Have you ever had a jump-off that you want to turn into a wifey????
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Son u still didnt say what it was about her that made u put her in that category...
If that ? aint changed....u slippin
Really????? Honestly????
Aiight i'm about to get cussed but really she was just too open for her to become my wifey
now understand i had known her for a minute and even then she showed signs but that kinda turned me off
Now off and do your bidings and tell me i'm crazy and ? lol -
My ? ...its already happening. I think ive been runnin around too long. I be tryna fight any kiind of commited relationship.
But I still aint turnin my jumps into wifey, cuz most of the time u already see where the trouble would be at.
lol aiight then you starting to feel me...
but then again like i said this wasn't the neighborhood j/o this was just this girl that was feeling me and i didn't want to go any further
Now i'm having second thoughts
What bothers me is originally if i didn't make her wifey then why would i now is all????
and again i want someone to admit i am not the only one this ever happend to ? DAMN IT!!!!!!!! -
open???? explain......
everybody got different definitions of this -
pico rivera wrote: »whatcha gonna say?? (im nosey yea so)
lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sweetheart i don't prepare nathan i just say what's on my mind at the point and time
Guaranteed it's gonna start by "We need to talk bout something serious for a minute"
Then it's all up for grabs lol -
angrymaninc wrote: »lol aiight then you starting to feel me...
but then again like i said this wasn't the neighborhood j/o this was just this girl that was feeling me and i didn't want to go any further
Now i'm having second thoughts
What bothers me is originally if i didn't make her wifey then why would i now is all????
and again i want someone to admit i am not the only one this ever happend to ? DAMN IT!!!!!!!!
oh and with bolded, i now dont think shes a jump -
angrymaninc wrote: »Really????? Honestly????
Aiight i'm about to get cussed but really she was just too open for her to become my wifey
now understand i had known her for a minute and even then she showed signs but that kinda turned me off
Now off and do your bidings and tell me i'm crazy and ? lol
she smashed one the homies.......rite? -
pico rivera wrote: »open???? explain......
everybody got different definitions of this
lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i just got how some of y'all might have gotten that... naw let's just say she was too pressed on a ? which was kinda what turned me off for a minute -
desertrain10 wrote: »she smashed one the homies.......rite?
nah son not even -
angrymaninc wrote: »nah son not even
Otherwise this wouldn't even be up for discussion -
angrymaninc wrote: »nah son i didn't take no disrespect off of it... i'm just saying i do have life experience but ESPECIALLY when you get older that dogg pound way of thinking kinda switches up on you without you realizing it
I mean look at Kurupt... he got mad cuz he heard foxy was ? mad east coast ? and came out with the song calling out names
lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Like i said this ? is too funny to me not to laugh about it lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
lol i feel you. i went through the wifeing up the main jump off thing when i was 19. i can see what had me caught in the hype, and it took me a few months to realize i was with the wrong type of girl and that i was too young to be worrying about all that. i know sometime im gonna grow out of it, but now i know what i was doing wrong and what to promote and what to keep on the side. -
angrymaninc wrote: »lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i just got how some of y'all might have gotten that... naw let's just say she was too pressed on a ? which was kinda what turned me off for a minute
so the only reason why your hesitant about wifing her was because she really likes you?.... -
birdcall89 wrote: »lol i feel you. i went through the wifeing up the main jump off thing when i was 19. i can see what had me caught in the hype, and it took me a few months to realize i was with the wrong type of girl and that i was too young to be worrying about all that. i know sometime im gonna grow out of it, but now i know what i was doing wrong and what to promote and what to keep on the side.
See this dude understands me...
I been made mistakes before and i learned from em
i learned from game and trust the game hasn't been gentle on me
So why the hell do i get these feelings now adays is what i really don't understand -
desertrain10 wrote: »so the only reason why your hesitant about wifing her was because she really likes you?....
^^^^^^^^^^^ WOAT reasoning -
desertrain10 wrote: »so the only reason why your hesitant about wifing her was because she really likes you?....
Damn son!!!!! you ain't ever had a chick that was too pressed on you to the point it turned you off???
Again i know how condescending that ? sounds but after a while keeping that chick as j/o while knowing you doing your other bid YET SHE STILL STAYS AROUND
Doesn't that ? sound kinda desperate to you???? -
pico rivera wrote: »^^^^^^^^^^^ WOAT reasoning
right, i don't know the entire story but that's what it sounds like. he's insecure and fears getting hurt
or don't want to give up the single life style -
pico rivera wrote: »^^^^^^^^^^^ WOAT reasoning
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Damn y'all make me sound like i'm the worst individual of all time...
Again let me refresh y'all memories... I never claimed to be a ? or a player... BUT I CANNOT EMPHASIZE THIS ENOUGH... I AM REALLY NOT THAT EMOTIONAL...
So although homegirl was feeling me from jump i wasn't there with her
Now recently i just started thinking like"Hey she's cool ppls maybe i should start considering getting into something more"
But the only thing is i'm skeptical simply cuz i always thought when i would actually settle down i wouldn't need no reasoning behind it -
angrymaninc wrote: »Damn son!!!!! you ain't ever had a chick that was too pressed on you to the point it turned you off???
Again i know how condescending that ? sounds but after a while keeping that chick as j/o while knowing you doing your other bid YET SHE STILL STAYS AROUND
Doesn't that ? sound kinda desperate to you????
i'm a girl
but yea it can be a turn off initially but if you enjoy spending time with her and care for her
i don't see why wouldn't you give the girl a chance it's obvious she's really feeling you -
desertrain10 wrote: »right, i don't know the entire story but that's what it sounds like. he's insecure and fears getting hurt
or don't want to give up the single life style
Insecure??????
nah i'd doubt it otherwise i think i would have wifed her a looooooong time ago
Single life style???? as a grown man i can honestly say that ? SUCKS!!!!!!!!!
Please reconsider your replies cuz your so far left field it doesn't make sense lol!!!!! -
angrymaninc wrote: »Damn son!!!!! you ain't ever had a chick that was too pressed on you to the point it turned you off???
Again i know how condescending that ? sounds but after a while keeping that chick as j/o while knowing you doing your other bid YET SHE STILL STAYS AROUND
Doesn't that ? sound kinda desperate to you????
i understand that. shes been the jump off and side piece for so long, and was still giving it up and happy to do so. so theres no real want to relationship her because even though she wants it, shes not showing that shes worth it. any girl that is wifey material would have put her foot down and stopped giving it up after a certain amount of time serving as the side piece. she wouldnt have been content being on the side for so long. -
desertrain10 wrote: »i'm a girl
but yea it can be a turn off initially but if you enjoy spending time with her and care for her
i don't see why wouldn't you give the girl a chance it's obvious she's really feeling you
Aiight my bad sweetheart i didn't know
But let's be real for a minute... I will even say i even enjoy spending time with her (yes that's right i said it lol!!!!!!)
But i have always been a dude of logic... and my logic is telling me although i might enjoy it for a minute i'm gonna end up regretting it in the long run
Why you ask????
Simply cuz i ain't feeling her the same way she feeling me that spells disaster -
birdcall89 wrote: »i understand that. shes been the jump off and side piece for so long, and was still giving it up and happy to do so. so theres no real want to relationship her because even though she wants it, shes not showing that shes worth it. any girl that is wifey material would have put her foot down and stopped giving it up after a certain amount of time serving as the side piece. she wouldnt have been content being on the side for so long.
See this dude gets it....
BUT I STILL GOTTA GIVE HER PROPS CUZ ? STILL TRY TO HOLLA AND NATHAN!!!!!
? i'm starting to feel like a ? man as if girls are going to use my pic to do voodoo and ? lmao!!!!!!!!! -
birdcall89 wrote: »i understand that. shes been the jump off and side piece for so long, and was still giving it up and happy to do so. so theres no real want to relationship her because even though she wants it, shes not showing that shes worth it. any girl that is wifey material would have put her foot down and stopped giving it up after a certain amount of time serving as the side piece. she wouldnt have been content being on the side for so long.
but the no-strings attached sex was mutual so.... and seems like they are already a step away from being a couple anyways.... -
desertrain10 wrote: »but the no-strings attached sex was mutual so.... and seems like they are already a step away from being a couple anyways....
eghck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hate to admit it but this dude is right too -
angrymaninc wrote: »eghck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hate to admit it but this dude is right too
lmao oops sorry again sweetheart lol!!!! -
desertrain10 wrote: »but the no-strings attached sex was mutual so.... and seems like they are already a step away from being a couple anyways....
thats true, but when they become a couple officially, everything can and probably will change. my man was saying that from the gate she was into him. he was just trying to beat. she gave it up, and stayed on the side while he was doing his own thing. deep down shes gonna resent him for that, and constantly be fighting with him because of that resentment. plus you cant have a healthy and positive long term relationship with someone who was legit attracted to you when your real attraction was physical, and then you decide to give a relationship a try. or atleast thats what my experience taught me.