Why Are People So Selfish?!?! (the ? thread)
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This topic is always going like this cause we tend to Feminize the hoe character.
We live in materialistic society where the notions of CONSUMPTION, INTEREST , POSITION and POWER are championned. Aint no room for kindness cause you will be labeled soft , ? .
Men and women tend to get married less. Why? They want to consume each other. They like to change of partner like they like new pair of shoes ( for the most). Now when they think that they might not fit into this type of game anymore, they take the marriage route for SECURITY sake. -
MansaMusa67 wrote: »MansaMusa67 wrote: »Its a test, duh.
We gon tell em all day we want her to be nasty, we want her to approach US, we want her to 'know what you want' (code for be dtf right off the bat')
And some women are weak enough to fall for that. And some NGGAS are weak enough to forget the rules and fall for those type of broads. Then we get songs like "These hoes aint loyal"...
A real woman can see through all that and stick to her guns. That earns respect in the long term. But in the meantime you still gotta ? them hoes just off GP...
this is true...but call a ? a ? ...
It sounds like u aee attempting to reflect blame away from men my g
A hoe is a hoe. Me fuking or not fuking is not gonna change the fact that she is ...a hoe.
You seem to be under the impression if we change OUR ways as men it will change these hoes into...... housewives?. I believe there's an old addage that states otherwise.
As a man its my JOB to dangle every type of bait in front of her and see if she bite. If she bite, i will then act accordingly.
You got guys out here think they got a good woman or virtuos chick when meanwhile they've never put her in a position to prove otherwise.
u part of the problem bruh
I'M part of the problem?!....I'M part of the problem!!!?!?
Lol
But forreal, you sound like you want us to treat women better to help uplift them. To that i say shame on you, my simpish friend.
There's nothing worse to see a man treat a woman with more respect than she's due. Nothing. And respectfully sir, you sound like 'that guy' -
And disclaimer...im far from a woman basher. I thought of the topic because of another thread and women were being discussed. Both men and women are to blame.
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MansaMusa67 wrote: »And disclaimer...im far from a woman basher. I thought of the topic because of another thread and women were being discussed. Both men and women are to blame.
Yeah. And the interraction of both creates that environment. Yet men tend to throw the fault on women. Its a deep psychological attitude tjat we have inherited from our ancestors worldwide. The women is the temptress , the biblical schemeress. We men are just FALLING into their traps.
Historically men are automatically forgives for their hoeness. -
@mansamusa67
Dont lead this nggas astray:
"vowin to never turn sucker like these other dudes
misreadin signals, attachment issues
way too attached to the ? lips
got homie searchin for relationships
she not tryin to hear it"http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=gJpAR_YwrFU
Spitta aint neva lied. -
ThirdEyeFive wrote: »
...yeah somewhere on this planet, doesn't really help this conversation though.
With enough peer pressure and the right combination of liquor, drugs and opportunity that virginity is disappearing in the hood.Who marrying prudes and virgins though?
Who gonna be that ? to say he ain't marry someone else's jumpoff?
my husband cuz i've never been anyone's jumpoff
and lets not act like there aren't hoes out here who can't ? for ? . promiscuity and sexual skill don't go hand in hand. you can be the biggest freak without being a hoe and not being a hoe doesn't automatically make you a ?
Oh I agree. I don't believe people should be prudes but I'm against wanton vulgarity as well.
When you have people whose concepts of sex come from pornos and overly raunchy music you have this problem.
Every ? is "killin that ? " and every ? head game is "the bomb dot com" or whatever the ? .
It's an issue of what is supposed to "attractive" or "sexy". The average ? ain't out here checking for women in sensible shoes and pantsuits. They want big ? ? that are damn near naked..and that is why we have the issue OP is talking about.
Even if she isn't a ? like that, she probably wears what Dave Chappelle called "a ? 's uniform".
I don't blame guys though I think it's cyclical. There are a few naturally loose women, those women get a lot of attention and thus more women do what the loose women are doing to get attention because otherwise they wouldn't get any.
There used to be a concept that some things you didn't ask your wife to do you went to the "women of Ill repute" if you had fetishes or something, now the wife is expected to do everything and expected to do everything even before she gets the title of wife. So a woman now has not only got to buss it open for the husband but for the boyfriend because he might not get the title of wife without it, and now you gotta buss it open to get he girlfriend title etc it's a trickle down effect. -
MansaMusa67 wrote: »MansaMusa67 wrote: »Its a test, duh.
We gon tell em all day we want her to be nasty, we want her to approach US, we want her to 'know what you want' (code for be dtf right off the bat')
And some women are weak enough to fall for that. And some NGGAS are weak enough to forget the rules and fall for those type of broads. Then we get songs like "These hoes aint loyal"...
A real woman can see through all that and stick to her guns. That earns respect in the long term. But in the meantime you still gotta ? them hoes just off GP...
this is true...but call a ? a ? ...
It sounds like u aee attempting to reflect blame away from men my g
A hoe is a hoe. Me fuking or not fuking is not gonna change the fact that she is ...a hoe.
You seem to be under the impression if we change OUR ways as men it will change these hoes into...... housewives?. I believe there's an old addage that states otherwise.
As a man its my JOB to dangle every type of bait in front of her and see if she bite. If she bite, i will then act accordingly.
You got guys out here think they got a good woman or virtuos chick when meanwhile they've never put her in a position to prove otherwise.
u part of the problem bruh
I'M part of the problem?!....I'M part of the problem!!!?!?
Lol
But forreal, you sound like you want us to treat women better to help uplift them. To that i say shame on you, my simpish friend.
There's nothing worse to see a man treat a woman with more respect than she's due. Nothing. And respectfully sir, you sound like 'that guy'
i am that guy...and I dont have problem with it
All I said was treat women better and not like OBJECTS to fulfill selfish desires...and maybe these confused misguided women will change for the better. I didnt say smash on the hoe, and be nice to her...which seems to be ur issue...u wanna treaat a ? like a traditional hoe...smash her in private and then turn it nose up at her in public...which is ass backwards and detrimental to a society...
People keep talking about how hoeing been around forever....but whoees were not looked at as virtuous or desirable...like thy are today.
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ThirdEyeFive wrote: »
...yeah somewhere on this planet, doesn't really help this conversation though.
With enough peer pressure and the right combination of liquor, drugs and opportunity that virginity is disappearing in the hood.Who marrying prudes and virgins though?
Who gonna be that ? to say he ain't marry someone else's jumpoff?
my husband cuz i've never been anyone's jumpoff
and lets not act like there aren't hoes out here who can't ? for ? . promiscuity and sexual skill don't go hand in hand. you can be the biggest freak without being a hoe and not being a hoe doesn't automatically make you a ?
Oh I agree. I don't believe people should be prudes but I'm against wanton vulgarity as well.
When you have people whose concepts of sex come from pornos and overly raunchy music you have this problem.
Every ? is "killin that ? " and every ? head game is "the bomb dot com" or whatever the ? .
It's an issue of what is supposed to "attractive" or "sexy". The average ? ain't out here checking for women in sensible shoes and pantsuits. They want big ? ? that are damn near naked..and that is why we have the issue OP is talking about.
Even if she isn't a ? like that, she probably wears what Dave Chappelle called "a ? 's uniform".
I don't blame guys though I think it's cyclical. There are a few naturally loose women, those women get a lot of attention and thus more women do what the loose women are doing to get attention because otherwise they wouldn't get any.
There used to be a concept that some things you didn't ask your wife to do you went to the "women of Ill repute" if you had fetishes or something, now the wife is expected to do everything and expected to do everything even before she gets the title of wife. So a woman now has not only got to buss it open for the husband but for the boyfriend because he might not get the title of wife without it, and now you gotta buss it open to get he girlfriend title etc it's a trickle down effect.
i couldn't have said it any better myself bruh. -
"the hood" shouldn't be the measuring stick for anything outside of pickup basketball...
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MansaMusa67 wrote: »MansaMusa67 wrote: »MansaMusa67 wrote: »Its a test, duh.
We gon tell em all day we want her to be nasty, we want her to approach US, we want her to 'know what you want' (code for be dtf right off the bat')
And some women are weak enough to fall for that. And some NGGAS are weak enough to forget the rules and fall for those type of broads. Then we get songs like "These hoes aint loyal"...
A real woman can see through all that and stick to her guns. That earns respect in the long term. But in the meantime you still gotta ? them hoes just off GP...
this is true...but call a ? a ? ...
It sounds like u aee attempting to reflect blame away from men my g
A hoe is a hoe. Me fuking or not fuking is not gonna change the fact that she is ...a hoe.
You seem to be under the impression if we change OUR ways as men it will change these hoes into...... housewives?. I believe there's an old addage that states otherwise.
As a man its my JOB to dangle every type of bait in front of her and see if she bite. If she bite, i will then act accordingly.
You got guys out here think they got a good woman or virtuos chick when meanwhile they've never put her in a position to prove otherwise.
u part of the problem bruh
I'M part of the problem?!....I'M part of the problem!!!?!?
Lol
But forreal, you sound like you want us to treat women better to help uplift them. To that i say shame on you, my simpish friend.
There's nothing worse to see a man treat a woman with more respect than she's due. Nothing. And respectfully sir, you sound like 'that guy'
i am that guy...and I dont have problem with it
All I said was treat women better and not like OBJECTS to fulfill selfish desires...and maybe these confused misguided women will change for the better. I didnt say smash on the hoe, and be nice to her...which seems to be ur issue...u wanna treaat a ? like a traditional hoe...smash her in private and then turn it nose up at her in public...which is ass backwards and detrimental to a society...
People keep talking about how hoeing been around forever....but whoees were not looked at as virtuous or desirable...like thy are today.
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ThirdEyeFive wrote: »"the hood" shouldn't be the measuring stick for anything outside of pickup basketball...
Why even pickup basketball? -
Every man's worst fear used to be unknowingly marrying a ? ... ? done changed ? now marry ? cuz they look good.... That's it no moral standards not if they could be a good parent just the fact they look good or is a dime. From rappers to athletes to regular ?
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ThirdEyeFive wrote: »"the hood" shouldn't be the measuring stick for anything outside of pickup basketball...
Gets it.
*daps*
? letting a caricature define our whole being.. but thats another thread for a nother time -
virtuous, desirable ? , huh? SMH... This is 2014. ? like to ? just as much as dudes to the point were they'll ? another ? if they feel like they're missing something. They aren't this delicate flower that needs over seeing, they'll cut you up in a second. They don't HAVE to have sex with a dude, they WANT toPorn Actress Wants to Chop Down 23 Men for 23rd Birthday (Pics)
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and I got about 8 2013 articles on marriage/divorce rates in the clip ready if you want it so, don't even start talking like they're the victims of ? . Talkin about treat them better... smh... ? better treat herself better. She gone ? anyway so why not you; who cares what her reasons are. Why is that so hard to believe that ? like to ? ?MansaMusa67 wrote: »Boy...? in here coppin pleas and catching feelings...kinda like the woken would if I had made a thread bashing them...
I said BOTH man and women are at fault...
Ladies and gentlemen... Don't let your kids grow up to be a ? ? like this one right here. Make sure they can stand on their own 2 feet..... When they themselves say "DISCUSS" and someone brings real life examples and current research..... MAKE SURE THEY CAN HOLD THEIR OWN AND HAVE MORE OF A COMEBACK THAN "HE CATCHING FEELINGS." The ? is tired and wack. So you have a ? opinion.... Big deal, you live and learn. You ain't ? stupid until you're presented with legit evidence and won't even consider it and you run to the lame catchin feelins bs. Especially on matters of personal responsibility!!! Someone else is always to blame, huh? With that said. I hope you find your desirable ? and have all sorts of virtuous ? babies....... (lol at desirable ? ... I couldn't make that up) -
MansaMusa67 wrote: »Trillaaaaaa wrote: »Trillaaaaaa wrote: »Are only females capable of being hoes?
Or can males be guilty of being a hoe?
So we just going to ignore these simple questions?
To answer the question...yes...
I was guilty at one point and I admit it. But I realized how selfish I was being and changed.
Did you have kids before or after you had yiur hoe revelation?MansaMusa67 wrote: »MansaMusa67 wrote: »Its a test, duh.
We gon tell em all day we want her to be nasty, we want her to approach US, we want her to 'know what you want' (code for be dtf right off the bat')
And some women are weak enough to fall for that. And some NGGAS are weak enough to forget the rules and fall for those type of broads. Then we get songs like "These hoes aint loyal"...
A real woman can see through all that and stick to her guns. That earns respect in the long term. But in the meantime you still gotta ? them hoes just off GP...
this is true...but call a ? a ? ...
It sounds like u aee attempting to reflect blame away from men my g
A hoe is a hoe. Me fuking or not fuking is not gonna change the fact that she is ...a hoe.
You seem to be under the impression if we change OUR ways as men it will change these hoes into...... housewives?. I believe there's an old addage that states otherwise.
As a man its my JOB to dangle every type of bait in front of her and see if she bite. If she bite, i will then act accordingly.
You got guys out here think they got a good woman or virtuos chick when meanwhile they've never put her in a position to prove otherwise.
u part of the problem bruh
I'M part of the problem?!....I'M part of the problem!!!?!?
Lol
But forreal, you sound like you want us to treat women better to help uplift them. To that i say shame on you, my simpish friend.
There's nothing worse to see a man treat a woman with more respect than she's due. Nothing. And respectfully sir, you sound like 'that guy'
I treat everybody with respect -
My only problem is ? ? on promiscuous women when we are guilty if the same ?
? dap each other up when discussing side chicks
but let a ? start talking about side ?
I just don't like double standards/hypocrisy -
@mansamusa67
Dont lead this nggas astray:
"vowin to never turn sucker like these other dudes
misreadin signals, attachment issues
way too attached to the ? lips
got homie searchin for relationships
she not tryin to hear it"http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=gJpAR_YwrFU
Spitta aint neva lied.
Never experienced this so I cant relate...
He snapped tho -
Trillaaaaaa wrote: »My only problem is ? ? on promiscuous women when we are guilty if the same ?
? dap each other up when discussing side chicks
but let a ? start talking about side ?
I just don't like double standards/hypocrisy
I agree with this -
Boy...? in here coppin pleas and catching feelings...kinda like the woken would if I had made a thread bashing them...
I said BOTH man and women are at fault... -
So wait it's my fault a chick falls for game?? ? have to stop promoting hoe behavior for females to stop acting like hoes? What part of the game is that?
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ThirdEyeFive wrote: »
Yo, do you REALLY believe this ? ? lol? That type of crazy mentality is prolly why 99% of females lie about their sexual history. HOWEVER if she ? u raw, swallowing ya kids, and askin you to leave $ on the dresser on the first date...then yea she's a ? . -
Women aren't men so stop with the whole men do it so it's ok for hoes to ? like we do.... A chick that does will be treated accordingly
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@aneed123
So you believe it's acceptable for men to engage in activities that would a women considered a ? if she did?
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? _i_look_like wrote: »ThirdEyeFive wrote: »
Yo, do you REALLY believe this ? ? lol? That type of crazy mentality is prolly why 99% of females lie about their sexual history. HOWEVER if she ? u raw, swallowing ya kids, and askin you to leave $ on the dresser on the first date...then yea she's a ? .
crazy? maybe if you're used to rampant promiscuity...
i was in the barbershop today and ? was saying that if u never got burned "u wasnt really ? ".
a ? who is loose with the ? is a ? my g. just because standards have been lowered don't change reality. -
ThirdEyeFive wrote: »? _i_look_like wrote: »ThirdEyeFive wrote: »
Yo, do you REALLY believe this ? ? lol? That type of crazy mentality is prolly why 99% of females lie about their sexual history. HOWEVER if she ? u raw, swallowing ya kids, and askin you to leave $ on the dresser on the first date...then yea she's a ? .
crazy? maybe if you're used to rampant promiscuity...
i was in the barbershop today and ? was saying that if u never got burned "u wasnt really ? ".
a ? who is loose with the ? is a ? my g. just because standards have been lowered don't change reality.
bruh slow down...ur making too much sense
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