Is this the problem with black nerds?
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i said this info was 100% accurate. lol I usually dont generalize, but have you ever met anyone who plays Warcraft all day that wasnt over 300 pounds. Im just sayin.
Not defending the groupie who made the blog, but there are dudes out there that are just lame.
My coworker sits at home all day and plays xbox (which many of us do) but he does it all day and complains women aint ? . Even when he is set up on dates, he complains that her ass isnt big enough and goes back to his basement to play games online. All he does is play games and complain about women aint ? . We're like "man, you got to at least try to improve yourself and quit waiting on the world to drop a dime through your roof". I would label him lame because he just complains and plays xbox all day. Nothing productive. Hes not a lame because he plays xbox, hes a lame because thats all he does, and complains and basiclly anything less than melyssa ford isnt good enough for him. Hes wants a whole lot, but gives nothing in return.
I agree that both sides have screwed up this little thing that we call relationships, but the groupie that wrote this is gearing it more towards positive, productive black men, which on a larger scale, society tends to shun. I dunno, for a chick to come out of her mouth and label guys "nerds" and "lames" is immature and socially deficient to me and says a lot about her character. It'll be funny when the very black men that she targeted with this piece are living their prosperous lives while she's alone with her cats.............. -
sdrawkcabseh wrote: »I agree that both sides have screwed up this little thing that we call relationships, but the groupie that wrote this is gearing it more towards positive, productive black men, which on a larger scale, society tends to shun. I dunno, for a chick to come out of her mouth and label guys "nerds" and "lames" is immature and socially deficient to me and says a lot about her character. It'll be funny when the very black men that she targeted with this piece are living their prosperous lives while she's alone with her cats..............
Yea now that im older, I realize many young women like status and attention. They want to be with men who can bring them status and attention. Which is why athletes, frats, and others of the like are so popular. Women really dont think about a family and all that until they get older. But most want a man they can show off to their friends, and be the center of attention. Many "nerds" cant bring that to them I guess. Dating a nerd would mean being with a guy who might not give them that status or attention. Especially if hes the quiet type. But its not just black women though. But I feel both parties have the blame to share as well. -
Yea now that im older, I realize many young women like status and attention. They want to be with men who can bring them status and attention. Which is why athletes, frats, and others of the like are so popular. Women really dont think about a family and all that until they get older. But most want a man they can show off to their friends, and be the center of attention. Many "nerds" cant bring that to them I guess. Dating a nerd would mean being with a guy who might not give them that status or attention. Especially if hes the quiet type. But its not just black women though. But I feel both parties have the blame to share as well.
Yeah homie, I was like that coming up. Not to say that I was awkward, but I was just quiet around chicks all the time. Their biggest complaint was "That they couldn't figure me out." I was shy, i just never found anything worthwhile to discuss. Now that I'm a bit older, I'm able to see a lot of it for what it is. High school was nothing more than a four year, socialist herding/breeding factory that determined status by the ability to score on a standardized, culturally biased test. All I can say is thank ? sometimes that I found my dime at an early age who accepts my comic book reading, Star Wars loving, Simpsons watching self................................ -
sdrawkcabseh wrote: »
I'm already ahead in life.lame meaning awkward,no style,stiff,just not cool.if you gotta ask.....you might be lame LOLI don't think she wants that lame dude,it's the coool ones they always wanted who get with white girls who ? them off.no black women are whining bout Tiger.....cuz he's lame[/QUOTE]
What defines "lame"? Anybody can say what they want about Tiger, but he's still the world's wealthiest and top golfer. Smh, some folks will never get ahead in life cuz they spend too much time labeling others.............. -
sdrawkcabseh wrote: »I'm already ahead in life.lame meaning awkward,no style,stiff,just not cool.if you gotta ask.....you might be lame LOL
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sdrawkcabseh wrote: »
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i don't think playing video games make you a nerd.i know gangstas who do nothing but play games while doing gangsta ? .it's just a certain corniness factor.they wear funny clothes,have no flair,usually are soft as hell,and they whine about lame ? ? ....like not being able to get bad chicks
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i don't think playing video games make you a nerd.i know gangstas who do nothing but play games while doing gangsta ? .it's just a certain corniness factor.they wear funny clothes,have no flair,usually are soft as hell,and they whine about lame ? ? ....like not being able to get bad chicks
Loch week 59 Drake Over Freestyle http://youtube.com/lochofmceo
But where is it another man's place to judge another man's "corniness"? Or judging another man's "softness"? One of the keys to being a man is learning distinction, meaning what seperates you from the men/group next to you. From your posts, it seems like you're judging a man's success on his ability to get bad chicks, when in reality, if all of your success in life is predicated upon pleasing some silly females, that, my friend, makes you a simp................. -
Not at all.i don't sweat chicks.i never said ? about a female being the factor of being lame or not.it's just that if you not lame,woman are just a by product.I'm not judging anything.i don't care if a ? a nerd or not.it don't affect my life,cuz I don't ? with them type ? anywaysdrawkcabseh wrote: »But where is it another man's place to judge another man's "corniness"? Or judging another man's "softness"? One of the keys to being a man is learning distinction, meaning what seperates you from the men/group next to you. From your posts, it seems like you're judging a man's success on his ability to get bad chicks, when in reality, if all of your success in life is predicated upon pleasing some silly females, that, my friend, makes you a simp................. -
the problem of it all is that women are giving Thugs and playas entry into their lives and making it ok to be who they are
these men are deadbeats, abusive,and never faithful to them and women seem to love them more than they would a dude who wouldnt touch a hair on their heads.I see women treat good men worse than they would the men who are hurting them and they wonder why the HOH movement is here to stay damn right we have a right to be mad. after all these years do women see a pattern and where they are heading with this?
they are passing this BS advice and ways to their female offsprings,over and over again.then they get mad when the man treat they aunt,sister and mama like ? .
women make songs about these ?
they want some man who gonna eat them out and beat they back out
even beyonce making songs giving praise to these same cats with im a soldier.
they represent the same men who cant stay out of jail
who sell dope
who beat women
who cheat on women
who have kids by multiple women
these women seem to still go to the same guys they say aint worth a damn -
What is this revenge of the nerds LMFAO
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this was not a good look for the blogger ... for one i dont even know what a black nerd is, two ..... she admitted she's a golddigger by saying that she only wants a man after he got money. but men are more loyal to woman who were there for them BEFORE the blow up ..... word to TI and the pirate looking chick from excape.
third and finally ... this dumb broad said that she was the student body president and she was sucking off the captain of the football team ....
NEWS FLASH !!!!! the student body president is no where near the alpha female as far as the high school social hierarchy LOL .... the title belongs to the most attractive/popular female in the school, which is usually some cheerleader or ? with a financially stable family. the captain of the football team was getting sucked off by you and like five others girls too ? LOL
i think this blog was directed at certain people who frequent her blog and make harrassing comments. if not .... i can point out so many flaws in this blog and im not by any means a nerd LOL -
Not at all.i don't sweat chicks.i never said ? about a female being the factor of being lame or not.it's just that if you not lame,woman are just a by product.I'm not judging anything.i don't care if a ? a nerd or not.it don't affect my life,cuz I don't ? with them type ? anyway
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listen what lauren london said in a interview and you see why sistas never find good men and on the wrong path
http://www.averagebro.com/2008/07/why-do-black-women-love-thugs.html
KING: So you want a man who’s both honest and thug?
London: An authentic gangsta—that deletes about half the rap game off your list. I love guys who are street. I won’t even give soft guys a chance. Menace II Society is my ? ! Caine was like my first crush. Actually, O-Dog was my true dream guy. I was in love with him, from that opening scene where he pops the convenience-store worker. He had me from that gunshot [laughs]. He was ’hood, and I loved that.
Never mind the fact that Caine ended up dead on a sidewalk at the end of the movie, London (who always seems a few footlongs shy of a Quiznos) presents a sentiment that I've heard from lots of other brothers over the years.
My life as a single guy is distant history, so I'm pleading the fizzith on this one. But general reaction in the blogosphere from men has been that London's right, Black Women do like thugs and pass over more "positive" brothers, while many Black Women think Lauren's a bubblehead.
Question: Does Lauren London have a point? Do Black women generally prefer thugs over more "upstanding" brothers or is she just speaking for herself? Fellas, assuming you're not a thug (and I doubt you are if you're a reader of this blog) do you find Black Women go for the flashy and gritty a bit too much? -
A man's success has nothing to do with woman or money it has to do with what makes them happy and if they can take care of what they need to do.i can get a bad chick with out ? a lame gotta pay
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Yung_Souf_Money wrote: »the problem of it all is that women are giving Thugs and playas entry into their lives and making it ok to be who they are
these men are deadbeats, abusive,and never faithful to them and women seem to love them more than they would a dude who wouldnt touch a hair on their heads.I see women treat good men worse than they would the men who are hurting them and they wonder why the HOH movement is here to stay damn right we have a right to be mad. after all these years do women see a pattern and where they are heading with this?
they are passing this BS advice and ways to their female offsprings,over and over again.then they get mad when the man treat they aunt,sister and mama like ? .
women make songs about these ?
they want some man who gonna eat them out and beat they back out
even beyonce making songs giving praise to these same cats with im a soldier.
they represent the same men who cant stay out of jail
who sell dope
who beat women
who cheat on women
who have kids by multiple women
these women seem to still go to the same guys they say aint worth a damn
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Lauren London is speaking for herself.
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Conscious_Nkechi wrote: »? generalizations, I don't have the tolerance for them.
And why must an educated man who is focused on books and expanding his knowledge who loves learning be referred to as a geek? THAT is the problem.
Naw, the problem is ? keep giving these hoes a platform to speak on.Lauren London is speaking for herself.
come on son, you actin like a lot of these don't think that way. -
Don't listen to anyone who would procreate with Lil Wayne
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LOL the way you phrased that was funny as hellNaw, the problem is ? keep giving these hoes a platform to speak on.
come on son, you actin like a lot of these don't think that way. -
Myayoni is bored wrote: »Don't listen to anyone who would procreate with Lil Wayne
lol.
But seriously, I would never consider a woman who would give Wayne, 50, Jay-Z, Gucci, and those types the time of day. -
Naw, the problem is ? keep giving these hoes a platform to speak on.
come on son, you actin like a lot of these don't think that way.
i will admit .. lauren london is outside of the norm ... i mean, women are suckers for a guy who can dress nice and has "swag" but uhhh ... this dumb broad is epically stupid ... having sex with lil wayne?? really?? i mean damn, even the dumb broad from around my way aint that dumb ... and the ? is crazy cause she was drop dead goregeous in ATL the movie .... her dad lost lol -
allreasoned_out wrote: »lol.
But seriously, I would never consider a woman who would give Wayne, 50, Jay-Z, Gucci, and those types the time of day.
then you wouldn't give 95% of women the time of day. Lemme guess, you think women pick dudes because of their character and not their wallet? smh -
UPTOWN (CONNEXX) wrote: »i will admit .. lauren london is outside of the norm ... i mean, women are suckers for a guy who can dress nice and has "swag" but uhhh ... this dumb broad is epically stupid ... having sex with lil wayne?? really?? i mean damn, even the dumb broad from around my way aint that dumb ... and the ? is crazy cause she was drop dead goregeous in ATL the movie .... her dad lost lol
son, most ? would gave wayne some ? . why? cuz he a rich celeb. son your moms would prolly drop it for the ? , would to wobbidy wobbidy.
lemme find out yall ? actually think 96% of these birds out here ain't just lookin for a come up on a ? . -
then you wouldn't give 95% of women the time of day. Lemme guess, you think women pick dudes because of their character and not their wallet? smh
I don't think it's 95%.
