REAL LIFE: HONEST QUESTION..CHEATERS!! ARE YA'LL STILL TOGETHER? MALE AND FEMALES...

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  • Westie
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    She's a hoe like all the cheating ? ass niggass in this thread right? Good.
  • CHICAGO_BREED
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    jill wrote: »
    he cheated. I stayed. I only stayed because I had cheated too - he just doesn't know about it. He thinks I stayed for love but nope, I probably cheated way more than he did.

    Well he about to find out now cause ima expose your whorish ways. Happy3.gif
  • OhPee
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    Jill a hoe?

    Prove it.
  • Bussy_Getta
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    Depends. It's not a definite with me.
  • Bussy_Getta
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    A ? left his facebook open and my wife went through my messages and ruined a perfect Saturday night, man im furious at her goin through my ? like that.

    Lmfao ? you ? yourself ? and deal
  • Bussy_Getta
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    Allergins should ? prostitutes and just be in relationships with men
  • Westie
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    I will tell you this though...breaking a woman's trust is like cutting into human flesh. It alters the fabric of your relationship

    She might forgive. Things may go back to normal. But you cut her deep...a tough, non flexible scar builds on top of that spot. She'll harbor resentment and indifference toward you...and I don't know about you, but I'd be very wary of being vulnerable to a woman who somewhere in heart ? despises you and wouldn't spit on you if you were on fire.

    Y'all so full of yourselves. Bet not ? up or you'll damage my trust forever. Scust, had someone tell me "consider how your cold exterior has made her feel"...oh word, consider how little I give a ?
    You should give a ? if a person you're in a relationship with trusts you tho. But if you're talking about someone you're just ? around with you can ? .
  • FourEfil
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    jill wrote: »
    he cheated. I stayed. I only stayed because I had cheated too - he just doesn't know about it. He thinks I stayed for love but nope, I probably cheated way more than he did.

    How old are you?
  • aka_OG
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    Evilchuck wrote: »
    To be honest, if you decide to cheat once, I'll forgive you because people make mistakes and I am a realist. What man will be monogamous with the same woman for 6+ years? Yet, if he is a serial cheater and we have an monogamous relationship, then I would rectify the situation by giving him to options: the first option would consist of going to a sexual and relationship therapist to find out why he is a serial cheater. The second option would consist of opening the relationship to a polygamous relationship or an open relationship ( this option is only available if he is worth fighting for relationship wise, as in he has everything that I need, but this is the only issue that I do not agree with, I am willing to compromise).

    So, for me, my ideas on relationships and sexuality are quite radical, even for this era.

    the open relationship thing makes sense to me until the whole living together part

    Needless to say she forgave him...they are going strong .... I think she stayed cuz she didn't want to deal w the embarrassment and shame of a failed marriage plus homie takes home like 500k a year lol

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    I will tell you this though...breaking a woman's trust is like cutting into human flesh. It alters the fabric of your relationship

    She might forgive. Things may go back to normal. But you cut her deep...a tough, non flexible scar builds on top of that spot. She'll harbor resentment and indifference toward you...and I don't know about you, but I'd be very wary of being vulnerable to a woman who somewhere in heart ? despises you and wouldn't spit on you if you were on fire.

    see this why IF you cheat on your woman and she finds out? end the relationship the same damn time


    at the end of the day t/s either dealing with his wife insecurities that created a situation that doesn't really exist or got caught doing light weight fuccery - you gotta deal with it regardless

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  • Recaptimus_Prime360
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    Pico wrote: »
    Depends. It's not a definite with me.

  • Trollio
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    somebody gotta die
  • Copper
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    Who would cheat on copper?
  • Crude_
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    Copper wrote: »
    Who would cheat on copper?

    Any of your broads that meet Crude.
  • Purr
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    Copper wrote: »
    Who would cheat on copper?

    You fine, funny, and smart. I wouldn't
  • Purr
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    Crude_ wrote: »
    Copper wrote: »
    Who would cheat on copper?

    Any of your broads that meet Crude.

    Mmmm... lol.
  • goldenja
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    it aint cheatin' if you're not married.. its bein' single and not givin' a ? ...
  • Stephen-r
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    its not worth it
    I learnt the hard way and thank ? my wife forgave me other wise I would of lost the most important thing in the world to me my wife
  • jill
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    jill wrote: »
    he cheated. I stayed. I only stayed because I had cheated too - he just doesn't know about it. He thinks I stayed for love but nope, I probably cheated way more than he did.

    Why did you decide to cheat?

    honestly, I was lacking an emotional connection at home and yeah when we have our "off" months like most couples do, I am tempted to step out and look for that connection except now I tell him, hey babe I'm not getting emotionally satisfied - before I wasn't saying ? to him and he wasn't saying this kind of ? to me but now there is a raw, honest communication
  • jill
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    KU Beezy wrote: »
    jill wrote: »
    he cheated. I stayed. I only stayed because I had cheated too - he just doesn't know about it. He thinks I stayed for love but nope, I probably cheated way more than he did.

    Jill, u ain't ?
    Smh

    I didn't say I was. I was merely participating in what I assumed was a "grown" discussion about dumb mistakes and webs we sometimes entangle ourselves in
  • jill
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    @jill bring your hoe ass in here and answer the questions.Inquiring minds wanna know

    forgive me for not answering sooner - I have this thing called a job, sometimes it gets in the way of me hanging out at AllHiphop
  • jill
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    jill wrote: »
    he cheated. I stayed. I only stayed because I had cheated too - he just doesn't know about it. He thinks I stayed for love but nope, I probably cheated way more than he did.

    Well he about to find out now cause ima expose your whorish ways. Happy3.gif

    expose away, expose away...I'm so scared for my life...NOT
  • jill
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    FourEfil wrote: »
    jill wrote: »
    he cheated. I stayed. I only stayed because I had cheated too - he just doesn't know about it. He thinks I stayed for love but nope, I probably cheated way more than he did.

    How old are you?

    old enough to know better now.
  • mryounggun
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    jill wrote: »
    jill wrote: »
    he cheated. I stayed. I only stayed because I had cheated too - he just doesn't know about it. He thinks I stayed for love but nope, I probably cheated way more than he did.

    Why did you decide to cheat?

    honestly, I was lacking an emotional connection at home and yeah when we have our "off" months like most couples do, I am tempted to step out and look for that connection except now I tell him, hey babe I'm not getting emotionally satisfied - before I wasn't saying ? to him and he wasn't saying this kind of ? to me but now there is a raw, honest communication

    Dope ? right here. I be telling my girl that communication is the key to making sure that ? stays the way it's supposed to. She don't get it. She like 35 minutes away from being single. SMH. Obviously, there's more to it than that, but that's a big part of it.
  • Ol Jay's
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    we've been together for a long time, so of course there has been some cheating, nobodys perfect, anyhow neither of us are going anywhere so its whatever
  • s3nterocks
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    Ol Jay's wrote: »
    we've been together for a long time, so of course there has been some cheating, nobodys perfect, anyhow neither of us are going anywhere so its whatever

    how many instances, and both parties? No judgment, I've been with my s/o long enough to know most things fall in the gray area after a while. Just want to know your story if willing to share.