Jill Scott's soul burns to see a white woman....
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sdrawkcabseh wrote: »But I contend, that a grown man does not need to be told when he's wrong and challenged on it. In your relationship, would you rather fight everyday, or would you rather come home to peace?
Again, it's not being abrasive.
If my s/o doesn't like something I do, I want her to call me on it. We're all human, and bound to mess up and do stupid ? .
If I do something she doesn't like, she shouldn't bite her tongue. I'm surely not going to bite mine if she does something that I don't like. -
just pay close attention to the ppl in ur neighborhood
the guys who dont have their own place and is using women just to have somewhere to live,collects bottles = prolly wasnt ? when he was younger
the ladies who are grown as hell still complaining about what a man shud be doing for her = prolly was lazy as hell in high school and spent all of her energy looking cute so ? will give her everything that she wants, and now that her beauty is diminishing has nothing to offer
hahahahahahahahahaha
oooooooooooooo i can not WAIT till i get older -
Madam Speaker wrote: »Your obv. saying ya kind isnt good enough to have and raise children with.
and what exactly makes you sure that every black person that's had a child with a non-black person inherently thinks their own kind isn't good enough...what evidence do you have to support such a claim? -
digitalgrl87 wrote: »^
wow.....and white women don't want a successful man....honestly the only time I see a white woman with a black man, is if the woman isn't all that attractive or the man obviously has money.....no one wants a mate who doesn't have goals period.....and not every black woman wants a thuggish baller either. black people need to stop perpetuating the negative stereotypes the media force feeds us.....
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you can't say that's how it is because there's too many different cultures of both blacks and whites that would refute what you're trying to say...normally generalizations can work but this one just can't...there's too many outlying factors that can determine what you're trying to say...your brother found, Im assuming, a white American woman...do you think that's the same as approaching a white woman in say France, Australia, Cuba, Germany, etc...are white woman all across the globe easier to approach than black women across the globe...
You're making this into specifics, and it isn't even that serious. This is a broad topic in general.
And the girl my brother married is actually Hungarian. And no, she's not the type to be strong-willed, independent, and outspoken.
I'm more than certain that if you take the average white woman compared to the average black woman, the black woman will be A LOT more inclined to speak her mind. It's just their nature. There are exceptions to this, of course. But that's not the point. -
let me ask everyone in this thread something
do ya think such topics as
black on black crime
interracial dating
goodgurls wanting bad boys and so on
will ever be resolved to where EACH INDIVIDUAL can get their own ? together and live a
happy stress free life
or will all of this ? like continue for generations to come
me personally i dont think most people will get it together
i tip my hat to those who find hapiness and live their lives stress free -
QB - 2nd Edition wrote: »what does that have to do with love though. what does this have to do with finding a partner
that will just love you minus all of the drama and what not.
i mean african americans have the highest divorce rates correct?
i mean im pretty sure its not all the black women's fault
but at least the black man is doing SOMETHING about unhappy relationships
has nothing so much to do with "love" but understanding...connections....and I'll say it's deeper than love
Cause you can love someone and still not connection or relate with their stuggles
trust....a white woman can never understand what's it like to be black in America like a black woman and share this with her man
sure as pointed out they can: "empathize"
But these motherfuckas ain't make ? easy on us.....and no other woman can understand exactly what I mean by that other a black woman
for good or bad it's a unique common bond between black man & woman that mere words and text can never truly articulate. -
sdrawkcabseh wrote: »Yeah, there are problems with women of other races as well. But as the saying goes, when America has a cold, black America has the flu. Black women seem to take negative qualities and elevate it to an unforseen plateau.........
damn this ? put it in perspective -
All Im saying is this......I will happily wife up a black woman if she has the qualities I am looking for. All of them. I have no problem finding these in *other* women but, I feel as dudes with they ? together are expected to settle just so he can be loyal.
I need a chick thats:
Degree'd Up....Bachelors, maybe a Masters
No Debt
Beautiful / Sexy / Attractive / Healthy Body
NO KIDS!!!!!!!!
Own House / Apt
Own Car
Intelligent
Wants something more in life than to go to Plies next concert
Isn't No Ghetto ass bird ? but...isnt Arrogant either
Isn't a Gold Digger / Got her own
Knows when to shut the ? up
Can make a mean peanut butter & jelly sandwich lol
Hasnt been gutted / smashed / ? by half of the Bos-Wash Corridor / Eastern Seaboard
That isnt too much to ask....seeing as I qualify for EVERY SINGLE ONE MYSELF. Find me a girl like that & I'll happily wife the broad up. -
people are just fucckin stupid
its THIS SIMPLE
if something isnt working then its not the answer
2+2 will always equal 4
those who complain about the same situations
is just trying to change that instead of either going with the flow
or finding a better situation -
Punisher__ wrote: »You're making this into specifics, and it isn't even that serious. This is a broad topic in general.
And the girl my brother married is actually Hungarian. And no, she's not the type to be strong-willed, independent, and outspoken.
I'm more than certain that if you take the average white woman compared to the average black woman, the black woman will be A LOT more inclined to speak her mind. It's just their nature. There are exceptions to this, of course. But that's not the point.
Your brother is a smart man. He married foreign. Less chances of her becoming "Americanized" and feminist..................... -
Punisher__ wrote: »You're making this into specifics, and it isn't even that serious. This is a broad topic in general.
And the girl my brother married is actually Hungarian. And no, she's not the type to be strong-willed, independent, and outspoken.
I'm more than certain that if you take the average white woman compared to the average black woman, the black woman will be A LOT more inclined to speak her mind. It's just their nature. There are exceptions to this, of course. But that's not the point.
when it comes to people's relationships it is an specific thing because attraction is different for each person...and the point is that for some reason you think black women are somehow genetically designed to speak their minds more and are somehow inherently stronger than white women which is just silly IMO...that's an individual thing, but that one thought is seemingly guiding your reasoning on this subject -
it will go on for generations to come
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has nothing so much to do with "love" but understanding...connections....and I'll say it's deeper than love
Cause you can love someone and still not connectionor relate with their stugglers
trust....a white woman can never truly understand what's it like to be black in America like a black woman and share this with her man
sure as pointed out they can: "empathize"
But these motherfuckas ain't make ? easy on us.....and no other woman can understand exactly what I mean by that other a black woman
for good or bad it's a unique common bond between black man & woman that mere words and text can never truly articulate.
i can agree with you about the whole love connection sypathizing thing
but that whole white ppl aint make it easy for us ? aint flying
yea white people are racist and ? us over, but so are we
and not all white people are like that. and i dont think that's a reason
to stay with a sista or anybody who dont respect you -
when it comes to people's relationships it is an specific thing because attraction is different for each person...and the point is that for some reason you think black women are somehow genetically designed to speak their minds more and are somehow inherently stronger than white women which is just silly IMO...that's an individual thing, but that one thought is seemingly guiding your reasoning on this subject
In general. I'm not saying "all" black women are like this.
There are exceptions to every rule, and this one is no different. It still doesn't make the observation any less valid, either way. -
has nothing so much to do with "love" but understanding...connections....and I'll say it's deeper than love
Cause you can love someone and still not connectionor relate with their stugglers
trust....a white woman can never truly understand what's it like to be black in America like a black woman and share this with her man
sure as pointed out they can: "empathize"
But these motherfuckas ain't make ? easy on us.....and no other woman can understand exactly what I mean by that other a black woman
for good or bad it's a unique common bond between black man & woman that mere words and text can never truly articulate.
lol since when are connections only skin deep? and no a white woman cant relate to what it is to be a black man, but a black woman cant either
if you really want someone who can empathize with ALL of your circumstances then you would have to date another black man
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QB - 2nd Edition wrote: »people are just fucckin stupid
its THIS SIMPLE
if something isnt working then its not the answer
2+2 will always equal 4
those who complain about the same situations
is just trying to change that instead of either going with the flow
or finding a better situation
And that, my friend, is why many successful, goal driven men are traveling elsewhere to find a wife. too many AmeriKKKan women try to make "2+3=4"........................... -
All Im saying is this......I will happily wife up a black woman if she has the qualities I am looking for. All of them. I have no problem finding these in *other* women but, I feel as dudes with they ? together are expected to settle just so he can be loyal.
I need a chick thats:
Degree'd Up....Bachelors, maybe a Masters
No Debt
Beautiful / Sexy / Attractive / Healthy Body
NO KIDS!!!!!!!!
Own House / Apt
Own Car
Intelligent
Wants something more in life than to go to Plies next concert
Isn't No Ghetto ass bird ? but...isnt Arrogant either
Isn't a Gold Digger / Got her own
Knows when to shut the ? up
Can make a mean peanut butter & jelly sandwich lol
Hasnt been gutted / smashed / ? by half of the Bos-Wash Corridor / Eastern Seaboard
That isnt too much to ask....seeing as I qualify for EVERY SINGLE ONE MYSELF. Find me a girl like that & I'll happily wife the broad up.
That would be like finding a needle in a haystack with ANY race of woman -
Punisher__ wrote: »In general. I'm not saying "all" black women are like this.
There are exceptions to every rule, and this one is no different.
You can't generalize something like this though because again, there's too many outlying factors...you're discounting personal experiences and culture which are also 2 of the biggest factors in determining attractiveness for a group of people...there's too many groups of black people on this planet for you to make this generalization...not all groups of black people are the same... -
Tha Killer wrote: »I just knew you'd have something to say on the subject......
Haha.
No Di......ss?
But of course... -
sdrawkcabseh wrote: »And that, my friend, is why many successful, goal driven men are traveling elsewhere to find a wife. too many AmeriKKKan women try to make "2+3=4"...........................
what do you mean by submit? -
has nothing so much to do with "love" but understanding...connections....and I'll say it's deeper than love
Cause you can love someone and still not connection or relate with their stuggles
trust....a white woman can never understand what's it like to be black in America like a black woman and share this with her man
sure as pointed out they can: "empathize"
But these motherfuckas ain't make ? easy on us.....and no other woman can understand exactly what I mean by that other a black woman
for good or bad it's a unique common bond between black man & woman that mere words and text can never truly articulate.
powerful post.... -
takesithard1 wrote: »That would be like finding a needle in a haystack with ANY race of woman
Not too hard. You've just got to know where to go, and what language to speak................... -
You can't generalize something like this though because again, there's too many outlying factors...you're discounting personal experiences and culture which are also 2 of the biggest factors in determining attractiveness for a group of people...there's too many groups of black people on this planet for you to make this generalization...not all groups of black people are the same...
I think we're agreeing with each other, superficially. -
In her essay she talks about whites discrimination against black s yet her essay is discriminatory. in itself. Notice how she stressed "successful" black man. Its ok if an average blue collar black man dates or marries a white woman. But if he's successful " it bites". I love Jil Scotts music. I even think she's an attractive sista. But she should keep her opinions to herself.
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