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  • S2J
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    Sion wrote: »
    Leaving responsibility in her hands ? Doubt it'll work.

    Always felt women needed the guidance and for a man to take charge.

    You could always tell her to call you at a particular time ..that way you ? two birds with one stone A. If she hits you at that point you know she's ? with you and B.you now know that she can follow direction/instruction

    Yall nggas need to make up your mind...are you playin it cool or do you wanna be a alpha male. How you gon delegate leadership Lol 'You call me at 5pm and i mean it!'

    What basic bytches yall talkin to that got the time for phone appointments lllls
  • King Erauno
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    lmao yall still in here politicking about how to talk to females?
  • S2J
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    lmao yall still in here politicking about how to talk to females?

    Its fun. Im weak over here. Nggas wellin like ? hahaha

    *? voice* 'Yea i just tell my hoes, Aye Girl! You call me at 4pm, now!

    @MR.FORTE
    @JDSTAYWITIT

    ya lyin boi! hahaha
  • Mr.Forte
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    S2J wrote: »
    lmao yall still in here politicking about how to talk to females?

    Its fun. Im weak over here. Nggas wellin like ? hahaha

    *? voice* 'Yea i just tell my hoes, Aye Girl! You call me at 4pm, now!

    @MR.FORTE
    @JDSTAYWITIT

    ya lyin boi! hahaha

    I'll give you props for actually saying my name, but for that only.
  • MR.CJ
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    Just tell her you want to EBRC
  • JDSTAYWITIT
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    S2J wrote: »
    Sion wrote: »
    Leaving responsibility in her hands ? Doubt it'll work.

    Always felt women needed the guidance and for a man to take charge.

    You could always tell her to call you at a particular time ..that way you ? two birds with one stone A. If she hits you at that point you know she's ? with you and B.you now know that she can follow direction/instruction

    Yall nggas need to make up your mind...are you playin it cool or do you wanna be a alpha male. How you gon delegate leadership Lol 'You call me at 5pm and i mean it!'

    What basic bytches yall talkin to that got the time for phone appointments lllls

    How is that delegating leadership when your the one givin the instruction bro bro? What kinda ? can't carve out 5 mins of her time to call a dude she supposedly "feelin" is a better question ...like I said if a chick can't follow a simple ass hey I'm free at 5 hit me up tmmrw direction coo ... I guess that's asking for too much outta these females for ? *shrugs* I'd figure y'all ? would see how direct and to the point that was to a chick ...hardly wishy washy
  • edwardnigma
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    When a woman.likes you and you tell her what time to call you, they so ducking serious they will call you at that time til y'all die


    maan all my exs had a certain time they hit me up at to the point I'd think something was up if they ain't call me at their little. designated time.
  • JDSTAYWITIT
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    When a woman.likes you and you tell her what time to call you, they so ducking serious they will call you at that time til y'all die


    maan all my exs had a certain time they hit me up at to the point I'd think something was up if they ain't call me at their little. designated time.

    Seems simple enough to my man right here... *shrugs*


  • Shizlansky
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    I get numbers


    I never give mine out
  • Tommy_Milfhitta
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    In hindsight, I should've made this a "poll thread" to see which method works better statistically...
  • S2J
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    S2J wrote: »
    Sion wrote: »
    Leaving responsibility in her hands ? Doubt it'll work.

    Always felt women needed the guidance and for a man to take charge.

    You could always tell her to call you at a particular time ..that way you ? two birds with one stone A. If she hits you at that point you know she's ? with you and B.you now know that she can follow direction/instruction

    Yall nggas need to make up your mind...are you playin it cool or do you wanna be a alpha male. How you gon delegate leadership Lol 'You call me at 5pm and i mean it!'

    What basic bytches yall talkin to that got the time for phone appointments lllls

    How is that delegating leadership when your the one givin the instruction bro bro? What kinda ? can't carve out 5 mins of her time to call a dude she supposedly "feelin" is a better question ...like I said if a chick can't follow a simple ass hey I'm free at 5 hit me up tmmrw direction coo ... I guess that's asking for too much outta these females for ? *shrugs* I'd figure y'all ? would see how direct and to the point that was to a chick ...hardly wishy washy

    Theres only 1 way to take charge, so by tellin her to call you, u relinquishing that a lil...then u askin for it back by seein if she follow instructions. ??

    Everything u sayin would make sense if men and women were equals, but we're not. Women r not built to hunt. I.e. I used to b on POF. Lol Anybody who's been there will tell u, under 'first date', id say 80% of women say 'let the man choose'. And thats how it should be imo

  • JDSTAYWITIT
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    S2J wrote: »
    S2J wrote: »
    Sion wrote: »
    Leaving responsibility in her hands ? Doubt it'll work.

    Always felt women needed the guidance and for a man to take charge.

    You could always tell her to call you at a particular time ..that way you ? two birds with one stone A. If she hits you at that point you know she's ? with you and B.you now know that she can follow direction/instruction

    Yall nggas need to make up your mind...are you playin it cool or do you wanna be a alpha male. How you gon delegate leadership Lol 'You call me at 5pm and i mean it!'

    What basic bytches yall talkin to that got the time for phone appointments lllls

    How is that delegating leadership when your the one givin the instruction bro bro? What kinda ? can't carve out 5 mins of her time to call a dude she supposedly "feelin" is a better question ...like I said if a chick can't follow a simple ass hey I'm free at 5 hit me up tmmrw direction coo ... I guess that's asking for too much outta these females for ? *shrugs* I'd figure y'all ? would see how direct and to the point that was to a chick ...hardly wishy washy

    Theres only 1 way to take charge, so by tellin her to call you, u relinquishing that a lil...then u askin for it back by seein if she follow instructions. ??

    Everything u sayin would make sense if men and women were equals, but we're not. Women r not built to hunt. I.e. I used to b on POF. Lol Anybody who's been there will tell u, under 'first date', id say 80% of women say 'let the man choose'. And thats how it should be imo

    Not really bro ... The fact of the matter is you can't "take" the ? ... So already there's only but so much you can control as a man when it comes to initiating intimacy between the two sexes you digg? But you definately can do certain things that will have a female in a state where she shows you that shes more readily willing to "offer" the ? to you..In every situation the female has to choooooooose you.. So when you put the onus on her to make first phone contact your essentially expediting that choosing procees and eliminating some wasted time ..that's all it is ...lets keep it funky right .. Most females that are worth a damn gone have a couple options if she out here single ..you don't want to be lumped up with the 3 other ? hittin her up talking bout "hey what chu doin girl" you want your game your approach to stand out ..and you also want to let her know your time is valuable you can't just get me whenever you want especially if we just first meeting.. Nah you can't just get my time like that ...and conversely I damn sure ain't got time to be chasing her down either ...so what we gone do is ima give you my number and you gone call me at ________ and when she does you know it's own and poppin because at that point now it's out there that the interest is mutual ...it weeds out the ?


    And like I said its not about her being a hunter ...she has your number because YOU initiated conversation YOU initiated the idea of further conversation and its YOU that she's taking instruction from when she hits you... That sounds like a ? in total control to me


    But this is best used in person ..females can't really feel your vibe over the Internet .. She needs to see what your mouthpiece is about directly
  • Mr.Forte
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    S2J wrote: »
    S2J wrote: »
    Sion wrote: »
    Leaving responsibility in her hands ? Doubt it'll work.

    Always felt women needed the guidance and for a man to take charge.

    You could always tell her to call you at a particular time ..that way you ? two birds with one stone A. If she hits you at that point you know she's ? with you and B.you now know that she can follow direction/instruction

    Yall nggas need to make up your mind...are you playin it cool or do you wanna be a alpha male. How you gon delegate leadership Lol 'You call me at 5pm and i mean it!'

    What basic bytches yall talkin to that got the time for phone appointments lllls

    How is that delegating leadership when your the one givin the instruction bro bro? What kinda ? can't carve out 5 mins of her time to call a dude she supposedly "feelin" is a better question ...like I said if a chick can't follow a simple ass hey I'm free at 5 hit me up tmmrw direction coo ... I guess that's asking for too much outta these females for ? *shrugs* I'd figure y'all ? would see how direct and to the point that was to a chick ...hardly wishy washy

    Theres only 1 way to take charge, so by tellin her to call you, u relinquishing that a lil...then u askin for it back by seein if she follow instructions. ??

    Everything u sayin would make sense if men and women were equals, but we're not. Women r not built to hunt. I.e. I used to b on POF. Lol Anybody who's been there will tell u, under 'first date', id say 80% of women say 'let the man choose'. And thats how it should be imo

    Not really bro ... The fact of the matter is you can't "take" the ? ... So already there's only but so much you can control as a man when it comes to initiating intimacy between the two sexes you digg? But you definately can do certain things that will have a female in a state where she shows you that shes more readily willing to "offer" the ? to you..In every situation the female has to choooooooose you.. So when you put the onus on her to make first phone contact your essentially expediting that choosing procees and eliminating some wasted time ..that's all it is ...lets keep it funky right .. Most females that are worth a damn gone have a couple options if she out here single ..you don't want to be lumped up with the 3 other ? hittin her up talking bout "hey what chu doin girl" you want your game your approach to stand out ..and you also want to let her know your time is valuable you can't just get me whenever you want especially if we just first meeting.. Nah you can't just get my time like that ...and conversely I damn sure ain't got time to be chasing her down either ...so what we gone do is ima give you my number and you gone call me at ________ and when she does you know it's own and poppin because at that point now it's out there that the interest is mutual ...it weeds out the ?


    And like I said its not about her being a hunter ...she has your number because YOU initiated conversation YOU initiated the idea of further conversation and its YOU that she's taking instruction from when she hits you... That sounds like a ? in total control to me


    But this is best used in person ..females can't really feel your vibe over the Internet .. She needs to see what your mouthpiece is about directly

    You didn't have to ether him like that bruh, lol
  • JDSTAYWITIT
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    Mr.Forte wrote: »
    S2J wrote: »
    S2J wrote: »
    Sion wrote: »
    Leaving responsibility in her hands ? Doubt it'll work.

    Always felt women needed the guidance and for a man to take charge.

    You could always tell her to call you at a particular time ..that way you ? two birds with one stone A. If she hits you at that point you know she's ? with you and B.you now know that she can follow direction/instruction

    Yall nggas need to make up your mind...are you playin it cool or do you wanna be a alpha male. How you gon delegate leadership Lol 'You call me at 5pm and i mean it!'

    What basic bytches yall talkin to that got the time for phone appointments lllls

    How is that delegating leadership when your the one givin the instruction bro bro? What kinda ? can't carve out 5 mins of her time to call a dude she supposedly "feelin" is a better question ...like I said if a chick can't follow a simple ass hey I'm free at 5 hit me up tmmrw direction coo ... I guess that's asking for too much outta these females for ? *shrugs* I'd figure y'all ? would see how direct and to the point that was to a chick ...hardly wishy washy

    Theres only 1 way to take charge, so by tellin her to call you, u relinquishing that a lil...then u askin for it back by seein if she follow instructions. ??

    Everything u sayin would make sense if men and women were equals, but we're not. Women r not built to hunt. I.e. I used to b on POF. Lol Anybody who's been there will tell u, under 'first date', id say 80% of women say 'let the man choose'. And thats how it should be imo

    Not really bro ... The fact of the matter is you can't "take" the ? ... So already there's only but so much you can control as a man when it comes to initiating intimacy between the two sexes you digg? But you definately can do certain things that will have a female in a state where she shows you that shes more readily willing to "offer" the ? to you..In every situation the female has to choooooooose you.. So when you put the onus on her to make first phone contact your essentially expediting that choosing procees and eliminating some wasted time ..that's all it is ...lets keep it funky right .. Most females that are worth a damn gone have a couple options if she out here single ..you don't want to be lumped up with the 3 other ? hittin her up talking bout "hey what chu doin girl" you want your game your approach to stand out ..and you also want to let her know your time is valuable you can't just get me whenever you want especially if we just first meeting.. Nah you can't just get my time like that ...and conversely I damn sure ain't got time to be chasing her down either ...so what we gone do is ima give you my number and you gone call me at ________ and when she does you know it's own and poppin because at that point now it's out there that the interest is mutual ...it weeds out the ?


    And like I said its not about her being a hunter ...she has your number because YOU initiated conversation YOU initiated the idea of further conversation and its YOU that she's taking instruction from when she hits you... That sounds like a ? in total control to me


    But this is best used in person ..females can't really feel your vibe over the Internet .. She needs to see what your mouthpiece is about directly

    You didn't have to ether him like that bruh, lol

    Lol nah ... We just chopping up game ... Every ? got different tactics ..I'm just at a point tho where I ain't got time to be playing all these cat and mouse games with no female ..it's like hey ..this is me and if you ? wit it.. Coo ...oh you not?? That's Coo too babe .. Just like that
  • xxCivicxx
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    S2J wrote: »
    S2J wrote: »
    Sion wrote: »
    Leaving responsibility in her hands ? Doubt it'll work.

    Always felt women needed the guidance and for a man to take charge.

    You could always tell her to call you at a particular time ..that way you ? two birds with one stone A. If she hits you at that point you know she's ? with you and B.you now know that she can follow direction/instruction

    Yall nggas need to make up your mind...are you playin it cool or do you wanna be a alpha male. How you gon delegate leadership Lol 'You call me at 5pm and i mean it!'

    What basic bytches yall talkin to that got the time for phone appointments lllls

    How is that delegating leadership when your the one givin the instruction bro bro? What kinda ? can't carve out 5 mins of her time to call a dude she supposedly "feelin" is a better question ...like I said if a chick can't follow a simple ass hey I'm free at 5 hit me up tmmrw direction coo ... I guess that's asking for too much outta these females for ? *shrugs* I'd figure y'all ? would see how direct and to the point that was to a chick ...hardly wishy washy

    Theres only 1 way to take charge, so by tellin her to call you, u relinquishing that a lil...then u askin for it back by seein if she follow instructions. ??

    Everything u sayin would make sense if men and women were equals, but we're not. Women r not built to hunt. I.e. I used to b on POF. Lol Anybody who's been there will tell u, under 'first date', id say 80% of women say 'let the man choose'. And thats how it should be imo

    Not really bro ... The fact of the matter is you can't "take" the ? ... So already there's only but so much you can control as a man when it comes to initiating intimacy between the two sexes you digg? But you definately can do certain things that will have a female in a state where she shows you that shes more readily willing to "offer" the ? to you..In every situation the female has to choooooooose you.. So when you put the onus on her to make first phone contact your essentially expediting that choosing procees and eliminating some wasted time ..that's all it is ...lets keep it funky right .. Most females that are worth a damn gone have a couple options if she out here single ..you don't want to be lumped up with the 3 other ? hittin her up talking bout "hey what chu doin girl" you want your game your approach to stand out ..and you also want to let her know your time is valuable you can't just get me whenever you want especially if we just first meeting.. Nah you can't just get my time like that ...and conversely I damn sure ain't got time to be chasing her down either ...so what we gone do is ima give you my number and you gone call me at ________ and when she does you know it's own and poppin because at that point now it's out there that the interest is mutual ...it weeds out the ?


    And like I said its not about her being a hunter ...she has your number because YOU initiated conversation YOU initiated the idea of further conversation and its YOU that she's taking instruction from when she hits you... That sounds like a ? in total control to me


    But this is best used in person ..females can't really feel your vibe over the Internet .. She needs to see what your mouthpiece is about directly

    I've never used the internet to try and pick up girls I speak from 100% real life experience. I rarely if ever see this working in real life. The approach seems "romantic comedy"eque to me but that's just my opinion. A lot of females feel awkward having to be the first one to initiate contact.

    Can you give me an honest example of when this has worked for you in real life? Most of the chicks I mess with are in the 19-26 year old range so maybe that's where the discrepancy is
  • S2J
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    ^^^I hear you, but we just gon havr to agree to disagree.

    The only way i agree w/ that tactic is if you're trying to find 'the one'. In that case you can afford to lose out on miscellaneous ? lol

    But if you're casually dating trying to meet women, its just like sales, no matter how much a woman is feeling u u must apply game.

    Women by nature want/need to be persuaded to do some ? they wanna do anyway.
  • Brian B.
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    xxCivicxx wrote: »
    S2J wrote: »
    S2J wrote: »
    Sion wrote: »
    Leaving responsibility in her hands ? Doubt it'll work.

    Always felt women needed the guidance and for a man to take charge.

    You could always tell her to call you at a particular time ..that way you ? two birds with one stone A. If she hits you at that point you know she's ? with you and B.you now know that she can follow direction/instruction

    Yall nggas need to make up your mind...are you playin it cool or do you wanna be a alpha male. How you gon delegate leadership Lol 'You call me at 5pm and i mean it!'

    What basic bytches yall talkin to that got the time for phone appointments lllls

    How is that delegating leadership when your the one givin the instruction bro bro? What kinda ? can't carve out 5 mins of her time to call a dude she supposedly "feelin" is a better question ...like I said if a chick can't follow a simple ass hey I'm free at 5 hit me up tmmrw direction coo ... I guess that's asking for too much outta these females for ? *shrugs* I'd figure y'all ? would see how direct and to the point that was to a chick ...hardly wishy washy

    Theres only 1 way to take charge, so by tellin her to call you, u relinquishing that a lil...then u askin for it back by seein if she follow instructions. ??

    Everything u sayin would make sense if men and women were equals, but we're not. Women r not built to hunt. I.e. I used to b on POF. Lol Anybody who's been there will tell u, under 'first date', id say 80% of women say 'let the man choose'. And thats how it should be imo

    Not really bro ... The fact of the matter is you can't "take" the ? ... So already there's only but so much you can control as a man when it comes to initiating intimacy between the two sexes you digg? But you definately can do certain things that will have a female in a state where she shows you that shes more readily willing to "offer" the ? to you..In every situation the female has to choooooooose you.. So when you put the onus on her to make first phone contact your essentially expediting that choosing procees and eliminating some wasted time ..that's all it is ...lets keep it funky right .. Most females that are worth a damn gone have a couple options if she out here single ..you don't want to be lumped up with the 3 other ? hittin her up talking bout "hey what chu doin girl" you want your game your approach to stand out ..and you also want to let her know your time is valuable you can't just get me whenever you want especially if we just first meeting.. Nah you can't just get my time like that ...and conversely I damn sure ain't got time to be chasing her down either ...so what we gone do is ima give you my number and you gone call me at ________ and when she does you know it's own and poppin because at that point now it's out there that the interest is mutual ...it weeds out the ?


    And like I said its not about her being a hunter ...she has your number because YOU initiated conversation YOU initiated the idea of further conversation and its YOU that she's taking instruction from when she hits you... That sounds like a ? in total control to me


    But this is best used in person ..females can't really feel your vibe over the Internet .. She needs to see what your mouthpiece is about directly

    I've never used the internet to try and pick up girls I speak from 100% real life experience. I rarely if ever see this working in real life. The approach seems "romantic comedy"eque to me but that's just my opinion. A lot of females feel awkward having to be the first one to initiate contact.

    Can you give me an honest example of when this has worked for you in real life? Most of the chicks I mess with are in the 19-26 year old range so maybe that's where the discrepancy is



    but they're not


    you approach them first, show interest, then give them your # so they can choose


    & think about this, most fairly attractive females gettin approached by dudes are usually asked for their #.. so when you give them yours instead that right there can set you apart
  • S2J
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    Brian B. wrote: »
    xxCivicxx wrote: »
    S2J wrote: »
    S2J wrote: »
    Sion wrote: »
    Leaving responsibility in her hands ? Doubt it'll work.

    Always felt women needed the guidance and for a man to take charge.

    You could always tell her to call you at a particular time ..that way you ? two birds with one stone A. If she hits you at that point you know she's ? with you and B.you now know that she can follow direction/instruction

    Yall nggas need to make up your mind...are you playin it cool or do you wanna be a alpha male. How you gon delegate leadership Lol 'You call me at 5pm and i mean it!'

    What basic bytches yall talkin to that got the time for phone appointments lllls

    How is that delegating leadership when your the one givin the instruction bro bro? What kinda ? can't carve out 5 mins of her time to call a dude she supposedly "feelin" is a better question ...like I said if a chick can't follow a simple ass hey I'm free at 5 hit me up tmmrw direction coo ... I guess that's asking for too much outta these females for ? *shrugs* I'd figure y'all ? would see how direct and to the point that was to a chick ...hardly wishy washy

    Theres only 1 way to take charge, so by tellin her to call you, u relinquishing that a lil...then u askin for it back by seein if she follow instructions. ??

    Everything u sayin would make sense if men and women were equals, but we're not. Women r not built to hunt. I.e. I used to b on POF. Lol Anybody who's been there will tell u, under 'first date', id say 80% of women say 'let the man choose'. And thats how it should be imo

    Not really bro ... The fact of the matter is you can't "take" the ? ... So already there's only but so much you can control as a man when it comes to initiating intimacy between the two sexes you digg? But you definately can do certain things that will have a female in a state where she shows you that shes more readily willing to "offer" the ? to you..In every situation the female has to choooooooose you.. So when you put the onus on her to make first phone contact your essentially expediting that choosing procees and eliminating some wasted time ..that's all it is ...lets keep it funky right .. Most females that are worth a damn gone have a couple options if she out here single ..you don't want to be lumped up with the 3 other ? hittin her up talking bout "hey what chu doin girl" you want your game your approach to stand out ..and you also want to let her know your time is valuable you can't just get me whenever you want especially if we just first meeting.. Nah you can't just get my time like that ...and conversely I damn sure ain't got time to be chasing her down either ...so what we gone do is ima give you my number and you gone call me at ________ and when she does you know it's own and poppin because at that point now it's out there that the interest is mutual ...it weeds out the ?


    And like I said its not about her being a hunter ...she has your number because YOU initiated conversation YOU initiated the idea of further conversation and its YOU that she's taking instruction from when she hits you... That sounds like a ? in total control to me


    But this is best used in person ..females can't really feel your vibe over the Internet .. She needs to see what your mouthpiece is about directly

    I've never used the internet to try and pick up girls I speak from 100% real life experience. I rarely if ever see this working in real life. The approach seems "romantic comedy"eque to me but that's just my opinion. A lot of females feel awkward having to be the first one to initiate contact.

    Can you give me an honest example of when this has worked for you in real life? Most of the chicks I mess with are in the 19-26 year old range so maybe that's where the discrepancy is



    but they're not


    you approach them first, show interest, then give them your # so they can choose


    & think about this, most fairly attractive females gettin approached by dudes are usually asked for their #.. so when you give them yours instead that right there can set you apart

    1)Most fairly attractive women know how to avoid those nggas. #1 tactic being getting his number instead of giving hers

    2) Most fairly attractive women have other nggas on the roster. She doesnt 'need' you. If she never calls u her life would go on as planned. The onus is on YOU to sell yourself into the draws. If u don5 have the time to do that, another ngga does. Like me (when single)

    Thats all with a 'catch' of a woman. No diss, but im startin g to think yall talkin bout pullin basic broads lol
  • JDSTAYWITIT
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    S2J wrote: »
    Brian B. wrote: »
    xxCivicxx wrote: »
    S2J wrote: »
    S2J wrote: »
    Sion wrote: »
    Leaving responsibility in her hands ? Doubt it'll work.

    Always felt women needed the guidance and for a man to take charge.

    You could always tell her to call you at a particular time ..that way you ? two birds with one stone A. If she hits you at that point you know she's ? with you and B.you now know that she can follow direction/instruction

    Yall nggas need to make up your mind...are you playin it cool or do you wanna be a alpha male. How you gon delegate leadership Lol 'You call me at 5pm and i mean it!'

    What basic bytches yall talkin to that got the time for phone appointments lllls

    How is that delegating leadership when your the one givin the instruction bro bro? What kinda ? can't carve out 5 mins of her time to call a dude she supposedly "feelin" is a better question ...like I said if a chick can't follow a simple ass hey I'm free at 5 hit me up tmmrw direction coo ... I guess that's asking for too much outta these females for ? *shrugs* I'd figure y'all ? would see how direct and to the point that was to a chick ...hardly wishy washy

    Theres only 1 way to take charge, so by tellin her to call you, u relinquishing that a lil...then u askin for it back by seein if she follow instructions. ??

    Everything u sayin would make sense if men and women were equals, but we're not. Women r not built to hunt. I.e. I used to b on POF. Lol Anybody who's been there will tell u, under 'first date', id say 80% of women say 'let the man choose'. And thats how it should be imo

    Not really bro ... The fact of the matter is you can't "take" the ? ... So already there's only but so much you can control as a man when it comes to initiating intimacy between the two sexes you digg? But you definately can do certain things that will have a female in a state where she shows you that shes more readily willing to "offer" the ? to you..In every situation the female has to choooooooose you.. So when you put the onus on her to make first phone contact your essentially expediting that choosing procees and eliminating some wasted time ..that's all it is ...lets keep it funky right .. Most females that are worth a damn gone have a couple options if she out here single ..you don't want to be lumped up with the 3 other ? hittin her up talking bout "hey what chu doin girl" you want your game your approach to stand out ..and you also want to let her know your time is valuable you can't just get me whenever you want especially if we just first meeting.. Nah you can't just get my time like that ...and conversely I damn sure ain't got time to be chasing her down either ...so what we gone do is ima give you my number and you gone call me at ________ and when she does you know it's own and poppin because at that point now it's out there that the interest is mutual ...it weeds out the ?


    And like I said its not about her being a hunter ...she has your number because YOU initiated conversation YOU initiated the idea of further conversation and its YOU that she's taking instruction from when she hits you... That sounds like a ? in total control to me


    But this is best used in person ..females can't really feel your vibe over the Internet .. She needs to see what your mouthpiece is about directly

    I've never used the internet to try and pick up girls I speak from 100% real life experience. I rarely if ever see this working in real life. The approach seems "romantic comedy"eque to me but that's just my opinion. A lot of females feel awkward having to be the first one to initiate contact.

    Can you give me an honest example of when this has worked for you in real life? Most of the chicks I mess with are in the 19-26 year old range so maybe that's where the discrepancy is



    but they're not


    you approach them first, show interest, then give them your # so they can choose


    & think about this, most fairly attractive females gettin approached by dudes are usually asked for their #.. so when you give them yours instead that right there can set you apart

    1)Most fairly attractive women know how to avoid those nggas. #1 tactic being getting his number instead of giving hers

    2) Most fairly attractive women have other nggas on the roster. She doesnt 'need' you. If she never calls u her life would go on as planned. The onus is on YOU to sell yourself into the draws. If u don5 have the time to do that, another ngga does. Like me (when single)

    Thats all with a 'catch' of a woman. No diss, but im startin g to think yall talkin bout pullin basic broads lol

    What are you doing when you meet the chick? You sale yourself in person it's kinda backwards to me if your needing to sake yourself over a phone ... What can happen over a phone call that wouldnt be exponentially highlighted during your first interaction with her in person?


    Civic ill get back at you when I'm off the road ... Lol
  • S2J
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    S2J wrote: »
    Brian B. wrote: »
    xxCivicxx wrote: »
    S2J wrote: »
    S2J wrote: »
    Sion wrote: »
    Leaving responsibility in her hands ? Doubt it'll work.

    Always felt women needed the guidance and for a man to take charge.

    You could always tell her to call you at a particular time ..that way you ? two birds with one stone A. If she hits you at that point you know she's ? with you and B.you now know that she can follow direction/instruction

    Yall nggas need to make up your mind...are you playin it cool or do you wanna be a alpha male. How you gon delegate leadership Lol 'You call me at 5pm and i mean it!'

    What basic bytches yall talkin to that got the time for phone appointments lllls

    How is that delegating leadership when your the one givin the instruction bro bro? What kinda ? can't carve out 5 mins of her time to call a dude she supposedly "feelin" is a better question ...like I said if a chick can't follow a simple ass hey I'm free at 5 hit me up tmmrw direction coo ... I guess that's asking for too much outta these females for ? *shrugs* I'd figure y'all ? would see how direct and to the point that was to a chick ...hardly wishy washy

    Theres only 1 way to take charge, so by tellin her to call you, u relinquishing that a lil...then u askin for it back by seein if she follow instructions. ??

    Everything u sayin would make sense if men and women were equals, but we're not. Women r not built to hunt. I.e. I used to b on POF. Lol Anybody who's been there will tell u, under 'first date', id say 80% of women say 'let the man choose'. And thats how it should be imo

    Not really bro ... The fact of the matter is you can't "take" the ? ... So already there's only but so much you can control as a man when it comes to initiating intimacy between the two sexes you digg? But you definately can do certain things that will have a female in a state where she shows you that shes more readily willing to "offer" the ? to you..In every situation the female has to choooooooose you.. So when you put the onus on her to make first phone contact your essentially expediting that choosing procees and eliminating some wasted time ..that's all it is ...lets keep it funky right .. Most females that are worth a damn gone have a couple options if she out here single ..you don't want to be lumped up with the 3 other ? hittin her up talking bout "hey what chu doin girl" you want your game your approach to stand out ..and you also want to let her know your time is valuable you can't just get me whenever you want especially if we just first meeting.. Nah you can't just get my time like that ...and conversely I damn sure ain't got time to be chasing her down either ...so what we gone do is ima give you my number and you gone call me at ________ and when she does you know it's own and poppin because at that point now it's out there that the interest is mutual ...it weeds out the ?


    And like I said its not about her being a hunter ...she has your number because YOU initiated conversation YOU initiated the idea of further conversation and its YOU that she's taking instruction from when she hits you... That sounds like a ? in total control to me


    But this is best used in person ..females can't really feel your vibe over the Internet .. She needs to see what your mouthpiece is about directly

    I've never used the internet to try and pick up girls I speak from 100% real life experience. I rarely if ever see this working in real life. The approach seems "romantic comedy"eque to me but that's just my opinion. A lot of females feel awkward having to be the first one to initiate contact.

    Can you give me an honest example of when this has worked for you in real life? Most of the chicks I mess with are in the 19-26 year old range so maybe that's where the discrepancy is



    but they're not


    you approach them first, show interest, then give them your # so they can choose


    & think about this, most fairly attractive females gettin approached by dudes are usually asked for their #.. so when you give them yours instead that right there can set you apart

    1)Most fairly attractive women know how to avoid those nggas. #1 tactic being getting his number instead of giving hers

    2) Most fairly attractive women have other nggas on the roster. She doesnt 'need' you. If she never calls u her life would go on as planned. The onus is on YOU to sell yourself into the draws. If u don5 have the time to do that, another ngga does. Like me (when single)

    Thats all with a 'catch' of a woman. No diss, but im startin g to think yall talkin bout pullin basic broads lol

    What are you doing when you meet the chick? You sale yourself in person it's kinda backwards to me if your needing to sake yourself over a phone ... What can happen over a phone call that wouldnt be exponentially highlighted during your first interaction with her in person?


    Civic ill get back at you when I'm off the road ... Lol

    Once again, in theory you'd be right

    But i'm drawing from experience.

    Theres more to it than 'does she like me'. She coulda been tipsy and more bold than usual, could b gettin back w/ her ex, another dude (who calls her) starts to get closer, etc. Women are fickle.

    I keep goin back to sales bc it paralells. Have u ever worked sales? You can give a sales pitchh
    and have them 90% there then renig. Theres a word for it: apprehension lol SHE JUST MET YOU. You have to sell and resell youself.
  • CHICAGO_BREED
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    Man jo please stop this ? . If the ? cant get a number or whatever he trying to accomplish my ? jump on the world wide web gotdammit, get on xnxx.com search big ? hoes, and say ? it my ? . you aint gotta have new nookie every night big homie
  • JDSTAYWITIT
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    S2J wrote: »
    S2J wrote: »
    Brian B. wrote: »
    xxCivicxx wrote: »
    S2J wrote: »
    S2J wrote: »
    Sion wrote: »
    Leaving responsibility in her hands ? Doubt it'll work.

    Always felt women needed the guidance and for a man to take charge.

    You could always tell her to call you at a particular time ..that way you ? two birds with one stone A. If she hits you at that point you know she's ? with you and B.you now know that she can follow direction/instruction

    Yall nggas need to make up your mind...are you playin it cool or do you wanna be a alpha male. How you gon delegate leadership Lol 'You call me at 5pm and i mean it!'

    What basic bytches yall talkin to that got the time for phone appointments lllls

    How is that delegating leadership when your the one givin the instruction bro bro? What kinda ? can't carve out 5 mins of her time to call a dude she supposedly "feelin" is a better question ...like I said if a chick can't follow a simple ass hey I'm free at 5 hit me up tmmrw direction coo ... I guess that's asking for too much outta these females for ? *shrugs* I'd figure y'all ? would see how direct and to the point that was to a chick ...hardly wishy washy

    Theres only 1 way to take charge, so by tellin her to call you, u relinquishing that a lil...then u askin for it back by seein if she follow instructions. ??

    Everything u sayin would make sense if men and women were equals, but we're not. Women r not built to hunt. I.e. I used to b on POF. Lol Anybody who's been there will tell u, under 'first date', id say 80% of women say 'let the man choose'. And thats how it should be imo

    Not really bro ... The fact of the matter is you can't "take" the ? ... So already there's only but so much you can control as a man when it comes to initiating intimacy between the two sexes you digg? But you definately can do certain things that will have a female in a state where she shows you that shes more readily willing to "offer" the ? to you..In every situation the female has to choooooooose you.. So when you put the onus on her to make first phone contact your essentially expediting that choosing procees and eliminating some wasted time ..that's all it is ...lets keep it funky right .. Most females that are worth a damn gone have a couple options if she out here single ..you don't want to be lumped up with the 3 other ? hittin her up talking bout "hey what chu doin girl" you want your game your approach to stand out ..and you also want to let her know your time is valuable you can't just get me whenever you want especially if we just first meeting.. Nah you can't just get my time like that ...and conversely I damn sure ain't got time to be chasing her down either ...so what we gone do is ima give you my number and you gone call me at ________ and when she does you know it's own and poppin because at that point now it's out there that the interest is mutual ...it weeds out the ?


    And like I said its not about her being a hunter ...she has your number because YOU initiated conversation YOU initiated the idea of further conversation and its YOU that she's taking instruction from when she hits you... That sounds like a ? in total control to me


    But this is best used in person ..females can't really feel your vibe over the Internet .. She needs to see what your mouthpiece is about directly

    I've never used the internet to try and pick up girls I speak from 100% real life experience. I rarely if ever see this working in real life. The approach seems "romantic comedy"eque to me but that's just my opinion. A lot of females feel awkward having to be the first one to initiate contact.

    Can you give me an honest example of when this has worked for you in real life? Most of the chicks I mess with are in the 19-26 year old range so maybe that's where the discrepancy is



    but they're not


    you approach them first, show interest, then give them your # so they can choose


    & think about this, most fairly attractive females gettin approached by dudes are usually asked for their #.. so when you give them yours instead that right there can set you apart

    1)Most fairly attractive women know how to avoid those nggas. #1 tactic being getting his number instead of giving hers

    2) Most fairly attractive women have other nggas on the roster. She doesnt 'need' you. If she never calls u her life would go on as planned. The onus is on YOU to sell yourself into the draws. If u don5 have the time to do that, another ngga does. Like me (when single)

    Thats all with a 'catch' of a woman. No diss, but im startin g to think yall talkin bout pullin basic broads lol

    What are you doing when you meet the chick? You sale yourself in person it's kinda backwards to me if your needing to sake yourself over a phone ... What can happen over a phone call that wouldnt be exponentially highlighted during your first interaction with her in person?


    Civic ill get back at you when I'm off the road ... Lol

    Once again, in theory you'd be right

    But i'm drawing from experience.

    Theres more to it than 'does she like me'. She coulda been tipsy and more bold than usual, could b gettin back w/ her ex, another dude (who calls her) starts to get closer, etc. Women are fickle.

    I keep goin back to sales bc it paralells. Have u ever worked sales? You can give a sales pitchh
    and have them 90% there then renig. Theres a word for it: apprehension lol SHE JUST MET YOU. You have to sell and resell youself.

    Apprehension? ? what is this ? a high schooler? Lol ...listen bruh a broad meet you and she feelin you ain't no real ? bout to be out here talking about "oh yeah girl I met this guy yesterday he was so nice and charming ...I really want to know more about him but I can't call him tho IM APPREHENSIVE" lol ..blood foh ... These females know what they want especially when they meet someone they ? with ...they may FRONT like they dont but they do...at the same time tho if she want to be on some "apprehensive" ? ..that's all coo but she can keep her ass away from me with that weirdo ? ...that's just goofy as ? to me if you a grown ass woman and you can't call a dude you interested in??!? ...I ain't got no time for that my ?

    But that's just me and where I'm at ... I'm not worried about baggin everything movin ..so I don't trip off the excess ? i may lose ... I rather get a chick that's cooperative

    How old are you by the way bruh?
  • S2J
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    Hahaha Hey,i dnt make the rules or these chicks, but they exist.

    Im 31,wifed up now but when i was out there not long ago i WAS tryin to murder everything movin Lol But still quality (i love Dc)

    But yea it all comes down to preference. I tried the 'give her my business card' approach, and yea they called, but that just aint me.

    Im like Mitch in Paid in Full, 'i love the game, i love the hustle.'
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    Man i got a lot of stories about conquests that never woulda happened if i didnt apply pressure...
  • jetlifebih
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    S2J wrote: »
    Hahaha Hey,i dnt make the rules or these chicks, but they exist.

    Im 31,wifed up now but when i was out there not long ago i WAS tryin to murder everything movin Lol But still quality (i love Dc)

    But yea it all comes down to preference. I tried the 'give her my business card' approach, and yea they called, but that just aint me.

    Im like Mitch in Paid in Full, 'i love the game, i love the hustle.'

    Until "the one" ? on you like you did when you was hitting everybody in sight, you gone be like money mitch in the car then LOL

    "A yo a, anybody that looked at me wrong is ? dead b"