The changing reasons why women cheat on their husbands (Article inside)
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as far as the op
them women is some smuts.
they dont have that chick telling them what marriage is really like...they only sell the fantasy or having a good life.
fellas, keep it 100.
how many times have your homies told you to not get married? an if you still want to think about it...they tried to tell you how hard it was? what goes into it.
do ladies have this same talk? no...they have the checkbox. then them same chicks trynna get ya chick to shake it at the club cause a ? missed the electric bill.
the problem with all this is entitlement and reality tv, social media...so many things. also the weak minded nature of the person.
hoes are being promoted. how you gonna tell a chick to not be like amber, if amber got her bills paid an get a millie for being married least than 2 years?
how many chicks really think they DONT deserve a life of abundance?
how many chick dont think they ? can call the shots?
how many chicks place their worth in they ? or just their company?
all this ? can be fixed with stronger black men taking over the community and directing ? like it should.
it all starts with us men -
now who want these hands?
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atribecalledgabi wrote: »DoUwant2go2Heaven wrote: »
? done tricked you good.
SMH.
Didnt read but the last sentence caught my eye.
The irony of a religious zealot telling somebody else ? tricked them
? crackin the whip. Laugh the truth away! It's all a game! Just Keep on going down the broad road! Enter in at the wide gate!
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2stepz_ahead wrote: »If you don't know how to keep her guessing even after living with her then don't marry her. Not that hard. All women want is spontaneity and someone they can't walk over.
Stop spoiling and make em work after marriage. Give em something to do and think about. They just don't want boredom and monotony. Just like us (men). Live dammit. Especially if married.
i will say the opposite to this.....for the most part i spoil the ? outta my wife. so that aint the problem...the problem is since she knows what i will do for a chick i love...would she be willing to allow another woman to have that.
but living....yes......
Dog that's my point. You have to leave the possibility of that thought even entering their mind. Most people only do what's right when they feel that their position is threatened. Human nature.
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atribecalledgabi wrote: »DoUwant2go2Heaven wrote: »
? done tricked you good.
SMH.
Didnt read but the last sentence caught my eye.
The irony of a religious zealot telling somebody else ? tricked them
I know right lmao. The irony in his comments. -
Bibical atheist didnt even read the article
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atribecalledgabi wrote: »So now men AND women are seeing marriage aint all it's cracked up to be...and old reasons for why ppl used to get married ain't cutting it anymore.
I think I've said this before on here but if I haven't...we're in a time where men and women don't necessarily need each other anymore so our struggle is defining why we want to be with each other.
That's interesting af to me.
Wow... joli... well said -
2stepz_ahead wrote: »atribecalledgabi wrote: »So now men AND women are seeing marriage aint all it's cracked up to be...and old reasons for why ppl used to get married ain't cutting it anymore.
I think I've said this before on here but if I haven't...we're in a time where men and women don't necessarily need each other anymore so our struggle is defining why we want to be with each other.
That's interesting af to me.
we do need each other.....this is a tactic used to break black families.
case an point.
i know quite a few very well off white chicks...they husbands dont make hat they make or come from moeny like they do. but its still about family and creating a legacy.
now not all but alot of the black women i know with money...aint trynna have kids if they dont have them already..or want a man with more than them. they only cater to the guy with more money than them or a better title. then get mad when they get dogged out.
the foundation of what this is supposed to be built on is lost. you give the women in a community the power...the community will fall. give RESPONSIBLE men the power in a community...it will thrive.
look at where we are.....fukk boys call the shots and women raise grown boys.
how is marriage ever gonna work when for the most part we dont see examples of successful marriages. or we choose not to pay attention to it because it most be a problem they hiding.
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2stepz_ahead wrote: »as far as the op
them women is some smuts.
they dont have that chick telling them what marriage is really like...they only sell the fantasy or having a good life.
fellas, keep it 100.
how many times have your homies told you to not get married? an if you still want to think about it...they tried to tell you how hard it was? what goes into it.
do ladies have this same talk? no...they have the checkbox. then them same chicks trynna get ya chick to shake it at the club cause a ? missed the electric bill.
the problem with all this is entitlement and reality tv, social media...so many things. also the weak minded nature of the person.
hoes are being promoted. how you gonna tell a chick to not be like amber, if amber got her bills paid an get a millie for being married least than 2 years?
how many chicks really think they DONT deserve a life of abundance?
how many chick dont think they ? can call the shots?
how many chicks place their worth in they ? or just their company?
all this ? can be fixed with stronger black men taking over the community and directing ? like it should.
it all starts with us men
Simps
And
Disney type women
And
Neo Feminism
? the game of TRUST, COLLECTIVITY, FAMILLY, REAL HAPPYNESS, WEALTH GATHERING AND TRANSMITTING.
I have said it for years, WE ARE LIVING IN A SOCIETY OF PLEASURE AKA CHILDISH ENVIRONMENT.
Mature men and women cannot thrive together in that environment.
But the counterreaction regarding our sad sad DISNEY WORLD is already happening:
- MGTOW
- RED PILL WOMEN
- HERBIVORES
Another society is slowly rising above the soon to be remnants of the consumerist, culturless, knowledgless and egoistic one we are living in.
Sick and tired about that ? . You got mothers like @kat cosigning a parent handing his young daughter to Nelly a rated R artist so that uneducated idiot can act seductive on her.
Im sure that if he wasnt a star he wouldnt let her in that situation. But this one out of millions example of the poison of materialism and human being deification based on the car they drive or the fame they got.
We need to step back to shoot better threes and not stmettle for lay-ups AS A SOCIETY.
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Will Munny wrote: »I think people do ? too early in relationships and after that theres just nothing to look forward to. ? should not be allowed until atleast year 5 of marriage.
Well if ur ? period u can get head
But sometimes u just wana bust her ? wide open -
If you dont get the ? off me, you sound moronic.
I'd hand my daughter over to Nelly before your sexually deviant ass.
Love how we condemn others without the facts but it's so simple for us to justify our own questionable behavior..foh Frenchie. -
In before ? take this as the gospel because.. ?
the fact is no one wants to be held to account.. they have expecations of others that they themselves wont fulfill. the lowering of standards/narrow mindedness so on and so forth has urged this on.. We are in a microwave society
if this article hits facebook its over.. nuke everything
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the bolded sums it up.playmaker88 wrote: »In before ? take this as the gospel because.. ?
the fact is no one wants to be held to account.. they have expecations of others that they themselves wont fulfill. the lowering of standards/narrow mindedness so on and so forth has urged this on.. We are in a microwave society
if this article hits facebook its over.. nuke everything
no one wants to work for ? ...if its not here now. fukk you.
why should we have to take a step back....? i can leave an do better...fukk you
but when ? going good.
i been thinking about us moving in together.
smdh
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2stepz_ahead wrote: »atribecalledgabi wrote: »So now men AND women are seeing marriage aint all it's cracked up to be...and old reasons for why ppl used to get married ain't cutting it anymore.
I think I've said this before on here but if I haven't...we're in a time where men and women don't necessarily need each other anymore so our struggle is defining why we want to be with each other.
That's interesting af to me.
we do need each other.....this is a tactic used to break black families.
case an point.
i know quite a few very well off white chicks...they husbands dont make hat they make or come from moeny like they do. but its still about family and creating a legacy.
now not all but alot of the black women i know with money...aint trynna have kids if they dont have them already..or want a man with more than them. they only cater to the guy with more money than them or a better title. then get mad when they get dogged out.
the foundation of what this is supposed to be built on is lost. you give the women in a community the power...the community will fall. give RESPONSIBLE men the power in a community...it will thrive.
look at where we are.....fukk boys call the shots and women raise grown boys.
how is marriage ever gonna work when for the most part we dont see examples of successful marriages. or we choose not to pay attention to it because it most be a problem they hiding.
Why you always wana fight me tho? Lol
Lemme rephrase what I said...and ima keep it brief cuz I ain't got time right now...
Men and women don't need each other in the sense that we don't need to settle.
Right now we got time to figure out what we want in life before entering these life long commitments like marriage and kids...and see if we even want em at all. People are getting married and having kids later in life (late 20s-30s) as opposed to earlier.
There's no disagreement about the family being the bedrock of society. But don't put the cart before the horse. I need to be responsible to myself before I can be responsible for a family. And the maturity to choose a partner worthy of my time and energy to build with goes with that responsibility. -
atribecalledgabi wrote: »2stepz_ahead wrote: »atribecalledgabi wrote: »So now men AND women are seeing marriage aint all it's cracked up to be...and old reasons for why ppl used to get married ain't cutting it anymore.
I think I've said this before on here but if I haven't...we're in a time where men and women don't necessarily need each other anymore so our struggle is defining why we want to be with each other.
That's interesting af to me.
we do need each other.....this is a tactic used to break black families.
case an point.
i know quite a few very well off white chicks...they husbands dont make hat they make or come from moeny like they do. but its still about family and creating a legacy.
now not all but alot of the black women i know with money...aint trynna have kids if they dont have them already..or want a man with more than them. they only cater to the guy with more money than them or a better title. then get mad when they get dogged out.
the foundation of what this is supposed to be built on is lost. you give the women in a community the power...the community will fall. give RESPONSIBLE men the power in a community...it will thrive.
look at where we are.....fukk boys call the shots and women raise grown boys.
how is marriage ever gonna work when for the most part we dont see examples of successful marriages. or we choose not to pay attention to it because it most be a problem they hiding.
Why you always wana fight me tho? Lol
Lemme rephrase what I said...and ima keep it brief cuz I ain't got time right now...
Men and women don't need each other in the sense that we don't need to settle.
Right now we got time to figure out what we want in life before entering these life long commitments like marriage and kids...and see if we even want em at all. People are getting married and having kids later in life (late 20s-30s) as opposed to earlier.
There's no disagreement about the family being the bedrock of society. But don't put the cart before the horse. I need to be responsible to myself before I can be responsible for a family. And the maturity to choose a partner worthy of my time and energy to build with goes with that responsibility.
100% especially the bold.
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who the ? cares why she cheats. Tell her to come over, do what you gotta do with her then, send her back to her ? dishes. It's a win win win situation.
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atribecalledgabi wrote: »2stepz_ahead wrote: »atribecalledgabi wrote: »So now men AND women are seeing marriage aint all it's cracked up to be...and old reasons for why ppl used to get married ain't cutting it anymore.
I think I've said this before on here but if I haven't...we're in a time where men and women don't necessarily need each other anymore so our struggle is defining why we want to be with each other.
That's interesting af to me.
we do need each other.....this is a tactic used to break black families.
case an point.
i know quite a few very well off white chicks...they husbands dont make hat they make or come from moeny like they do. but its still about family and creating a legacy.
now not all but alot of the black women i know with money...aint trynna have kids if they dont have them already..or want a man with more than them. they only cater to the guy with more money than them or a better title. then get mad when they get dogged out.
the foundation of what this is supposed to be built on is lost. you give the women in a community the power...the community will fall. give RESPONSIBLE men the power in a community...it will thrive.
look at where we are.....fukk boys call the shots and women raise grown boys.
how is marriage ever gonna work when for the most part we dont see examples of successful marriages. or we choose not to pay attention to it because it most be a problem they hiding.
Why you always wana fight me tho? Lol
Lemme rephrase what I said...and ima keep it brief cuz I ain't got time right now...
Men and women don't need each other in the sense that we don't need to settle.
Right now we got time to figure out what we want in life before entering these life long commitments like marriage and kids...and see if we even want em at all. People are getting married and having kids later in life (late 20s-30s) as opposed to earlier.
There's no disagreement about the family being the bedrock of society. But don't put the cart before the horse. I need to be responsible to myself before I can be responsible for a family. And the maturity to choose a partner worthy of my time and energy to build with goes with that responsibility.
i fight with you cause you can take it and give it back.
lol
nah....you cool people an i like your point of view on things.
but most people dont know who they are even when they get old or older.
simply cuz they are too busy trying to be liked and follow the latest fad.
most cant be responsible cause they want what the jones have. but if peter can give it to her then she thinks she has it figured out.
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@LordZuko bout to come in here an ? it.
an he will have very valid points.
an i will agree with him.
he once said a woman loves what you can do for her and a man loves the woman.
that ? is ether for a ? soul cuz its true in most cases. -
count remy wrote: »who the ? cares why she cheats. Tell her to come over, do what you gotta do with her then, send her back to her ? dishes. It's a win win win situation.
unless its yo chick -
heres the thing, in this article that I skimmed, it says thay women want to he sexually satisfied.
here is my issue, as a dude, I'm personally never sexually satisfied ? the same girl after a while no matter how good she is.
she could be a true dime, ? a steak up, and ride ? like a porn star, but after ? her multiple times a week for months, im bored and wont be satisfied regardless of how good she is.
If these women from this article feel like I do, then there isnt anything anyone could do. -
but here is what I could say, a lot of these issues can be solved if people wait until their 30s to get married and have kids.
Optimally it'll be better to find your partner after 30, that means the two parties getting married have lived, seen good and bad, and if they decided to settle, its a decision that comes from living and experience.
Not saying every marriage would work, but a lot of the problems will be solved. -
heres the thing, in this article that I skimmed, it says thay women want to he sexually satisfied.
here is my issue, as a dude, I'm personally never sexually satisfied ? the same girl after a while no matter how good she is.
she could be a true dime, ? a steak up, and ride ? like a porn star, but after ? her multiple times a week for months, im bored and wont be satisfied regardless of how good she is.
If these women from this article feel like I do, then there isnt anything anyone could do.
Over 245 sex positions available and thousands of different scenarios that could be played out in or outside the bedroom (ie: bringing another girl, role play etc.) Only reason people get bored when they have a fruitful sexlife within a coupling is cause they're straight up nymphos. No disrespect. -
2stepz_ahead wrote: »count remy wrote: »who the ? cares why she cheats. Tell her to come over, do what you gotta do with her then, send her back to her ? dishes. It's a win win win situation.
unless its yo chick
nah, after a while, even the simpiest simp will reach the point of, "Oh you going ? some other dude? Does that mean you won't be ? at me about doing the laundry and I can get peace and quiet during the game?" Al Bundy was ahead of his time.
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heres the thing, in this article that I skimmed, it says thay women want to he sexually satisfied.
here is my issue, as a dude, I'm personally never sexually satisfied ? the same girl after a while no matter how good she is.
she could be a true dime, ? a steak up, and ride ? like a porn star, but after ? her multiple times a week for months, im bored and wont be satisfied regardless of how good she is.
If these women from this article feel like I do, then there isnt anything anyone could do.
Over 245 sex positions available and thousands of different scenarios that could be played out in or outside the bedroom (ie: bringing another girl, role play etc.) Only reason people get bored when they have a fruitful sexlife within a coupling is cause they're straight up nymphos. No disrespect.
Cant talk for everybody bruh. And cant talk for the women in this article either.
Im personally a person that gets bores regardless of position.
But im at the age where I know that its not the girl im withs fault, cause ima get bored regardless if I break up with her and find someone new.
So at this age I understand that and in a few years I might even be able to deal with it and stay with a girl.
Thats what comes from experience and living.
Thats why im a huge proponent of people waiting till they are in their 30s.
By your 30s you most likely figured out who you are and are not holding yourself to the standard of who you think you are and know what you want in your partner. -
heres the thing, in this article that I skimmed, it says thay women want to he sexually satisfied.
here is my issue, as a dude, I'm personally never sexually satisfied ? the same girl after a while no matter how good she is.
she could be a true dime, ? a steak up, and ride ? like a porn star, but after ? her multiple times a week for months, im bored and wont be satisfied regardless of how good she is.
If these women from this article feel like I do, then there isnt anything anyone could do.
Over 245 sex positions available and thousands of different scenarios that could be played out in or outside the bedroom (ie: bringing another girl, role play etc.) Only reason people get bored when they have a fruitful sexlife within a coupling is cause they're straight up nymphos. No disrespect.
Porn wired people.
