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How did this thread do numbers
Cuz folks be taking things Allergens say serious? Lol! -
MizuryLillith wrote: »MizuryLillith wrote: »if you doing everything as a man that you should, and your lady playing with giving up the ? and expecting you to do more, then that means you're in a relationship above your league
You never be with a woman at or above your level
Where they get fewer and farther between... decent men.
? man ? .
#ventcomplete
Are you a woman? ? that whole throwing all your fellow women under the bus, like you speak for all of us, to ingratiate yourself with men reeks of internalized misogyny
I ain't throwin anybody anywhere. Them ? are under the bus tryna keep that ? from moving forward. I'd be more like the bus driver. A fellow female who knows how to fight for good men for real. Grow em your damn self. And that don't even need to be through mother/child means. Talk to boys like your their big brother. They pay attention because you have ? . Put young guys in their place for the same reason and build up your man... it's not that difficult. It's quite the opposite of feminism... it's masculinism. For the strongest of females in my opinion. But you girls if you don't get turned on when your man puts you in your place ... well he's probably just not that good at it.
And I would never associate myself with females so fully as to claim speaking for all y'all. Just. Sayin.
Females are crazy and mean.
You refer to women as "females"
That's all I need to know
And I don't need to be put in my place, I'm not a dog and I know how to act right in the first place. See he commands my respect off top by being the man he is. If you acting out of pocket cuz it makes your ? tingle to hear that bass in his voice, then you're playing games
Why not just tell the ? you're kinky and like to be dominated, no need to manipulate him into manhandling. And I don't have to build him up cuz he's the biggest thing in my eyes already. he's a grown, secure man, not an insecure boy who needs his ego propped up
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Another "nice guy" story.
SMMFH
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MizuryLillith wrote: »MizuryLillith wrote: »if you doing everything as a man that you should, and your lady playing with giving up the ? and expecting you to do more, then that means you're in a relationship above your league
You never be with a woman at or above your level
Where they get fewer and farther between... decent men.
? man ? .
#ventcomplete
Are you a woman? ? that whole throwing all your fellow women under the bus, like you speak for all of us, to ingratiate yourself with men reeks of internalized misogyny
I ain't throwin anybody anywhere. Them ? are under the bus tryna keep that ? from moving forward. I'd be more like the bus driver. A fellow female who knows how to fight for good men for real. Grow em your damn self. And that don't even need to be through mother/child means. Talk to boys like your their big brother. They pay attention because you have ? . Put young guys in their place for the same reason and build up your man... it's not that difficult. It's quite the opposite of feminism... it's masculinism. For the strongest of females in my opinion. But you girls if you don't get turned on when your man puts you in your place ... well he's probably just not that good at it.
And I would never associate myself with females so fully as to claim speaking for all y'all. Just. Sayin.
Females are crazy and mean.
You refer to women as "females"
That's all I need to know
And I don't need to be put in my place, I'm not a dog and I know how to act right in the first place. See he commands my respect off top by being the man he is. If you acting out of pocket cuz it makes your ? tingle to hear that bass in his voice, then you're playing games
Why not just tell the ? you're kinky and like to be dominated, no need to manipulate him into manhandling. And I don't have to build him up cuz he's the biggest thing in my eyes already. he's a grown, secure man, not an insecure boy who needs his ego propped up
Actually it the bass in his thoughts... but I'm not sure anybody knows what the ? I'm sayin on THAT level. SO.......
Also where said man handling happens... that level.. lol. I don't expect any of you know what it's like to be shoved pushed or kicked by someone who ain't even in the room. know. I know. Weird creepy and disturbed. Blah blah blah.
Impressed. Is how it feels. Because it's impressive. Find a connection like that... then we'll talk. -
MizuryLillith wrote: »MizuryLillith wrote: »MizuryLillith wrote: »if you doing everything as a man that you should, and your lady playing with giving up the ? and expecting you to do more, then that means you're in a relationship above your league
You never be with a woman at or above your level
Where they get fewer and farther between... decent men.
? man ? .
#ventcomplete
Are you a woman? ? that whole throwing all your fellow women under the bus, like you speak for all of us, to ingratiate yourself with men reeks of internalized misogyny
I ain't throwin anybody anywhere. Them ? are under the bus tryna keep that ? from moving forward. I'd be more like the bus driver. A fellow female who knows how to fight for good men for real. Grow em your damn self. And that don't even need to be through mother/child means. Talk to boys like your their big brother. They pay attention because you have ? . Put young guys in their place for the same reason and build up your man... it's not that difficult. It's quite the opposite of feminism... it's masculinism. For the strongest of females in my opinion. But you girls if you don't get turned on when your man puts you in your place ... well he's probably just not that good at it.
And I would never associate myself with females so fully as to claim speaking for all y'all. Just. Sayin.
Females are crazy and mean.
You refer to women as "females"
That's all I need to know
And I don't need to be put in my place, I'm not a dog and I know how to act right in the first place. See he commands my respect off top by being the man he is. If you acting out of pocket cuz it makes your ? tingle to hear that bass in his voice, then you're playing games
Why not just tell the ? you're kinky and like to be dominated, no need to manipulate him into manhandling. And I don't have to build him up cuz he's the biggest thing in my eyes already. he's a grown, secure man, not an insecure boy who needs his ego propped up
Actually it the bass in his thoughts... but I'm not sure anybody knows what the ? I'm sayin on THAT level. SO.......
Also where said man handling happens... that level.. lol. I don't expect any of you know what it's like to be shoved pushed or kicked by someone who ain't even in the room. know. I know. Weird creepy and disturbed. Blah blah blah.
Impressed. Is how it feels. Because it's impressive. Find a connection like that... then we'll talk.
And FYI... it's not about a NEED thing. You should want to constant up your man's ego. Isn't it that confidence that drew you to him in the first place.... now your the "only" producer of said ego/confidence. Why would you actively deprive him.... -
Do you know why the divorce rate is so high...?
Because the world is full of ? only going 50%/50%
A marriage of souls should be 200% but I don't guess anybody speaks that language. -
That's how I know you don't know what you're talking about. The divorce rate hasn't been 50% for decades. It's like 20% for college educated couples. Are you even married? Cuz I have been for 10 years and with him for 13. I'm gonna stop going back and forth with your rambling ass, how about that
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So Allergens wants duty ? . Call me crazy but I'd rather get sex from someone cuz they want to rather than them doing it out of some sort of "duty" cuz I treat them so well.
Which brings me to another point; this appears to be a case of how men think vs women think(not all but in general) I think men are more inclined to want to sex a woman because of how much she does for him but women don't necessarily have the same reaction when a man does a lot for her. "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"
Which brings me to my other point, I think Allergens wants a woman who thinks like a man. That's why I think he pokes jokes at me, cuz I come across as masculine in my way of thinking/behavior, emotionally detached, more objective than subjective etc. and he finds it attractive. And I KNOW I have internalized misogyny as Kai called it, being feminine wasn't a strong survival skill when I was growing up and I'm working on loving my feminine side and not critical of women unlike how I've been in the past. Those with understanding will realize I've been attacking myself the whole time in attempt to keep the woman in me down/repressed. -
I saw the words dusty ? and really wanted to read the rest.....
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Good thing you stopped there cuz it was DUTY ? .
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This whole thread has made me me appreciate my wife that much more...
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That's how I know you don't know what you're talking about. The divorce rate hasn't been 50% for decades. It's like 20% for college educated couples. Are you even married? Cuz I have been for 10 years and with him for 13. I'm gonna stop going back and forth with your rambling ass, how about that
Clearly you should cause not one number I put up there was supposed to be "the" divorce rate. You should work on your reading comprehension skills. -
Sex is not something that is earned, owed, or purchased with good behavior.
It is a vital part of a respectful relationship.
Freely, willingly, and enthusiastically offered.
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meh.
My advice for everyone is to stay single, get money, and travel the world. -
Sex is not something that is earned, owed, or purchased with good behavior.
It is a vital part of a respectful relationship.
Freely, willingly, and enthusiastically offered.
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only reason @SolemnSauce dont hit his wife is cause his wife is stronger than him
It's that Allergies poster right? No wonder his wife beats his ass. I hope his cute ass babies know karate too and go Jackie Chan on his ass when he open his mouth during dinner too.
Disclaimer: I don't support domestic violence unless it's against such basic ass egotistical maniac with entitlement issues. I consider that to be self defence.
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If you don't get your clown ass outta here with that Dr.Phill dissertation...writing a book about this subject? LmaoReppinTime wrote: »You a fukboi so I'm going to ignore the messenger and how you bring it on yourself and I'm only going to speak on the merits of your message itself.
I don't want to get too in depth because I think I'm going to write a book on this subject but..
One thing you're going to realize if you haven't already is women do not regress in lifestyle. Not without clawing and scratching to fight it. That baseline grows every time they experience something and get comfortable with it. For example you said she controls the finances freely....try to adjust that now and it will cause hell in your relationship...unless you can get her to think it's her idea. You have to pick and choose wisely and sparingly on what you want to change after she's become accustomed to it because you can only do so many before she gets bitter and starts sabotaging the relationship. Now if you change it by giving MORE of it or something even better they love it and accept it easy, it's when you try to change it in a sideways motion or worse backwards where they lose their mind. Not sure why theyre like this I have a theory that it's because their weaker physicals make them feel less in control of the environment so they are terrified of losing ground.
On another note trying to explain the sense of entitlement women have to women is in my experience a waste of time. It's pretty much like white peoples entitlement they have no idea or comprehension it's there and that makes it even more agitating. They also lack fundamental understanding of manhood so how could they understand the effort it takes to do what they think is a given. Men don't take other men for granted nh because we know that entitlement ? can get you punched in the face...women don't exist in the real world to the level we do...they don't even think about how behavior can get you physical repercussions. Women don't realize their man could ? them with his bare hands so how could they give that reality the proper respect. They don't realize they bring very little tangibly to the table beyond sex and they take way more tangible things than they provide. They don't realize the sense of entertainment women naturally have in western culture multiples all this and those things that they think are so little that they should be a given are not actually a given but massive efforts. On top of that they do get the right to withhold the one unique thing they bring to the table and still EXPECT you to maintain their baseline AND not smash other women lol...they objectively out they mind
See how ridiculous it sounds when all measured up objectively? You honestly get more tangible benefits from having a pet dog.
But that's what manhood is. How well you deal with their insanity, your impulses (that they wont ever understand) and still lead and provide.
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I too watch The Soup.
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MizuryLillith wrote: »That's how I know you don't know what you're talking about. The divorce rate hasn't been 50% for decades. It's like 20% for college educated couples. Are you even married? Cuz I have been for 10 years and with him for 13. I'm gonna stop going back and forth with your rambling ass, how about that
Clearly you should cause not one number I put up there was supposed to be "the" divorce rate. You should work on your reading comprehension skills.
I see that now lol, excuse my speed reading. You still kinda rambling tho
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all this what a man shoulddo and shouldnt do is ? .
why should man who goed above and beyondbe on the sameplane as a man who stays on the couch all day.
if a woman is fukking her man and he does nothing for thr relationship but take...then the women is stupid
if a man keep a woman around strictly for fukking without her adding to the household is stupid.
you are better off single.
i really hate when people think a person that does alot more than usually for their mate as " what you want an cookie, your doing what your supposed to do"
but people never clarify what that means.
if my wife takes me to the supermarket is that whats she supposed to do...because i want mangoes....
if my wife takes me to florida because she wants me to relax because she sees im stressed at work...is that what shes supposed to do...or should they be looked at as different...
one sounds selfish and the other sounds going above and beyond for you mate...but third some people will look at them as the same...
if we are speaking about the third....why be in a relationship, if we are talking about the first....why be in a relationship.... only the second if wifey material because she sees your struggle and wants to preserve her mate and thier mentality and keep them fresh for their job and family. but i am sure people can even see that as selfish.
why be in a relationship if your not going to do what you can to make the person happy or supported. now they should already be happy with themselves. i am speaking of doing this just for them to enjoy whether its giving you man head when he comes home or buying her a new pocketbook shes been looking at .
the question is whats your purpose for being in the relationship.
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Arya Tsaddiq wrote: »2stepz_ahead wrote: »Arya Tsaddiq wrote: »Arya Tsaddiq wrote: »How do you feel about black men being praised for being "good fathers" in public because "there's not a lot of good black fathers."?
It's a backhanded compliment meant to degrade black men.
True.
And why do people feel as if we want praise for doing what we are supposed to do as father's? I aint doing it for admiration...
Kinda like how being a good husband works...
im bout to jump in this ? soon.....
stop it bruh
