Have you ever had a jump-off that you want to turn into a wifey????
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cosignin cody lettin another man or what you think other people will say about your relationship with somebody else is stupid they aint the ones who gotta like her you do. she could say she dont wanna be with you for the same reasons and you would be mad cuz she judgin you by something you did before her and you wouldnt think its fair. if you a grown man act like it dont be a follower and go by what some other ? tells you to do and not to do
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what part of the game is this
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ultimately that ? gonna do what he want... but if he sitting here expressing insecurities...
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Gucci da Cincere wrote: »cosignin cody lettin another man or what you think other people will say about your relationship with somebody else is stupid they aint the ones who gotta like her you do. she could say she dont wanna be with you for the same reasons and you would be mad cuz she judgin you by something you did before her and you wouldnt think its fair. if you a grown man act like it dont be a follower and go by what some other ? tells you to do and not to do
Ok here's the thing... both you and cody are right... but let's be ? real for 2 secs... if everything was A-OK i would not have kept her as my j/o for so long... now obviously you guys make some sense about me enjoying spending time with her but really i had an issue with me wifing her in the 1st place otherwise this conversation would be non-existent SO... i gotta look deep down inside and value the +s and -s and figure out wwhether or not this is worth it or if i'm just getting comfortable in a situation that might end up leaving me jadded like i always make fun of people doing lol!!!!!!! -
ultimately that ? gonna do what he want... but if he sitting here expressing insecurities...angrymaninc wrote: »Ok here's the thing... both you and cody are right... but let's be ? real for 2 secs... if everything was A-OK i would not have kept her as my j/o for so long... now obviously you guys make some sense about me enjoying spending time with her but really i had an issue with me wifing her in the 1st place otherwise this conversation would be non-existent SO... i gotta look deep down inside and value the +s and -s and figure out wwhether or not this is worth it or if i'm just getting comfortable in a situation that might end up leaving me jadded like i always make fun of people doing lol!!!!!!!
he ain't ready.... -
real rap just do whatever the ? you want
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ultimately that ? gonna do what he want... but if he sitting here expressing insecurities...
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
aiight i can't say ish cuz that's pretty much what it is and real talk i think i already know what i'm going to do but still i'm wondering i can't be the 1st person who ever felt this sorta way
REAL TALK anybody who grown and says otherwise is a liar
damn i been known as a robot most of my life and i know a buncha folks that went through this before -
You suppose to show them broads no love....wearing one black glove
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pico rivera wrote: »real rap just do whatever the ? you want
dont let the IC influence you
all we doing is saying wha he's thinking......
ayo... shorty a ? .......u can't be wifing up the whole block!! everybody gonna laugh at you....
all this is going through his mind right now.... -
he ain't ready....
lol again like i said i already know what i'm gonna do but i'm just looking to find out if anybody else went through this before... although i come through here to get a couple of laughs on my work day i don't think i'll come to y'all for life advice lol!!!!
but y'all still get much love though lmao!!!!! -
Coby Vibes wrote: »the reason is most of you men dont really know nor understand the criteria you use to put women in these boxes. I find most of you dudes more confused than women anyday
he spending non ? time with her because he enjoys her company and respects her as a person. now here you come trying to convince him to drop somebody he actually LIKES.
that is weak ? ? to encourage that. and it's equally weak minded that he thinks that ? makes sense.
that's why most of ya'll ? wind up lonely ass old men surrounded by people you dont like nor respect
the kid wanted advice on what to do, and i gave it to him. a jump off is not relationship material, and that is what i was stating. i told him he needs to figure out what he really wants to do with her, but to remember that there is a reason why he originally had her as a side piece and not his wifey.
im not telling him to drop her, in his post he said he feels like he should just drop her. i told him there is another option.
i ultimately told him he needs to figure out what he wants. but i guess "you gotta do some soul searching and think about if you are feeling her as a wifey or if you are feeling the IDEA of her as a wifey" went over your head.
please read the posts before you try to criticize. its some dumb hoe ? when you dont. -
who cares if anybody laughs at him as long as he's happy
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pico rivera wrote: »who cares if anybody laughs at him as long as he's happy
he cares..that's why he posted the thread.. he wanted to see if nigaz was gonna joke or co-sign..... -
all we doing is saying wha he's thinking......
ayo... shorty a ? .......u can't be wifing up the whole block!! everybody gonna laugh at you....
lmao pretty much... although she ain't the neighborhood j/o errbody knows what the deal is tween her and me is and how i laid it down
again i'm just asking if anybody else been through the same situation...
all this is going through his mind right now....
lmao!!!!!!! pretty much yea... although she ain the neighborhood j/o errbody knows how i dealt with it and what feelings i had towards her in the 1st place and like i said i think i already know what i'm doing with this
THEN AGAIN... i just wanna know if i'm the only punk that ever got caught up in this type of issh or did i really lose that badly lmao!!!!!! -
he cares..that's why he posted the thread.. he wanted to see if nigaz was gonna joke or co-sign.....
if he cares then he shouldn't be wifin up anybody for that matter n focus on growing up -
If she was wifey material she wouldn't be a jumpoff to anyone.
Jumpoffs are generally relatively attracive chicks that have nothing else for the male party to benefit from but sex. -
all girls have been hoes/jumpoffish at one point in time no matter what they say
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pico rivera wrote: »if he cares then he shouldn't be wifin up anybody for that matter n focus on growing up
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pico rivera wrote: »all girls have been hoes/jumpoffish at one point in time no matter what they say
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Yo birdcall dropped knowledge... Thats exactly what i do when i spend too much non sex time wit a J/o.
But the only question u gotta ask urself is: Why was she a jump in the first place?(also ? got different definitions as to what a jump is)
I agree u prolly fallin off. Its happened to the best of us, but u gotta get some new joints on ur squad and then you'll be able to make a clear decision. -
pico rivera wrote: »if he cares then he shouldn't be wifin up anybody for that matter n focus on growing up
Well here's the thing... like i said before to me she was just a j/o not a wifey... that's why it somewhat bothers me but at the same time i'm able to laugh at it too... any man that tells you that he had a j/o that he then considered making a wifey w/o a problem is either lying to you or doesn't know game REAL TALK!!!!!!! -
birdcall89 wrote: »the kid wanted advice on what to do, and i gave it to him. a jump off is not relationship material, and that is what i was stating. i told him he needs to figure out what he really wants to do with her, but to remember that there is a reason why he originally had her as a side piece and not his wifey.
im not telling him to drop her, in his post he said he feels like he should just drop her. i told him there is another option.
i ultimately told him he needs to figure out what he wants. but i guess "you gotta do some soul searching and think about if you are feeling her as a wifey or if you are feeling the IDEA of her as a wifey" went over your head.
please read the posts before you try to criticize. its some dumb hoe ? when you dont.
some of y'all dudes start every chick out as jumpoff. how many of y'all actually wife a chick straight out the gate? Y'all wanna play the game but dont how. IF chick was only a jumpoff he wouldnt be spending quality time with her.
jumpoff is strictly on some "when you passing thru" ? . -
pico rivera wrote: »all girls have been hoes/jumpoffish at one point in time no matter what they say
that's true... but when you start off with it as jumpoff means there was something wrong with her in the 1st place that you didn't want to make into wifey material no????? -
angrymaninc wrote: »lmao!!!!!!! pretty much yea... although she ain the neighborhood j/o errbody knows how i dealt with it and what feelings i had towards her in the 1st place and like i said i think i already know what i'm doing with this
THEN AGAIN... i just wanna know if i'm the only punk that ever got caught up in this type of issh or did i really lose that badly lmao!!!!!!
Everybody has gone thru this. But what happens is you and the chick usually have a cool relationship cuz its not based off nuthin but ? and chillin. But when u try to cross those boundaries then she starts actin like ur girl..not the sidepiece who knew her role.
THe ? causes a role reversal...and most dudes pride will tell him he shouldnt give a ? about what she wants cuz she was "just a jump anyway". ? dont work majority of the time -
pico rivera wrote: »all girls have been hoes/jumpoffish at one point in time no matter what they say
see.....i'm bout to wake her up right now like.....
ayo.....u got some hoe ? you tryna confess...????!??!?!
