how it SHOULD work, at least until retirement age and even then you should make effort to plan for that as much as possible. I don't WANT to be a burden on my child until it's absolutely necessary and that should be the goal we strive for as parents imo.
But in the end if you're coming from two different situations then you just won't be able to relate in that regard.
The attitude and contempt expressed by Sky towards single mothers is straight up & down nasty, trifling, & pig-ish. You can tell she got glaring issues. I could never even associate with a woman that had that sort of turmoil in their mind & heart.
It costs approximately a quarter million dollars to raise a newborn to adulthood in today's economical climate. If a grateful son chooses to allot funds to his mother on any scheduled basis, how is that a red flag? If anything, it's a honorable deed. How can you reasonably distort that gesture to anything other than respectable.
Its not so much a red flag against him as it is against a potentially trying situation altogether.
Of course that's noble of him, but you get with a man you're signing up to deal with his mother at the same time.
It could lead to trouble up the road between the two of you so I'd say it's something to be aware of..
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