The changing reasons why women cheat on their husbands (Article inside)
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monogamy isnt real..
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A ? only as loyal as her options.
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blackgod813 wrote: »Bibical atheist didnt even read the article
You're right, I skimmed it, and when I saw SEX pop up more than twice, I assumed any other words in the article were merely there to make it look like it wasn't just about sex. -
What ? don't have options? All they have to do is step outsideA ? only as loyal as her options.
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Exactly.
Women are biologically being chased by men their age and older by 15 and 16.
Remember being in high school girls had mad options across age ranges? that doesn't happen with boys. We were lucky if 2 girls at a time likes us.
Men hunt inherently. It's our biological programming. We never had sex options as easy as women do and never will. We're not prey and if we are women shun us with the quickness.
It goes back to the biological clock talk someone brought up I think in the last page. It's a good point. Women sexually peak in their 20s cause they generally get it in earlier cause they'e chased by adolescence. So they get that out their system by the mid to late 20s generally.
Men we dont go from boys to men in the bedroom till our 30s. Thats when we generally know who we truly are in all respects. So nature plays it that women who have kids say after 35 could but have greater risks to bear. While men mature into sexual dynamos for the sake of procreation.
This goes back to the cavemen. ? the ceasers in rome kept 14 yr old brides and concubines. It's crazy but that ? plays a factor. Women have a lot of pressure at a younger age cause of all that but the options never stop coming.
Like jono and VIBE said though because of discrepancy like that communication and unconditionally mutual need for understanding is important. It takes a lot of self discipline and restraint. Men ain't ready to get there till we push mid age. Women dont get that luxury. They're forced into situations that leads to the "women mature quicker" cliche.
Understanding that is the first step when meeting any woman. Personally I'm single but I restrict to 26 and older cause that is when they're generally on the other side of that scenario. -
^^^ thats why they have no prob turning down ? tho. Cuz its always around.
Whereas it seems some dudes take down whatever they can like a mfer who dont know when their next meal is coming. -
Men don't give the women what they want or need. I've seen many marriages end up being blamed on the man for various reasons. Two of those reasons that are high on the list - sex and communication.
There's no human connections. Everything today is expressed through social media; birthdays, anniversaries, vacations, baby announcements etc. ? seems to have lost its value in the journey for likes, shares and the hope your video or message goes viral. I tell my wife happy birthday w a kiss, hug and some ? I'll do for her. I don't say ? on FB.
Men don't even need women to get pleasure, either. These married men are popping open web browsers and searching up porn fantasies to get off bc wifey ain't doing ? . She's out cheating bc he can't ? or just ain't ? at all.
It's all a lack of deep connection to each other. People don't realize that it doesn't just happen, you have to consistently work on that everyday. Compromise is also something many people don't understand. They're too immature and ? about ? .
I've been w my wife since I was 15. I'm going to be 31 this year. 17 yrs together. 9 yrs married. 6 kids. She works. I stay at home. We have been through open heart surgeries w my 2nd son, which was hell for the first 3 yrs. Then, our 5th son was born and he has allergies, eczema & asthma, and that's a ? load of work, too.
Even through that and typical ? , our sex lives are top notch. Sex every day, every week, every month. We can talk for hours. Humor is on point. We just click. Always have. We are both mature and just don't care to devote our time or energy to ? . Instead of arguing we get angry, don't talk, then talk it out when tempers are cooled. Even then, we hardly ever have any kind of issues with each other. Average argument, fight or being mad at each other is like once a month - if that.
People just don't care to devote time to someone else. Everything is about them. Social media has created this selfish "me, me, me" idea. You have ppl marrying themselves now. Why marry someone when you don't want to work on ? , not even yourself?
I don't get what's hard about being mature and being able to rationally understand and work things out that are necessary in a relationship.
A society addicted to pleasure and perfection doenst understand nor gives a damn about what you are explaning.
In the same situation 9 couples out of ten would have broken up.
We have been to PC:
- when you suck you have been told that you are hated on,
- when you overspend you have been told that its the gov's fault you deserve more money
- you fat /ugly as ? but you are chasing 8s and beyond because what counts is inner beauty,
- you have no relationship values or knowledge but you deserve to have a good longlasting couple
- you wake up every 10 am but you ve been told that you gon be bill Gates or Schwarzeneger
- you have been told that you are not suppose to feel any type and inch of pain.
Pain. Rejection. Not today. No. You dont deserve. You cannot have it if you dont put in work. Your work is ? plain and simple. You sex game is not that good. You need to go to the gym. Stop eating like a pig.
All these harsh but necesary phrases are not tolerated and accepted in our pleasure society.
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atribecalledgabi wrote: »So now men AND women are seeing marriage aint all it's cracked up to be...and old reasons for why ppl used to get married ain't cutting it anymore.
I think I've said this before on here but if I haven't...we're in a time where men and women don't necessarily need each other anymore so our struggle is defining why we want to be with each other.
That's interesting af to me.
realest quote.
It sounds simple, but you have to find things personality wise that you like about a person because...
lets be honest. Relationships are BORRRIIIIGGGG... no matter how you spin it. If you, as a guy, look forward to dinner dates with other couples " BORRRIIIIGGGG ". If you like doing seasonal sh*t like apple picking with your girl.. "BORRRIIIIGGGG". Do you know why couples celebrate their anniversary? Because they're surprised they're still together too.
Women also gotta learn to be more exciting also as well as learn how to tell shorter stories. My gosh!
Lets not talk about sex with the same person for life? You know every square inch of this persons body, exactly what is their to get excited about?
I say this to say that, you have to be realistic about your expectations. If you are cool with sitting on the bench outside of the store while your girl is buying Sephora make-up... then own it. Own the misery because you understand that theres no perfect union.
Thats what these women are not doing in the article.
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People are oversexed. Married couples today have probably been ? two or three years before they got married. It's easy to get bored if you've been living like you married long before you actually are.
A lot of people think it's the fairy tale that ruins marriages, its not. What really ruins marriages is selfishness, and a lack of communication and diminished kindness.
There's a lot of studies on this. How you communicate and the little acts of kindness you do for your wife can do wonders for your sex life. Sex for women is mental, she has to feel desired and wanted, but she also has to desire you.
In my experience, bored housewives are just women who feel unappreciated at home. The hubby doesn't pay her any attention and they don't talk unless it's about sex or work.
Lack of communication and eroding closeness gives someone else time to squeeze in.
You gotta sacrifice some ? for her benefit. If you can give the NBA or the NFL 3 consecutive hours of your attention you can give your wife at least one a day. No phone or computer, no sex just chilling and shooting the ? .
I'm not married but the ? sounds simple to me, the social part of it anyway. The economics of marriage is different altogether.
haha u want to be a husband so bad bruh I can see it
but I agree with most of ur postMen don't give the women what they want or need.
There's no human connections.
It's all a lack of deep connection to each other. People don't realize that it doesn't just happen, you have to consistently work on that everyday.
People just don't care to devote time to someone else. Everything is about them. Social media has created this selfish "me, me, me" idea. You have ppl marrying themselves now. Why marry someone when you don't want to work on ? , not even yourself?
I don't get what's hard about being mature
I disagree with that 1st sentence
but everything else u said is spot on
I think the biggest factor is it's harder for this generation because they haven't seen a lot of good examples of what a real relationship looks like
also, the respect factor isn't there for either the man or woman......they just essentially only ? with each other for what they can do for each other
but to be in a relationship that focuses on a real connection, real intimacy.........sex is just a by-product
if u ain't having sex with intimacy involved, u really ain't having satisfying sex.......the rest of these mofos either lying to themselves or they just haven't had the opportunity to truly be intimate with another person
and with a generation being taught to be more shallow than the previous, of course it seems like marriage is harder to make it work out
but at least the people getting married are doing it out of choice vs. out of societal/economic necessity, so at least there is progress I guess -
heres the thing, in this article that I skimmed, it says thay women want to he sexually satisfied.
here is my issue, as a dude, I'm personally never sexually satisfied ? the same girl after a while no matter how good she is.
she could be a true dime, ? a steak up, and ride ? like a porn star, but after ? her multiple times a week for months, im bored and wont be satisfied regardless of how good she is.
If these women from this article feel like I do, then there isnt anything anyone could do.
You really talking about more of a mind thing my ? . It’s supposed to be mind over matter, not flipped around. Even if you smashing every bad ? on the planet you won’t be satisfied. that feeling don’t last forever. soon as the stroke come to an end the fun and satisfaction leave with it. The flesh can’t be satisfied period. Your body will always crave stuff like food, water, sex etc after while. The flip side is that your body and mind can be trained into wanting stuff that it doesn’t really need or that isn’t good for it, which is where “? of the flesh, ? of the eyes, and pride of life” comes in. I don’t believe craving a new sex partner after every time you get bored ( boredom is a mind problem) is a physical need. It’s pride of life ( what make you look good to yourself) that cause people to get hung up on the multiple partners thing. But you can always change yo mind and choose to be content with sexing what you got. -
I never believed in young relationships for these reasons, everybody before like the age of 24 cheats on everybody it's just a given.
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Men don't give the women what they want or need. I've seen many marriages end up being blamed on the man for various reasons. Two of those reasons that are high on the list - sex and communication.
There's no human connections. Everything today is expressed through social media; birthdays, anniversaries, vacations, baby announcements etc. ? seems to have lost its value in the journey for likes, shares and the hope your video or message goes viral. I tell my wife happy birthday w a kiss, hug and some ? I'll do for her. I don't say ? on FB.
Men don't even need women to get pleasure, either. These married men are popping open web browsers and searching up porn fantasies to get off bc wifey ain't doing ? . She's out cheating bc he can't ? or just ain't ? at all.
It's all a lack of deep connection to each other. People don't realize that it doesn't just happen, you have to consistently work on that everyday. Compromise is also something many people don't understand. They're too immature and ? about ? .
I've been w my wife since I was 15. I'm going to be 31 this year. 17 yrs together. 9 yrs married. 6 kids. She works. I stay at home. We have been through open heart surgeries w my 2nd son, which was hell for the first 3 yrs. Then, our 5th son was born and he has allergies, eczema & asthma, and that's a ? load of work, too.
Even through that and typical ? , our sex lives are top notch. Sex every day, every week, every month. We can talk for hours. Humor is on point. We just click. Always have. We are both mature and just don't care to devote our time or energy to ? . Instead of arguing we get angry, don't talk, then talk it out when tempers are cooled. Even then, we hardly ever have any kind of issues with each other. Average argument, fight or being mad at each other is like once a month - if that.
People just don't care to devote time to someone else. Everything is about them. Social media has created this selfish "me, me, me" idea. You have ppl marrying themselves now. Why marry someone when you don't want to work on ? , not even yourself?
I don't get what's hard about being mature and being able to rationally understand and work things out that are necessary in a relationship.
So you dont care if i smash yo wife??? -
You don't care about living anymore?
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I love your post @VIBE..you and your wife got very lucky to find that one so early on in life. Good for y'all.
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Bruh come on. Its ok to be a red pill man. However dont be an extremist and automatically ? on any woman. Like you dont want to be place aside the supreme manly ? that are in some way the cause of Feminazism.
True love is like Rolls Royces imo.
We have to get humble and realise that WE WONT ALL FIND IT.
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it just sound like them chicks wasnt hit to begin with an needed a reason to validate their actions rather than just be a hoe.
but they still hoes....they just think they are justified in acting like one.
? why be with any woman if she aint the better part of you?
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victoria don't know how to keep a secret
like a ? need ?
a ? need ?
sextistics show
that out of every ten hoes
whether married
or in love done cheating befo'
and if they did it once
they'll probably do it again
turn your back
Jerry Springer style
they ? your friend
and that alone enough to make any ? furious
maybe you wasn't hittin right
maybe she's just curious
You dead serious
your girl all giggalish
Cause she know I'm right
somebody slid up in that ?
somebody slid up in that ?
somebody slid up in that ?
https://youtu.be/IRGVAtgtyvw
:smirk:
Its a neverending story yo
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LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY wrote: »
Bruh come on. Its ok to be a red pill man. However dont be an extremist and automatically ? on any woman. Like you dont want to be place aside the supreme manly ? that are in some way the cause of Feminazism.
True love is like Rolls Royces imo.
We have to get humble and realise that WE WONT ALL FIND IT.
True love isn't like a rolls Royce. You can buy a rolls Royce, you can buy ten of them. But many a rich ? found out the hard way you can't buy love -
Some of y'all are selling some new age fallacies. What do people always say? The game doesn't change, only the players.
Ok, women are coming are cheating because they are bored and unsatisfied...
... But what is the constant in this generation? Our new habits are typically not good for us... -
Some of y'all are selling some new age fallacies. What do people always say? The game doesn't change, only the players.
Ok, women are coming are cheating because they are bored and unsatisfied...
... But what is the constant in this generation? Our new habits are typically not good for us...
that ? need to get a playstation then
