Dating single moms = woat 75% of the time
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Will Munny wrote: »King_MOEbra wrote: »Will Munny wrote: »King_MOEbra wrote: »Will Munny wrote: »I'm by all accounts, a loser, and even a self-admitted loser like me, can't even find the time to date a single mom. Who are these dudes willing to deal with all that ? ?
You can't help who you're into, or fall in love with.
That's the lamest response ever. Actually yes, when I can get my wiener touched more than one every two weeks there is NO way possible I could be into someone.
That's not with all single mothers.
If I hear "let me see if I can find a sitter" one more ? time...
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"Let me see if I can find a sitter" means she's trying to see if the other guy is available before she makes plans with you.
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Guess it depends on where u live and what options u set urself up for.
There are bad chics out there 25-35 without kids. And most of them are about their $ (no kids to hold them back from making selfish career decisions).
Tried the single mother thing, once the step dad responsibilities started to come about, I bailed
Rofl
Single mom: cinco.....my son needs a .......
Cinco:
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I slept on this thread haha
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? ! Im done...she also said shes clingy and kinda "controlling"
CUT!
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Guess it depends on where u live and what options u set urself up for.
There are bad chics out there 25-35 without kids. And most of them are about their $ (no kids to hold them back from making selfish career decisions).
Tried the single mother thing, once the step dad responsibilities started to come about, I bailed
Hmmm.... definitely gave me something to think about. -
I've never had any issues wit the ones I dated.
Most of them had bd's was ain't s*** and barely in the child's life.
One got along wit their bd after he got remarried (brotha married her former friend he cheated on her wit). Would drop them off at their meet up spot so he can take'em for the weekend...GOAT. Actually still chat wit her every so often.
One got along wit her ex. Continued to do his daddy duties. Claimed she went thru 10 years of hell wit him during their marriage.
Only had one situation where it could've gone critical. One of the ones who bd was ain't s*** showed up at her crib unexpected. We was still bucked naked after smashing in the kitchen. She grabbed a tshirt to put on and just opened the front door. But she kept the screen door locked and closed. So they pretty much was talkin thru the screen. Lol.
I remember him asking her what she doing, why she just got on a shirt, and if she got company. Now I know that ? knew she had company b/c my car was parked right there in the front. She told him none of his business, and he left shortly after. Didn't think anything was gonna jump off, but hey. Never knew. Finished cooking the dinner I made for her and enjoyed the rest of our night.
One got mad b/c I wouldn't give her money to pay for her son's school uniform. Told her "Why don't you ask his daddy?" Why did I said that? This hefa just blew up talmbout "I'M HIS DADDY!! THAT'S WHY!!! Just smh.
Finding a woman wit no kids in her late 20's or in their 30's is like discovering a near extincted species. -
Simplicius wrote: »Guess it depends on where u live and what options u set urself up for.
There are bad chics out there 25-35 without kids. And most of them are about their $ (no kids to hold them back from making selfish career decisions).
Tried the single mother thing, once the step dad responsibilities started to come about, I bailed
Hmmm.... definitely gave me something to think about.
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BeardedFreak wrote: »It's a delicate situation.
The best way to handle a single mom. Is to commit 100%, like a real man. No half stepping. Let her know you there for her and her kid. Help the child with thier homework. Keep the fridge stocked. Maybe knock out a bill or two if you got it like that. Right when they both get attached and rely on you, get ghost and never contact them again.
Too bad the Scumbag Thread is FOF'd. Cuz this post belongs in there. Lol -
the dukester wrote: »Maximus Rex wrote: »the dukester wrote: »I've never had good experiences dating single mom's.
Was smashing this bad joint from the ? Islands. Dark skin with more curves than a snake......She had slanted cat eyes with a huge bubble.
Problem is, she had a lil rug-rat with a "ain't ? " dead beat dad.
Go to her crib to spend the night. I'm going up to her apartment in the elevator, and I notice this ? keeps side eyeing me trying to see what floor I'm going to.
I exit the elevator on her floor, and I notice he peeps his head out to watch me going down the hallway (red flag no.1). I go in her house kicking it with her and I tell her some sucka-ass ? was mean-mugging me in the elevator, and she says, "oh ? !!" That was probably my baby father!!
? starts bamming on the door. Then she tells me this ? got mad guns. I tell her not to open the door, and she tells me to go hide in her son's bedroom. I'm in the room feeling like a sucka, I ask her son "you got any toys with sharp objects?"
"What about some toy guns that look real?" (The kind lil kids like you get shot by cops with) Ole Fisher-Price see & say toy's having Millennial ? !! I decide to jump out the window. I open it up, and look down, and the cars are so small they look like hot wheels and matchbox cars.
Ole Good Times Cabrini Green (temporary layoffs) deluxe apartment in the sky living ass ? !! Her baby daddy still yelling through the door, "imma ? that ? !!" Then somehow, he gets in the house, he starts banging on her son's bedroom door and I grab his big wheel as a weapon.
His son looks at me with a look of bewilderment on face like, "go out there & take your L."
I say ? it. I gotta go out on my shield if I wanna keep banging this broad. I put the big wheel down and get into a boxing stance. Then I hear the cops in the living room (first time ever a ? was glad for their presence).
She comes in the room and apologizes, I tell her it's cool (playing it off, my heart was beating out my chest) I look at her son.....I wanted to tell him ? YOUR FORT!!
Moral of the story.....Single mom's are the woat.
Did still stay the night, get ? and sloppy toppy for your trouble, and have ole girl make you some pancakes, bacon, eggs with cheese, coffee, and freshly squeezed oj in the morning?
Haha, spent have the night playing tekken with her son. Was crushing him with armor king (Suplexing the ? out of him).
Smashed shorty, didn't get sloppy toppy (or breakfast in the morning) but she gave me a stolen credit card, and we went shopping the next day.
As we left the building the next morning, she took the elevator, I took the stairs.
Don't judge me ? .
...and this one too. Lol -
Got a single mom pursuing me right now
How adamant she pursues me be making my ? soft nh -
What gets me are the ones that don't want to date a man that has a kid(s) but get offended when a man says he don't date women with kid(s). "Oh that's wrong you, petty"
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Recaptimus_Prime360 wrote: »One got mad b/c I wouldn't give her money to pay for her son's school uniform. Told her "Why don't you ask his daddy?" Why did I said that? This hefa just blew up talmbout "I'M HIS DADDY!! THAT'S WHY!!! Just smh.
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prime_time_? wrote: »What gets me are the ones that don't want to date a man that has a kid(s) but get offended when a man says he don't date women with kid(s). "Oh that's wrong you, petty"
Few years Ago i took a pic with my niece n this broad i went to school with said "oh i didnt know u had a kid" she didnt believe me...n doesnt do "baby mama drama"
Fast forward this ? a single mom lmaoo makn "guys aint ? meme" IG posts -
Preach!!!!!!! I went through that complications with a chick a couple of years ago but I started to figured out that she was shady later on. Now she is on blind eye whenever she acknowledge my presence -
If you do not have kids yourself I'd suggest you avoid them.
Not all single parents are of the stereotypical variety, but most time is limited, you occupying their attention along with a kid which if she's a good mom you'll never get preferential attention over, and many are sattled with baggage indirectly due to the child.
The women I've met generally do all of the parenting while the father is absentee which sometimes causes resentment and bitterness, generally these women come from similar family situations themselves, and many (not all) don't exhibit characteristics of the best decision making either.
Obviously this does not apply to all single mothers, but finding ones it does not apply to is a ? shoot at times. If you don't have kids find you a woman that doesn't have any and y'all grow into a situation of starting a family instead of playing stepdad to someone else's kids is my suggestion. -
lol, how and why are these women bold enough to ask y'all to do or pay for stuff for their kid(s)
I used to ? with this one chick, single mom, bad chick but kinda young
Had her own place but no car, her life was in shambles
She'd never ask for anything, no type of help, after laying up with her a few times I started feeling bad, so I gave her some game
Told her you're pretty and have a nice body, you do know if you asked, a ? , would do anything for you
She called me a few days later saying she needed money because her lights were going to get cut off and she needed her hair done because her and her girls was going to the lake to kick, I told her "don't worry I got you"
I went to the mall and bought her a lakers cap and a scented candle, dropped em off by her spot and dipped
Never answered her call or text again
Few years later ran into her in traffic, chick told me the game done changed and thanks for the game, she was pushing some ? whip and was living off his dime -
After reading the dukester story. I knew a old coworker that almost got ran off the road by this chick's baby daddy. I've heard so many conflicts from various accounts on how they had altercations with a chick's baby daddy. My upbringing taught a real one to be alert at all times. You have to move with cautious these days & keep a pistol on you when you go over to a chick house because there's no telling what might hit the door. You might engage confrontation with a crazed simp that can't let go of his baby momma & I'm not fighting in a situation like that. I think of 8ball's last verse on Mr. Big. I rather my family visit me in jail than at my gravesite
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I went to the mall and bought her a lakers cap and a scented candle, dropped em off by her spot and dipped
Never answered her call or text again
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The best ones are those who are cool.with starting a family with u.. but i wouldnt date a single mother who jus wants u to be a stepdad to her kids. I saw an episode of divorce court where this dude was buying everything for.his stepkids while his girl.was sleepin around and was unemployed
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Me personally the need to spend time wit them was never an issue. I never put myself over any child. No man or woman should.
They took it upon themselves to squeeze in time, regardless how much of it they had. I left that up to them. If plans changed, I didn't sweat it. -
some of these replies, gotdamn! i almost didnt come in here..
that uncle kzzl ? kinda reminded me of that lil bud bud one in scumbag
so far most of the single moms ive been messin with get the kids part time, either on the weekend or every other week...it works out roster wise..
